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Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Simeonjoe1: 7:56am On Nov 29, 2023
tundebasic:
Nigeria does not pay lower taxes than any other parts of the world, especially for business people. Check out the taxes paid by business people in Nigeria. You will even pay your own personal income tax asides company tax.

It was the past administration that helped by waiving tax (federal tax) for business people that make less than 25m annually.

However, I am not even trying to change your orientation about black tax. But, whether you like it or not, it will continue to be one of the major reasons for propagation of corruption.

That'll now go for the personal context of what the tax is used for? A whole different conversion. By the way even government officials squander tax payers money.

Bro we have the lowest tax to gdp ratio in the world. We hardly do 15% when many countries are above 30%. How can you claim you have a 500bn gdp country and can't raise a revenue of $50bn annually? That's poor and that shows a large sector of our economy is informal as people are less willing to register their business and pay tax to one central government.

Hell even during the early colonial days we've read of riot, protest when colonial masters tried to implement tax systems even if the revenue will be used for public good.
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Simeonjoe1: 8:02am On Nov 29, 2023
femi4:
You are biased

Is finance gender biased? Why didn't you add finance to women list.

Yeah it is.
70-30
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Silentgroper(m): 8:53am On Nov 29, 2023
Wisegeek01:
Here's the opinion you wont see anywhere on the internet . .. and you are hearing it for the first time
Sit tight !!


The phrase what are you brining to the table .. has grossly been misunderstood, some men that even ask the question don't even know why they are asking the question, while on the other hand some women fly into a fit of rage or keep dodging the question, why they are angry they don't even know, its just a psychological impulse,

first of all it is not mandatory for the lady to actually bring finance into the mix but it helps so that should not be the centre of the question, so the men asking and referring to finance really shouldn't do that, focus on what she is supposed to bring

.. its not her job to bring finance, so if you are referring to that you are asking the wrong contextual question, a lady actually has what she should bring to the table, but sadly not a lot of ladies have taken their time to sit down and think about the question, because the are always offended or defensive, its just a simple question, that you need to understand, its not you mdfkn job to bring finance, that is what the man should bring to the table,

what the lady brings to the table .. ranges from
great values
Emotional Intelligence
Attention to Detail
Organizational Skills
Nurture and Care
Empathy and Compassion
Collaborative Spirit
Multitasking Abilities
Intuition
Social Skills
Diplomacy
Support

when you list these features and tell the man you posses these traits
now it's your turn to ask him
what does he bring to the table
...
he should have most of these below
finance
protection
security
Leadership
Decision-Making Skills
Stability
Emotional Support
Problem-Solving Abilities
Initiative
Adaptability
Sense of Humor
Integrity
Shared Responsibilities

marriage or relationship is team effort, not competition
the next time i hear that question in the wrong context I fit flog person cool grin
Females needs to start choosing what kind of relationship they want to have ....

The traditional oriented one

Or the western oriented one ...


One of the two, it's very mandatory she contributes financially..


While the other it's mandatory she's 100% submissive..


No selective pickings from either of the two forms of relationship ... One is picked and it's seen through to the fullest...
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Silentgroper(m): 9:03am On Nov 29, 2023
Wisegeek01:
Here's the opinion you wont see anywhere on the internet . .. and you are hearing it for the first time
Sit tight !!


The phrase what are you brining to the table .. has grossly been misunderstood, some men that even ask the question don't even know why they are asking the question, while on the other hand some women fly into a fit of rage or keep dodging the question, why they are angry they don't even know, its just a psychological impulse,

first of all it is not mandatory for the lady to actually bring finance into the mix but it helps so that should not be the centre of the question, so the men asking and referring to finance really shouldn't do that, focus on what she is supposed to bring

