What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?

Toxic
Time Bomb
Highly Irritant and Irritable

Serpentine spirit.


Most are wrongly indoctrinated.

Make I take cover here

Lack of a male figure.

Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.

They are mostly feminist and hate men
But Las Las them go regret just like their mother

It is men's world whether you like it or not

Toxic and manipulative. They always end up like their mother. The chain of single mom continues. The probability of them giving birth to a girl child is always high.

They like been the head of the family/ relationship

If you can, do your best to avoid them.

They're the same as single mothers, Highly manipulative. Emotionally manipulative, extremely filled with entitlement mentality. They can knack anything knackable, especially those ones that lives with their grandmothers.

In conclusion, they're just like the average Nigerian girls who are parasites and liabilities. avoid them like plague

There's this content creator on facebook called twinz love or something
They aren't toxic and they were raised by single mothers.
Funny enough, most of you guys haven't met them.

Them get daddy's issues




Some of them follow their mama route and end up being a single mother

CandidAdmin:
There's this content creator on facebook called twinz love or something

They aren't toxic and they were raised by single mothers.

Funny enough, most of you guys haven't met them.

Do you really know about them in real life?

First thing that come to my mind is a non-available and run away father

Those single mother are trying, no one is perfect but the real failure is a man who will abandon his kids simply because he fell out with the wife

Single women have a way of tainting the lives of their children with the bitter experience they have in the pasts from men, they just couldn't help it, most of them raise their daughters to be bitter toward men and raise their sons to be a slave for women. Single women raise simps they will teach their sons how to be more obedient toward women and cater to the feelings of women and tell them not to be like their evil fathers that neglected them although some women that are not single does it too. Simps then turn to bad boys like thugs, cultists etc just to get more attention or revenge on women when they realized what their mother taught them isn't working with a painful and bitter experience.

Major part of why most bad guys become bad guys like Yahoo boys, kidnappers, Cultists etc is because of lack of attention from women or to get revenge on women for what women did to them when they were once broke and a Simp, although there are also other factors.

Women are not a good medium to inculcate good values and morals in children because women do what they feel like doing most of the time. As long as they have the desire to do it and they feel like doing it, most women will go ahead with it they lack discipline and restrain unless they have another thing to guide them and restrain them like religion, parents they love and respect and don't want to disappoint especially their father etc but single women teach their daughters not to have respect for their fathers which mean they are removing that restrain or discipline the women may have in the future.

There is a big discipline and restrain in a woman that don't want to disappoint her father or parents expectations especially if her family is a good family. The respect she have for her father will also extend to you if you have a lot of qualities she respect her father for which are mostly good values a man should have which mean she won't want to disappoint you too, she won't even consider you to be her husband if you don't have her father qualities in the first place, most of the good women and good wives we have today have this quality, guys keep your eyes out for this.

most of them are loose due to lack of father figure

There's no rule. Everyone is a product of his or her CHOICES. Agree there are things that influence your choice but it still boils down to u.


In this life I've seen pastor children become most wayward in the society and I've seen a single girl raised by a street prostitute grow up to become a disciplined moral girl.

U need to be more exposed to see life from different angles

TOBILOBA2023:

Do you really know about them in real life?

Very good question!

It's 2023 for Godsake.
You guys should stop this stereotype.
Many of us any had a single parents in our life and we become the best of best in the society while those with both parents upbringing can't stand where we stand.

Fyi, it's still the same men that made these mothers single.

I was on IG few weeks ago, a video on Reels pop up on my page.This lady was crying bitterly and cursing the kidnappers that kidnapped her husband, got ransom money and still killed him.
She just gave birth to Twins.
I can bet the kidnappers are male like the Op.
From the video, this lady make not get married again and focus on the kids.

Though, I won't lie. Fathers play a significant role in a child growth, but when he is not there, won't the child still grow?

As a male, I have few friends who are deadbeats around me.I do fight them a lot from playing their fatherly role.You Dont have to be with the mother of your kids to play your part.

I know of one or two old men begging their kids now for forgiveness because they were not there when the kids needed them.

DEAR MEN, STOP BEING A DEADBEAT!!!!
And to the ladies, be careful out there, Dont let some little money he spent on your open your leg and assume he is responsible.Also, trying to have good character helps build a good relationship with your man.

Wahala

Stop the low class generalisations.

Some of our fathers were terrible as husbands and fathers.

Avoid unnecessary generalisation. Op asked for your experiences.

Some dey so runs

essentialone:
What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?

Toxic
Time Bomb
Highly Irritant and Irritable

toxic

They don't value marriage....always on the defensive

They are brainwashed by their mother that "all men are the same"

eazzzy1:
Ambitious, strong and independent. They grew up seeing their mom’s strength and the need to not rely on anyone.

Thanks for being positive.

They often have trust issues. Unable to feel or show emotions or experience deep love bond. Always afraid of rejection

Honestly I wanted nairaland host to seize their license forever because of how this forum filled with hate and tribalism...
Well, back to the post;
Everyone knows how to love, even single parents. For a fact that someone is a single mother doesn't mean she's bad or a terrible person. She just didn't find the right person or she just wasn't the right person for him. But there's a man for every woman, and only about 1 of 10 get their perfect match.
Now, imagine slandering a lady who was unfortunate to grow up without both parents... isn't that unfair?
That your parents are together, is it because they love each other too much? Or is there a chance things wouldn't have gone south if your dad married his first love? As a man haven't you made relationship errors before? Try asking necessary questions when needed

They always connive with their mum to manipulate the guy or boyfriend

Nicepoker:
Toxic and manipulative. They always end up like their mother. The chain of single mom continues. The probability of them giving birth to a girl child is always high.

Pure truth

Sex can be so cheap with them, don't get too emotionally attached, playing husband to her single mum thereby making her faux emotionally strong, her mum calls the shot, her mum tells her to bill you. If na she con be first born with younger sisters, Omo, she can be manipulative, quarrels with her mother, barely listen to her mother. Na only grace of God fit make her turn out right. My experience tho