White Woman's Opinion of Black Women & a brother's
response. Please take a moment and read this. Pretty Deep!
Thumbs up to this
black man. Enjoy.

It seems that an article was written to Sister 2 Sister
magazine by a
Caucasian woman who requested a response from black
men. I'm so glad
she got what she asked for
(and more) !!!

Dear Jamie: I'm sorry but I would like to challenge some of your
Black male
readers. I am a White female who is engaged to a Black male-
good-looking,
educated and loving. I just don't understand a lot of
Black female's
attit udes about our relationship. My man decided he wanted me because the pickings
amongst Black women
were slim to none. As he said they were either too fat,
too loud, too
mean, too argumentative, too needy, too materialistic or
carrying too much excess baggage. Before I became engaged, whenever I went out I was
constantly
approached by Black men, willing to wine and dine me
and give me the world.

If
Black women are so up in arms about us being with
their men, why don't they look at themselves and make some changes. I am tired of the dirty looks I get and snide remarks
when we're out in
public. I would like to hear from some Black men about
why we
are so
appealing and coveted by them.

Bryant Gumbel just left his wife of 26 years for one of
us Charles
Barkley, Scottie Pippen, the model Tyson Beckford,
Montell Williams,
Quincy Jo nes, James Earl Jones, Harry Belafonte,
Sydney Poitier, Kofi Anan, Cuba Gooding Jr., Don Cornelius , Berry Gordy,
Billy Blanks, Larry
Fishburne, Wesley Snipes, I could go on and on.

But, right now, I'm a little angry
and that is
why I wrote this so hurriedly. Don't be mad with us
White women because so
many of your men want us. Get your acts together and
learn from us and we may lead you to treat your men better. If I'm wrong,
Black men, let
me know.

Disgusted White Girl, Somewhere in VA

RESPONSE

Dear Jamie: I would like to respond to the letter written by A
Disgusted White
Girl. Let me start by saying that I am a 28-year old black
man. I graduated
from one of the most prestigious universities in
Atlanta , Georgia with
a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Business Management. I
have a good job a t a major corporation and have recently purchased a
house. So, I
consider
myself to be among the ranks of successful black men.

I will not use my precious time to slander white people. I just want to
set the record straight of why black men date white
women. Back in the
day, one of the biggest reasons why black men dated
white women was because they were considered easy. The black girls in my neighborhood were raised in the
church. They were
very strict about when they lost their virginity and who
they lost it
to. Because of our impatience to wait, brothers would
look for someone who would give it up easy without too much hassle. So,
they turned to
the white girls.

Nowadays, in my opinion, a lot of brothers date
white , women because
they are docile and easy to control. A lot of black men,
because of
insecurities, fears, and overall weaknesses, have become
intimidated by the strength of our black women. We are afraid that
our woman will be
more successful than
us, make more money than us, drive nicer cars and
own bigger houses. Because of this fear, many black
men look for a more docile woman. Someone we can control.

I have talked to numerous black men and they
continuously comment on
how easy it is to control and walk over their white
women. I just want to
set the record straight. I want A Disgusted White Girl
to know that not all successful b lack men date white women. Brothers like Ahmad Rashad, Denzel Washington,
Michael Jordan, Morris
Chestnut, Will Smith, Blair Underwood, Kenneth
'Babyface' Edmonds ,
Samuel L. Jackson, and Chris Rock all married strong
black women.

And, to flip the script, there are numerous white men, in and
out of the spot
light, who openly or secretly desire black women over
white women.Ted
Danson, Robert DeNiro, and David Bowie to name a few.

I just don't want a disgusted white girl to be
misinformed. Stop
thinking that because you are white that you are some
type of goddess. Remember,
when black Egyptian Queens like Hatsepshut and
Nitorcris were ruling Dynasties and armies of men in Egypt , you were over in
the caves of
Europe eating raw meat and beating each other over the
head with clubs.


Read your history! It was the black woman that taught you how to cook
and season your
food. It was the black woman that taught you how to
raise your children. It
was black women who were breast feeding
and raising your babies during slavery. It is the black woman that had to endure watching
their fathers,
husbands, and children beaten, killed, and thrown in
jail. Black women
were born with two strikes against them: being black
and being a woman. And, through all this, Still They Rise! It is because of the black women's strength, elegance,
power, love and
beauty that I could> never> date anyone except my
black Queen.

It is
not just the outer beauty that captivates and draws me
to them. It is not the fact that they come in all shapes, sizes, colors and
shades that I
love them. Their inner beauty is what I find most appealing about
black women.
Their strong spirit, loving and nurturing souls, their
integrity, their
ability to overcome great obstacles, their willingness to
stand for what they believe in, and their determination to succeed and reach their highest potential while
enduring great pain
and suffering is why I have fallen in love with black
women.

I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward
jealousy and
envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then
why do you
continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin?
If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with
your pale
skin?


Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and
breasts with
unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more
voluptuous? I think that your anger is really a result of you wanting
to have what
the black woman has.

BOTTOM LINE: If I were looking for a docile woman,
someone I can walk
over and control, I would give you a call. But,
unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman.
Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my
children. Someone who can be my best friend and understands my
struggles. I am
looking for a soul mate. I am
looking for a sister and; unfortunately,
you do not and CANN OT fit the bill. No offense taken, none given.

Signed, Black Royalty

DAYUM!!! That'll teach her.

Lol. Hope u ain't one of dem? De ones dat put down their women?

Sad

wat's sad in particular?

The fact that I was too lazy to read what you typed up there

thats hot

I just could not resist this, the first guy that replied the oyinbo woman said that michael jordan is married to a black woman.