.. its not her job to bring finance, so if you are referring to that you are asking the wrong contextual question, a lady actually has what she should bring to the table, but sadly not a lot of ladies have taken their time to sit down and think about the question, because the are always offended or defensive, its just a simple question, that you need to understand, its not you mdfkn job to bring finance, that is what the man should bring to the table,

what the lady brings to the table .. ranges from
great values
Emotional Intelligence
Attention to Detail
Organizational Skills
Nurture and Care
Empathy and Compassion
Collaborative Spirit
Multitasking Abilities
Intuition
Social Skills
Diplomacy
Support

when you list these features and tell the man you posses these traits
now it's your turn to ask him
what does he bring to the table
...
he should have most of these below
finance
protection
security
Leadership
Decision-Making Skills
Stability
Emotional Support
Problem-Solving Abilities
Initiative
Adaptability
Sense of Humor
Integrity
Shared Responsibilities

marriage or relationship is team effort, not competition
the next time i hear that question in the wrong context I fit flog person cool grin
op .. when you a woman should bring support .. whst do you mean exactly??
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:40am On Nov 29, 2023
Simeonjoe1:


Well that the African way also South America too in fact most part of the world.
The most prosperous in the family will always pay his taxes to the family. In western system its paid to the government who in turn invest in other areas but here you pay into your family. That's the woven of our society, don't be deceive to fully adopt an alienated concept that will cause division between you and your family and its extension because they won't see it as such.

you got no idea of whay you are talking about, you talk without thinking deep, using your concept cant you see that s/he would be double taxed by both family and government
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by jmichael259(m): 10:43am On Dec 01, 2023
The man is the table.
If he hasn't realised this, if he hasn't made the table, if he's unwilling or ignorant on how to organise the table, the union will be a failure.
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Simeonjoe1: 6:24pm On Dec 02, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


you got no idea of whay you are talking about, you talk without thinking deep, using your concept cant you see that s/he would be double taxed by both family and government

Yeah that's why Nigeria shouldn't have fully adopted the western taxing model.
People easily pay tax for a small control group/and cooperation with their direct oversight than paying to a large central government overseeing wide range of demographic. Reason why our tax model isn't working, we are one of the lowest in the world in terms of accruing tax bracket.

The solution? Make tax payments as homogeneous as possible, people should pay tax in the smallest construct as their village to people related in ancestry.
Or in decides on the central tax collection model then lower your taxes% so that the other can be used for family tax.
If I pay 10% to the central government and pay 15% to my family, that's 25% which is low-fair in most part of the world, as some charges up to 45%.

Let Nigeria government try raise any tax and see if the people will comply, we can't because we have black tax to pay, and as long as our socioeconomic conditions persist with majority of the population in poverty as the government remains clueless, expect more black tax relatives known or unknown especially if you're well to do.
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Simeonjoe1: 6:28pm On Dec 02, 2023
ZIMDRILL:


do you understand black tax, black tax is wrong eg its not the duty of the 1st child to send his young brothers to skol, its the parents, lets plan the children we want to have against our productive years meaning your own sweat sends your own children to skol not another child
.

Get money for future dey tell your papa in nigeria- A business man with no pension benefits, no life insurance package, luckly he was able to build his own house, old (60yrs+), no health insurance package, etc that na him responsibility to send your younger ones to school.
Our system is not fixed for this even if it might seems logical to you
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Omola2ulv: 5:43am On Dec 07, 2023
Stop using LOADNG

They only increase price to scam people.



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Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Wisegeek01(m): 6:13pm On Dec 21, 2023
Add it now .. is the lady supposed to spend on the guy .. like is that priority
femi4:
You are biased

Is finance gender biased? Why didn't you add finance to women list.
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by femi4: 9:47pm On Dec 21, 2023
Wisegeek01:
Add it now .. is the lady supposed to spend on the guy .. like is that priority
Where is it written that its only man that should spend on a woman
Re: What Do You Bring To The Table !! by Wisegeek01(m): 7:03am On Jan 02
Add it to your own list ..
femi4:
You are biased

Is finance gender biased? Why didn't you add finance to women list.

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