This is directed mainly at the ladies on the forum, but hey guys are welcomed to contribute:

You meet a man who tells you he was involved in homosexual relationship(s) in the past, but he no longer subscribes to that lifestyle. Whether we accept it or not, there are many people out there hoping and praying for their son, brother, friend --- etc to turn around, but how does society view/receive such people afterwards? Would you have any reservations about dating or marrying such a man? And if so, why?

P.S:  This thread is not intended to bash gay people. I believe everyone is entitled to their views on homosexuality. My stand is that I disagree with the practice but I don't hate the "person", so spare me the "homophobic  lecture"!!! This is a reality of life which some people may have to deal with one day, so let's be mature in our responses.
Thank you.

Hmm, I'm by no means homophobic either, but if I was a lady, I could not marry a "reformed" homosexual. I suppose he was gay for a reason - either he never developed relationships with females, or he was born that way, I have no idea.

But at the back of my mind will be lurking the possibility he would not be satisfied with me as a woman, and he'll revert to his previous lifestyle.

It's a chance I don't care to take.

If I were a female, no! Don't believe in the "gender bender" theory. I believe in sticking to your own kind! There is enough to go around.  I am sure everyone can find partners of their choice.  No problems with that at all. Whatever rocks one's world--go for it!

Siena:


But at the back of my mind will be lurking the possibility he would not be satisfied with me as a woman, and he'll revert to his previous lifestyle.

@ Siena:
I feel exactly thesame way---- but I also can't help feeling that it's a "double standard". Because on the one hand, I would be pleased to see that a brova has changed his ways, but then again, I will find it hard to completely ignore his past---- Well, I suppose there are women out there who wouldn't mind, so he just has to find one---- Come on ladies, let's hear your views!

hmmmmmmm
coming back. I need to think.




don't quote pls