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Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 11:46am On Dec 14, 2011
Romance Doctors of Nairaland! I dey hail all of una.
Pls eh, what does this mean when a guy cries for the babe during break-up in relationships?

Cry as in >>> cry cry

Is it a sign of weakness?

A sign of love??

Pls, gimme your views on this matter.

Will really appreciate, Docs.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by 195(f): 11:48am On Dec 14, 2011
sign of love

i'll neva cry ova wat i dont love

breaking up is painful and people tend 2 accept it in different ways

some take to drinkin

some cry

so my opinion stands that its a strong sign of love
embarassed embarassed
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by bekay911(f): 11:50am On Dec 14, 2011
D man is weak. So if na u dat means u r weak. Hahahhahaha
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by xynerise: 11:50am On Dec 14, 2011
@op. It means that he has spent his hard earned savings on this gal.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 11:54am On Dec 14, 2011
xynerise:

@op. It means that he has spent his hard earned savings on this gal.
A case where there is no hard money spent, that means if hard money was spent, na kill e for kill d babe.


so will i call that true love?
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by mashnino(m): 12:01pm On Dec 14, 2011
the guy loves her so much
the girl hurt him so much
the has gone thru thick and thin for the girl
the guy is thinking how is he gonna have a gal like her again
the guy is scared he is gonna be lonely
the guy doesn't ve much female friends to help with the after break-up drama.


i think that's all i can say
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 12:16pm On Dec 14, 2011
mashnino:

the guy loves her so much
the girl hurt him so much
the has gone thru thick and thin for the girl
the guy is thinking how is he gonna have a gal like her again
the guy is scared he is gonna be lonely
the guy doesn't ve much female friends to help with the after break-up drama.



i think that's all i can say
91%. . . wink
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Beync(f): 12:20pm On Dec 14, 2011
It's not a weakness, It's his heart felt expression. abe man na firewood?
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by 195(f): 12:21pm On Dec 14, 2011
Beync:

It's not a weakness, It's his heart felt expression. abe man na firewood?
undecided undecided
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by freecocoa(f): 12:26pm On Dec 14, 2011
Its everything you can think of but WEAKNESS.it could even be I dey cry on your behalf cos wetin I go do you eh,me sef go feel am.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Vicjustice: 12:27pm On Dec 14, 2011
Vikin:

Romance Doctors of Nairaland! I dey hail all of una.
Pls eh, what does this mean when a guy cries for the babe during break-up in relationships?

Cry as in >>> cry cry

Is it a sign of weakness?

A sign of love??

Pls, gimme your views on this matter.

Will really appreciate, Docs.
  IN MOST CASES, IN NIGERIA, IT IS A SIGN OF GREED, WANTING TO HAVE THE GIRL TO ADD TO OTHERS
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Beync(f): 12:32pm On Dec 14, 2011
190_@:

undecided undecided
wat's d face 4
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by tellwisdom: 12:35pm On Dec 14, 2011
Bro, when a guy cries after breakup. 2 THINGS ARE INVOLVED. Either he dey cry sey d money for boobbss sucking don expire or em MONEY DON GO 00 cry cry 000 undecided undecided
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by 195(f): 2:10pm On Dec 14, 2011
Beync:

wat's d face 4
embarassed embarassed
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Beync(f): 2:57pm On Dec 14, 2011
freeze jor
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by kokoye(m): 3:04pm On Dec 14, 2011
It is not a sign of weakness.

It just shows you care about her and feel sad that she's leaving you . . .that's all.

I shed tears when my wife had a 7-month miscarriage and was also at the point of death. Imagine some Nigerian lady at the hospital said I was behaving like a lady!

One look from me and she got on her knees and started apologizing for what she said.

who cares what people think? I dont live for them.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by 195(f): 3:33pm On Dec 14, 2011
kokoye:

It is not a sign of weakness.

It just shows you care about her and feel sad that she's leaving you . . .that's all.

I shed tears when my wife had a 7-month miscarriage and was also at the point of death. Imagine some Nigerian lady at the hospital said I was behaving like a lady!

One look from me and she got on her knees and started apologizing for what she said.

who cares what people think? I dont live for them.


embarassed embarassed
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 3:45pm On Dec 14, 2011
Romance Docs, based on your explanation i award these marks
190 = 30%
bakey911  = 0%
xynerise = 20%
mashnino = u sabi book o, but i give you 71%
beyonce = u didnt answer the question, offpoint!!0%
Freecocoa = 0% answer the question angry angry
sexkillx = stop copying and answer the question.

Thats why i consulted yall.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 3:54pm On Dec 14, 2011
Chei a mugu don spend im whole six months salary on a babe oooooo
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by 195(f): 4:07pm On Dec 14, 2011
OP

Ure confused and yet u are awarding marks

ure not serious undecided undecided
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 4:13pm On Dec 14, 2011
I cried the day Freecocoa left cry

I laughed in Dutch when Slimyem threatened to leave grin
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 14, 2011
@poster
it means absolutely nothing. some men let go of their emotions while other dont because they automatically think that they will be viewed as "weak" by their peers. . . . . . .  even though they ARE at a weak period of their lives! when you get a sudden rush of emotional pain (or joy) then you may cry. its no different than the guy who would cry of joy, is he weak?
to some, the emotional pain is just to strong, too painful, and they cant help but shed tears. . . . . . . . . and there is NOTHING wrong with that!

now remember, unless the guy didnt love that gal, if he gets dumped he MUST feel emotionally down. nobody celebrates (like its Xmas) when the gal they love dump them. we may all try to pretend but the reality is that we will be hurt. hurt=pain, pain=tears.

its our egos that stops us from crying in front of the world, so many act tough with "i dont care" attitude, then go home and cry. many out there live their whole life putting this fake front image of being tough, just to be regarded as what they are NOT by their peers.
to each their own!
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 10:02pm On Dec 14, 2011
No circumstance has ever broke me down until my split from my previous relationship. I weep uncountrollable like a kid but that doesnt mean i am weak. It shows the degree of responsiveness to the failed relationship. I cried because all sacrifices put into the relationship has gone down the drain. It akin to an 8 storey building under construction collapsing to foundation levels before its owner.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by freecocoa(f): 10:25pm On Dec 14, 2011
OP you for tell me say na the final paper for my degree exam I dey write na,wey you dey score me.

How am I supposed to know why that particular guy was crying?you've been given some reasons of which what I wanted to write was among,all I know is that crying isn't a sign of weakness.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Dynamique: 11:50pm On Dec 14, 2011
It depends on the mental&emotional strength of d individual,coz dis two factors vary from person to person,but personally,i define crying as a way of expressing emotions,as a man,i dont believe in using tears to xpress emotion coz i wont cry 4a woman who broke my heart,rada i wud seek succour in my inner strength.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Agybabe(f): 12:04am On Dec 15, 2011
Cry because u will miss her kinda lady, special and unique.

Don't cry if u are fed up already but be sober!
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by slimyem: 12:15am On Dec 15, 2011
Ijogz K:

I cried the day Freecocoa left cry

I laughed in Dutch when Slimyem threatened to leave grin

in your delusional mind!
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 15, 2011
Apart from death nothing else on earth worth crying for trust me.
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by cynthiafred67(f): 10:59am On Dec 15, 2011
REALITY101:

Apart from death nothing else on earth worth crying for trust me.

Really?? shocked shocked
Re: Romance Docs, Answer Me Pls! by pendo89(f): 2:25pm On Dec 15, 2011
Must watch! It will make you cry like youv never done.
Warning:Graphic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bgxj0WMRwDY&feature=related

grin grin grin cheesy cheesy

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