Czar-Chris:

@op, which planet have you been on   .BTW ain't nothing like love so wake up already . Now with that out of the way, bro seriously ever ask your self why a responsible looking, fine as hell chick would go out with womanizing, tattoo bearing(no offense brothers I also have a tattoo ), rough toutish looking dude than that God-fearing, decent brother? The answer is there, chicks dig confident, exciting, adventous dudes. Why? mostly to feel protected, to cover up their inferiority complex issues and youthful exuberance. No chick within the danger line(i.e 28yrs and above can do that  again because its time to carry their "body of experience" to an unfortunate decent hard-working guy to marry. . Nice guys always finish last. Now if you want that girls' attention,give her competeion, works everytime trust me

Czar-Chris:

@op, which planet have you been on   .BTW ain't nothing like love so wake up already . Now with that out of the way, bro seriously ever ask your self why a responsible looking, fine as hell chick would go out with womanizing, tattoo bearing(no offense brothers I also have a tattoo ), rough toutish looking dude than that God-fearing, decent brother? The answer is there, chicks dig confident, exciting, adventous dudes. Why? mostly to feel protected, to cover up their inferiority complex issues and youthful exuberance. No chick within the danger line(i.e 28yrs and above can do that  again because its time to carry their "body of experience" to an unfortunate decent hard-working guy to marry. . Nice guys always finish last. Now if you want that girls' attention,give her competition, works everytime trust me

Merinoz:

It's sad but that is the law of attraction. What I'm learning to do is to love those who love me but the lady must be nice and presentable to some extent then I make the best out of our relationship, make her the queen she deserves and show her she's not making a mistake in loving me.

kimberluge:

@OP How come guys Never Love d gal dat loves dem?^GBAM!!

chmod777:

Please do not generalize and do not stereotype. Experiences and individuals differ. My girl friend does not just love me, she is crazy in love and I too love her. I will sure marry her soonest cos she has passed all my stealth personality test.

Sagamite:

I think a lot of the early posters misunderstood the OP.

He is not saying because you love someone then the perosn should love you.

He is indirectly saying, women explicitly tend to want guys to care about them and treat them right. But yet will often choose the guy they know is not crazy about them over a guy that is head over hills for them.

And then when the guy they chose breaks their heart, they then start screaming men are "Baaastard", when na them go dey pick wahala and complain when they see wahala.

Sagamite:

I think a lot of the early posters misunderstood the OP.

He is not saying because you love someone then the perosn should love you.

He is indirectly saying, women explicitly tend to want guys to care about them and treat them right. But yet will often choose the guy they know is not crazy about them over a guy that is head over hills for them.

And then when the guy they chose breaks their heart, they then start screaming men are "Baaastard", when na them go dey pick wahala and complain when they see wahala.

Saga BABA where u on a bottle of VK while u wrote that

190_@:

Saga BABA where u on a bottle of VK while u wrote that

datemax:

there are so many reasons, two of them are

1 Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.


2 Giving Up Your Status In Exchange For Her Attention And Approval

This is one thing that both annoys women and DESTROYS a guy's chances with them.

when a man wants to date a woman and his body language say "Hi, I want your approval and attention. I'm willing to let YOU be the one who's in control, and let YOU call the shots, and do anything to please YOU, if you'll give me your attention and approval".

this is the body language of most men

But the problem is that women DON'T WANT men to give up their status and "manliness".

Women are not attracted to men who act weak and tentative.

Women secretly HATE IT when a guy does something to demonstrate that he'll give away his power in return for approval.


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Blood_Shed:

I always laugh when I see these women in "abusive" relationships, always defending and loving the men who whoop their a$$e$ and mop the floor with them.

And people always try to justify this by saying "oh, love is blind" and any other excuse of the sort.

I'm not an abusive person but towards females I'm very unreliable, dismissive, not very open, and often ignore them, and that's what drives them NUTS. They keep coming back.

Yes, most women have this backwards mentality, but as long as I get what I need I'm out, since I'm never looking for a relationship/marriage/starting a family etc.