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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45: 9:13pm On Apr 14
AcadaWriter:
No1 Question..Do u watch porn??
no I don't
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by flokii: 9:14pm On Apr 14
@OP You don't need advice, you need to work hard and become successful.. this is not 1940 when ladies built their lives with promising young men, the world don spoil.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Skooltynz: 9:15pm On Apr 14
Dey play
Broke guys dey knack plenty kpekus like say na
Water and garri na you dey dull yourself, just say you fear rejection and you lack self-esteem
Let me tell you a secret about women once she loves you genuinely nothing else matters you can even knack a yahoo boys babe if she loves you women value emotions over money.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by PartnerusIsBack: 9:24pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

At 26, you should be more concerned in making your life better in all ramification and chasing women should be the least on your mind at this point. Try to lay a solid foundation be it in any skill or knowledge whatsoever. That way, you get to attract reasonable women that will add better value to your life than you doing the chasing. Hope you will listen to this honest advice. Thanks

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by tochez24(m): 9:28pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me


They will avoid you bro so forget about girls and relationships for now and hustle, when you finally make money!!!!

When you make money, they will all come to you with their fake love, but please..

1. Only date/marry virgin girls⚠️
2. Only date/marry financially stable girls⚠️
3. Only date/marry educated or skilled girls⚠️

Use these 3 qualities to sensor the girls that you allow into your life by then bro!!! Show no girl empathy or mercy💀💀

Do not ever settle for less, leave damaged girls for SIMPs💯

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by eedhrisademola(m): 9:32pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me
QUI CERA CERA!
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by FRANCISTOWN: 9:33pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
5ft8
Haha! You no bad now.

Shey you slim abi you build small?
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ayjay45: 9:35pm On Apr 14
FRANCISTOWN:

Haha! You no bad now.

Shey you slim abi you build small?
my pics is on my profile

Slim I think
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Lawly: 9:49pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Lolz. Na you dey find serious relationship.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Chris2863(m): 10:00pm On Apr 14
marlow1962:
Sorry boss.
But the same way you're broke and lonely, pls make sure when everything starts working right, you won't be dying for another man's daughter.
Reason why I said that is, guys that are broke and lonely (no relationship) once they start making money, they start reasoning the biggest yansh to date, forgetting that if they were still broke, the biggest yansh won't even reason them 1%. that's a bitch ass boys move.
so, who should they reason?
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Cassandraloius: 10:07pm On Apr 14
Avoid anything that has to do with that gender until you're financially bouyant and ready to be in a committed relationship.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by CharlotteFlair: 10:08pm On Apr 14
A broke guy is not entitled to an erection.

Eyecum in peace ✌️

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Johnwrite(m): 10:19pm On Apr 14
Lol 😂😂 what happened
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by ukaface(f): 10:34pm On Apr 14
Then leave girl and make money

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Geovanni412(m): 11:00pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

You dey funny

Otedola son wey dey autistic fit dey wish say Im normal

Money is very important but it is not
everything

If you are broke, find a girl that understands your situation and try not to get her pregnant until you are ready to carry the burden a bit

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by T0BY(m): 11:02pm On Apr 14
Of all the issues in life, this is what is bothering you? Bro. Leave woman and hustle, improve yourself. Unless you want an embarrassment from naija ladies as a result of empty wallet.
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by meobizy(f): 11:54pm On Apr 14
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me
Do giveaway. What is that your shoe size again?
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by meobizy(f): 12:09am On Apr 15
ABMC:
The first thing to realize is that money does not guarantee happiness or love. While financial stability is important, it is not the only factor that leads to a successful relationship.

Here are some tips that can help boost confidence and improve the chances of finding a meaningful relationship:

1) Work on building self-esteem: This can be achieved through self-care, self-improvement, and positive self-talk. Exercise, eat healthy, practice good hygiene, develop a skill, explore a new hobby, etc. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on your strengths and accomplishments.

2) Learn to communicate effectively: It is important to express feelings and thoughts clearly and honestly. Practice active listening and be open-minded. Engage in conversations with women you admire and show interest in their lives.

3) Focus on building meaningful connections: Seek out women who share your values and interests. Build connections based on commonalities and shared experiences rather than solely on material possessions.

