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Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Tallesty1(m): 5:32pm On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole:I wanted to blame you severely for endangering her life because if anything had happened to that lady, what you would feel would be 10 times more than what you feel for your loss in trade. Secondly, you are obviously her last caller, and she must have told at least a friend that she was going to your house, so you are the main suspect for whatever happens to her. However, going through the comments, I can see that you are remorseful, so let's let sleeping dogs lie. I don't blame those who have already blamed themselves a lot. Now let me get straight to what I wish to tell you. You have a quick temper, quick but bad. I understand how you already feel, and I know that people react to things differently. For instance, there is a person who would just say, "Wow, you know, that's why I needed you here at this moment. You should have just told me that you can't do it and stayed back home," and that would be the end of it. Work on your temper before it gets you into trouble, and while on it, find other things besides cuddling that will make you feel better when you lose. That way, you will not face multiple disappointments. Humans will always disappoint you. Work on your anger, bro. You know, once you master your feelings, both the ones you feel in your heart and your prick, once you can control them, you become a god. Finally, that lady came for cuddling and was ready to cuddle until you reminded her why she was in your house. Don't do it again. Next time she comes for cuddling and is already in bed with you. Just stop talking and cuddle. 5 Likes |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by MrGerald(m): 5:47pm On Mar 24 |
For coming over and chatting with you alone is enough to get over your sorrow, not cuddling or penetrating her which was your utmost intention. You appeared like a beast 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by AyobamiOluwole: 5:53pm On Mar 24 |
Thank you all for your well thought-out advice. Some feel what I did is right with regards to her not keeping up with her agreement some feel otherwise. But majority agrees that it is not the right thing to send her out at that time of the night. For some saying I wanted sex, I swear down that I wasn't in any mood to have sex with my frustrating situation. I simply needed comfort or whatever name I could call it. Most importantly my anger is so bad that I can be heartless unnecessarily. I regret doing that and I am begining to get over the whole thing since she is alive and nothing happened to her. I have learnt my lessons. I sent her WhatsApp messages apologizing since she refused to pick my calls but she replied with insults. After that, I have deleted her number and our chats and hopefully her chapter is closed and life goes on. Thanks once again guys ✌️ 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by themanderon: 7:09pm On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole: You are very selfish and wicked for sending her away during that unholy hour of the night. What is the guarantee that the cuddling won't lead to something else? You are very funny. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Fantazy(m): 7:28pm On Mar 24 |
AyobamiOluwole: You no serious! Why didn't you ask her out formally and stop pretending. If she accept fine, if she doesn't then you move on and stop doing favour for her. She might think you just want to be using her to pass time. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Badmashiii: 7:51pm On Mar 24 |
folake4u: Exactly. All girls don't like to be "anybody's fool" but will love other men to be foolish for them. The op is the fool here for doing all favors without getting something in return. Personally i don't do favors for girls. Why? Some get entitled and demand more favors while some see sex as the only best compensation they can give you. I could only do favor for you if I'm absolutely sure there could be something tangible i could possibly get,whether now or in the future. Nobi one kind mumu sex. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Akuruoulo(m): 7:56pm On Mar 24 |
eddynaira125: A simp. Can do this too |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by horia: 8:20pm On Mar 24 |
folake4u: All these comments are because of unearned entitlements mindset Follow the storyline At this point you are clowning my love |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by folake4u(f): 8:23pm On Mar 24 |
horia: You're the one clowning actually. Don't flip it on me. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by horia: 8:24pm On Mar 24 |
folake4u: Ok |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by folake4u(f): 8:28pm On Mar 24 |
Badmashiii: If you do favours for people without expecting sex in return, that is absolutely fine. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Badmashiii: 8:37pm On Mar 24 |
folake4u: Exactly. i must be sure of getting something valuable in return before i could consider doing favor for anybody. Man or woman. And on my scale of values,"pussy" ranks among the lowest. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by folake4u(f): 8:58pm On Mar 24 |
Badmashiii: Sex is cheap. Can be gotten anywhere and everywhere. Wise choice. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Panda7(m): 9:29pm On Mar 24 |
If anything happens to her or get apprehended by security force on the road, just believe your apartment isn't safe for you |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ezeifeduba: 9:32pm On Mar 24 |
Hmmmmmm. You did well and the right thing |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Ezeifeduba: 9:35pm On Mar 24 |
In all, you both didn't commit any sin. She agreed to come for that reason and refused to do it. It's good you let her go. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by TikiManner: 9:57pm On Mar 24 |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by TikiManner: 9:58pm On Mar 24 |
God. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by fineberry(m): 10:45pm On Mar 24 |
Op your matter get as e bi. Do you want relationship with the 'said' lady.... Yes Or No. 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by obi58: 6:42am On Mar 25 |
funkemary: Then why did she go to the house when the guy clearly told her he wanted to cuddle? He didn't leave anything for the girl to assume. He told her what he wanted and she agreed! It's like you don't understand the meaning of cuddle. The guy wanted romance ni! He wanted them to be lovey dovey in each others arms and the girl came! Is that not asking for trouble? |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by funkemary(f): 11:28am On Mar 25 |
obi58: I got it perfectly well. Remember this is not the first time she's coming over without them having anything together. I'm sure if he had spoken well she'd have willingly agree to whatever he wants 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by imagrg(m): 4:07pm On Mar 25 |
Don't hurt any woman in such a manner again. Love her above your emotions. The woman is a mother figure to you. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by uche393: 9:25pm On Mar 25 |
you fuckkkkked up big time, first you didn't bring in romance from the onset of knowing her while you kept giving her the just friends vibes. how can you just tell a person you've not banggged before or had any form of intimacy to come to your house and give you cuddle? you could have called the other options you have to come and satisfy your needs the girl too Na Mumu....if Na me I won't come. if you want to keep a girl as just a friend do it and don't compromise it. to knack the girl dey hungry you and you come dey treat am as sister 1 Like |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Gerrard59(m): 5:30am On Mar 26 |
folake4u: On this topic, we agree to disagree. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by folake4u(f): 5:53am On Mar 26 |
Gerrard59: Okay then. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Inyaky(f): 9:17am On Mar 26 |
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Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by thomasjoe(m): 5:41am On Mar 27 |
Kindly remember that many people especially females are very manipulative and Selfish...They will do all to lead you on to their advantage ,collect all they can and still not share themselves with you . This is very common especially amongst single females . I guess you now realize who the joke is on? obi58: |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by obi58: 6:08am On Mar 27 |
thomasjoe: Well I guess the joke is on the girl because she was kicked out into the cold without transport fare and a replacement called in pronto |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Yamleg: 6:52am On Mar 27 |
AyobamiOluwole:Guy, no let anyone whyne you. Let her fxck away. She's a parasite. She was aware of what you called her for. Sorry for the funds you have thrown away on the parasite. You are a big fxxl as well for feeling like a 7 year old prxck. |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Yamleg: 8:36am On Mar 27 |
UnknownQueen:Could you please interpret? |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Yamleg: 9:34am On Mar 27 |
AyobamiOluwole:Oponu ni Iwo boyi seh. Omo walori bed pelu Ee, you reminded her about the schedule but she declined because she knows you to be a phooL. You still dey call her For what? |
Re: I Sent Her Out Of My House Late In The Night: Did I Do The Right Thing? by Kdon2: 7:28am On Mar 28 |
[quote author=Chukerokeke90 post=129078297][/quote] Chukerokeke90 abeg go and rest. We know the tribal jingoists in chief in Nigeria ☹️ |
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