Michael Jordan of the USA Team walks with his girlfriend Yvette Prieto to the closing cermonies during the Final Round Singles Matches of The Presidents Cup at Harding Park Golf Course on October 11, 2009 in San Francisco, California.

Mynd_44:

The fact that I was too lazy to read what you typed up there

awww.
Giving my swthrt a good knock

Arosa:

I just could not resist this, the first guy that replied the oyinbo woman said that michael jordan is married to a black woman. 

unfortunately for your "point" this article/response is [size=18pt]YEARS old[/size] and was published back when Jordan was still married to Simone.

@wislet stop misleading folks. 

@topic: i said it back then and i'll say it now big ups to the man who wrote that.

mislead ke?
# drawing out her tongue#

Wislet:

awww.
Giving my swthrt a good knock

That hurts

Wislet:

mislead ke?
# drawing out her tongue#

Mynd_44:

That hurts

MsDarkSkin:

rofl

That reply is just the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and come to think of it, majority of Naija 'boys' that date all these white chicks either do that because of ''green card'' or because they are ''easy'', ''less stress babes''. Isn't that something?

MsDarkSkin:

unfortunately for your "point" this article/response is [size=18pt]YEARS old[/size] and was published back when Jordan was still married to Simone.

@wislet stop misleading folks. 

@topic: i said it back then and i'll say it now big ups to the man who wrote that.

The time deference is besides the point, what i am drawing attention to is the fact that those black men married to the so called strong black women can't wait for the slightest opportunity to switch boat.  

Arosa:

The time deference is besides the point, what i am drawing attention to is the fact that those black men married to the so called strong black women can't wait for the slightest opportunity to switch boat.  

Then those dumb arse men shouldn't have married the women they aren't happy with. A woman being strong has nothing to do with their sadness nor happiness. They are looking for the 20% they didn't need but only a dumb arse will think 20% is greater than 80%.

I just took time to read that and as much as I don'y like putting people in order of their color and race, that dude really nailed it.
That was smart defending his own that's the thing with black women (Nigerian included) they don't take it when you are lazy they will nag that laziness outta you. They don't mind if ther suffer for you as long as you know what you are doing and they trust you. They are faithful until you treat them like crap and they are proud. Proud of their strenght they are smart and I love them

Nice reply from the guy. I'm a proud black woman!

That guy is good

ronkebp:

That reply is just the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and come to think of it, majority of Naija 'boys' that date all these white chicks either do that because of ''green card'' or because they are ''easy'', ''less stress babes''. Isn't that something?

Gbam. Can someone send this to Lefulefu, i think it'll make an interesting read for him

so the lady generalized, and the guy decided to generalize too, stylishly insulting white women in the process! so there r no virtuous white women

Arosa:

The time deference is besides the point, what i am drawing attention to is the fact that those black men married to the so called strong black women can't wait for the slightest opportunity to switch boat.  

why does that bother you?
this is what i am talking about though. YES it's VERY annoying when black men try to literally piss us off when dating white women. Smiling when they walk with them and making eye contact with us to make sure that we are mad, but what annoys me the most is when black women GIVE them the satisfaction. For every black man who prefers other women there are more who prefer sisters. Who is Michael Jordan? lol i love his shoes and he is a legend but his relationship does NOT affect me. I still want my black men and that's what I go for.

Mynd_44:

I just took time to read that and as much as I don'y like putting people in order of their color and race, that dude really nailed it.
That was smart defending his own that's the thing with black women (Nigerian included) they don't take it when you are lazy they will nag that laziness outta you. They don't mind if ther suffer for you as long as you know what you are doing and they trust you. They are faithful until you treat them like crap and they are proud. Proud of their strenght they are smart and I love them

touching piece, after all d 9ja gal bashing on nl, it feels good to know brothers like u still exist. Thumbs up bro

naijababe:

Gbam. Can someone send this to Lefulefu, i think it'll make an interesting read for him
lmao. if lefulefus issue had a cure, he would not be d way he is now sending him this wont help anything, dudes problem is psycological and deeprooted.

@msdarkskin u nailed it there, some brothers see dating outside their race as something special. Imagine brothers dissing sisters like we are not all black again.This section now feels more like racist section,white this black dat and d MODS are doing nothing, i think its left to us to start ignoring racist posts.

Nj girl:

@msdarkskin u nailed it there, some brothers see dating outside their race as something special. Imagine brothers dissing sisters like we are not all black again.This section now feels more like racist section,white this black dat and d MODS are doing nothing,[size=18pt] i think its left to us to start ignoring racist posts.[/size]

I'm definitely down with that.
And the mods are definitely on vacation it seems.

MsDarkSkin:

I'm definitely down with that.
And the mods are definitely on vacation it seems.

lol lmao @ d mods being on vacation.

Mods on vacation. I wonder where the venues is

Mynd_44:

I just took time to read that and as much as I don'y like putting people in order of their color and race, that dude really nailed it.
That was smart defending his own that's the thing with black women (Nigerian included) they don't take it when you are lazy they will nag that laziness outta you. They don't mind if ther suffer for you as long as you know what you are doing and they trust you. They are faithful until you treat them like crap and they are proud. Proud of their strenght they are smart and I love them

# congratulating myself#

naijababe:

Gbam. Can someone send this to Lefulefu, i think it'll make an interesting read for him

I can literally see him spitting fire. Dnt worry he's still on treatment

Nj girl:

touching piece, after all d 9ja gal bashing on nl, it feels good to know brothers like u still exist. Thumbs up bro

I'm doing a good job on my bobo

Being racist no matter how you put it is still RACISM, Sad we can't just see all human beings without prejudice

^ hey dear, dnt take it serious ok? No one is being racist here. Everyone is the same.