4) Take risks: It is okay to feel vulnerable and take risks. This can mean asking someone out, expressing feelings, or trying new things. Remember that rejection is not a reflection of your self-worth, and it can lead to new opportunities and growth.

Remember that confidence is attractive, and it can take time and practice to develop it. Focus on building a positive self-image, communicating effectively, and building meaningful connections with others.
ChatGPT.

My God. You children are so lazy.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by frozen70(f): 12:44am On Apr 15
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Your mind set is already programmed that a lady can only accept your relationship with you having money

That means don't just go into any relationship till you get the money

But let me tell you that every shoe have size, so look for your class and tune her according to your level so that she will not demand of something your account balance can not afford
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Omoawoke: 2:32am On Apr 15
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Bro, you have been born already, fight for your survival…develop yourself, keep focus and leave woman for now.
See! I like woman I no go lie, but just focus on yourself and before you know it, you begin to progress and you see plenty beautiful girls will be so easy for u. You can fvk as many as you want
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Omoawoke: 2:33am On Apr 15
frozen70:


Your mind set is already programmed that a lady can only accept your relationship with you having money

That means don't just go into any relationship till you get the money

But let me tell you that every shoe have size, so look for your class and tune her according to your level so that she will not demand of something your account balance can not afford

Will you date a broke guy? Answer is no!
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by DyingFetus: 7:33am On Apr 15
Approach intelligent and autistic girls not brain dead girls with big yansh

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by VinnyBaba: 7:45am On Apr 15
OP, You are on the right part.👍

Be PROUD of your decision. smiley

Since you have not Put your Finances together, there's NO Need for you to be in a Relationship,
UNLESS THE GIRL'S FATHER IS RICH or She is the one Begging you to befriend Her. sad smiley
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by marlow1962(m): 8:13am On Apr 15
Chris2863:
so, who should they reason?
Reason who dy for you/who help you when you no get shit.

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Mikespecialone(m): 8:13am On Apr 15
UpTown001:



But did u read where op just said he doesn't have money?

And you didn’t read what he posted too , or shey sleep still dey ur eye nii ?
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Peakdesign23(m): 10:23am On Apr 15
You no get money and relationship dey your eyes, who does that?
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Everydaylove: 10:42am On Apr 15
Even when you made the money which seems to be your definition of good self image girls will take advantage of you and not truly love u. Politely make friends. Just hello will not kill u. Engage in meaningful conversations, dress well and smell good. Groom your facial face. Look into their eyes when talking. Don't chase her too much but make good FIRST good impression.
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by okoroemeka(m): 8:23pm On Apr 15
ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me
you are still wishing and dreaming of riches without making any effort,good luck
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by Jesterinjay: 11:34am On Apr 16
ayjay45:
I was thinking of engaging in only sexual relationships and avoiding long term relationships. Is this also a good idea?
They still involve women
Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by NEUDUDE: 11:47am On Apr 16
if you like get money like otedola. Money no fit buy love, women go still use you for money.

Forget women, hustle, make money and be shot caller. Na you go they call the shot, do wetin go benefit you, women go be your play thing. Love is overrated, who love epp.

The true love from your mama, papa and siblings, suppose do you if not and you dey find a strange woman love lol. Your name na sorry grin

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by spencekat(m): 11:52am On Apr 16
tochez24:



They will avoid you bro so forget about girls and relationships for now and hustle, when you finally make money!!!!

When you make money, they will all come to you with their fake love, but please..

1. Only date/marry virgin girls⚠️
2. Only date/marry financially stable girls⚠️
3. Only date/marry educated or skilled girls⚠️

Use these 3 qualities to sensor the girls that you allow into your life by then bro!!! [/b]Show no girl empathy or mercy[b]💀💀

Do not ever settle for less, leave damaged girls for SIMPs💯
👍

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Re: This Is The Reason I Don't Approach Girls Anymore. Pls Advise by zicol2015: 4:23pm On Apr 16
Sapasenator:


How does that relates to anything. Billionaires with multiple girlfriends watch porns. What are you on about?

Bros, dey dia dey deceive urself .


porn will deal with u bitterly.


Stop Watching it for 21days only if u can and be sincere with urself. U will understand what i am talking abt

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