AqRiUs Age:

wow! look what Nigerian economy has turned its citizens to!

But this is funny

How can a man desert his family and home over papers

i can never do that - anyway may i not find myself in such a situation

what is he thinkin, coming home one day to plead with his wife

his wife is even dumb, not hearing from her husband - nothing - and carrying on as if life is OK

Well what can i expect from an SSCE dropout

smoke ice:

This happens in home movies, but never felt it cud happen to our family. my sister and this guy ve been married for 19yr.They ve 3 children age 14 ,9 and 5 respectively. The guy onced worked wit an American Oil company(though an SSCE holder,due to oil community level influence) and sent to US for training bt only to drop him on return 2 9ja.He ws devastated. He used part of his pay off to build a self contain and travel back 2 US in search of job,while the wife ws pregnant with their last child. Initially he ws calling bt the frequency gradually reduced and finally his phone ws nt reachable. the wife thought something bad had happen to him. No word from him since the past 3yrs! His elder brother working in NNPC hs bn paying for the children welfare and school.Jst yesterday while going through Facebook, I typed his native surname, saw his name and several of his relatives along side a white woman wit the same surname. His profile ws nt accessable bt tha of the woman was, I checked her photo albums lo and behold my inlaw playing with her 2 white children and a picture of their marriage! She is a divorced woman wit 2 children. Surprinsingly the "caring  elder" brother sent them a congratulatory msg! These are my thoughts;
1. He needed papers 2 get a job, so he married a white woman,send money via the brother to take care of his children.
2.The white woman may knw he has wife and children bt may nt care(recall mercy Johnson saga) OR
3. IF my sister gets 2 her, she may leave my inlaw maybe get him arrested or he may lose his privileges. which will affect his children education, since my sister is also an SSCE holder and does petty trade.
Dont laugh, I actually saw this revelation while wit my "wife 2 be" and I plan traveling 2 Canada soon. Now my madam says I am nt going anywhere without her. She must be by my  side right from DAY 1!She says my "eyes no pure"  (LWKMD)!!!
Seriously I am kind of confuse as to how best to help my sister. some one suggested  "let sleeping dog lie" bt I can see her pain and loneliness, while her hubby dey flex with one fat wowo white woman! Nlders pls help.

@OP

What has MJ's saga got to do with aught? Or did her husband(Odi) marry a white woman?. . .Hogwash!

Indeed. . .a very burlesque script similar to that of Mr Bean, only diff is that Mr Bean's more original.

Tut tut!

Iya ctjs:

, so what, if the "FAT WHITE" doesn`t know, that hes married back home?

Eiregirl:

Are you trying to say that all white women are fat? Bullshit. Are there no FAT BLACK women? Arrow!

Calm down, Ma'am. I am sure he didn't mean that. . .

Yorisb:



Calm down, Ma'am. I am sure he didn't mean that. . .

Eiregirl:

I am calm! All of the topics that discuss black men with white women refer to the white women as fat, ugly & old? WTF

I'm not oblivious of such prejudicial topics/comments. . .Just don't let it bother you.

For some peeps, notoriety-c[i]u[/i]m-ignorance apparently fills the void where their decorum should be. . .

Sorry, I digressed?!?!

Yorisb:

I'm not oblivious of such prejudicial topics/comments. . .Just don't let it bother you.

For some peeps, notoriety-c[i]u[/i]m-ignorance apparently fills the void where their decorum should be. . .

Sorry, I digressed?!?!

Yorisb:

It's well, ma'am.

smoke ice:


Seriously I am kind of confuse as to how best to help my sister. some one suggested  "let sleeping dog lie" bt I can see her pain and loneliness, while her hubby dey flex with one fat wowo white woman! Nlders pls help.

Eiregirl:

I am calm! All of the topics that discuss black men with white women refer to the white women as fat, ugly & old? WTF

Jenifa_:

I don't believe this is a true story.
If it was a true story, you won't think twice before you tell your sister what's going on.


because they tend to be. d guy said he saw a "fat ugly white woman" in d facebook pics.
do pictures lie?

desperation leads people to such acts

Eiregirl:

ALL white women tend to be fat, ugly & old PLEASE!!!!!!!

Iya ctjs:

The only whos not responsible, is that man, who doesn`t tell his Wife back home that he is going to marry again, either Way his reason!