After putting a pic of me on BBM with me on a bed sitting down with a dress that my guy didn't like, I removed it and apologized but he has changed. I now asked him if we were broken up so I know and can move on or at least still be friends because of the emotional shut down but he doesn't want to answer that.
At this point, i've decided to let him be and not initiate anything again. Hope i'm making the right choice.

Probably

put the pix here lets see

Good idea, lets see maybe it truly annoying for someone's gf to upload on a BBM.

^You mean you get jealous & feel insecure alot?

Tosinville link=topic=850499.msg10006151#msg10006151 date=132
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^You mean you get jealous & feel insecure alot?

what do you expect when a girl upload her nude pix on public fora.

^^Bro, would u stop passing judgement yet, she didn't mention her naked pic if u can hear her right but pic ~he doesn't like~

^^ honest reply

randyorton:

seriously, most nigerian women think that bb should be thinking for them. My dear sis,u should have used ur head to see if that pic is worth displaying on bb. Anyone could have seen the pic: his parent, colleagues, friends etc. If na guys wey no send u( i mean the ones that are interested in chopping u only) , they wouldnt give a f.ork if u were Unclad in that pic. Your guy is probably a decent guy who respects u as a woman and is not happy that u are making urself cheap and classless by displaying such pic.

Can I please send the picture to you privately. Skeptical about putting it here on nairaland. i want you to judge and then come on here to testify.
And that is why I admitted and apologized to him and removed it, is that enough to still be mad at me especially when the relationship is new plus he knows me better than that.


Who else would like to see the picture and judge for me? Don't want to put it here on nairaland.

Deida, you are not a serious Lady. You have the tendency to be a cheat. What your fiance or whatever does not like on BB is yet to go round again. Kindly use your head.

Advice:
You offended him, then u gave him ultimatum. . . . That wasn't rite . . . . Use sweet words n go see him, stop depending on bbm

Anaghi eji ihe ana agba na nti agba na- anya.

if u were very well dressed, I am not sure your guy would have being angry. There is something wrong with that pics, I want to say so,

Make una wait o.
So if I put up a pix of me that I think is okay and my boyfriend says he doesn't like it,I'm supposed to just remove it and start begging him even when all he says is that he just doesn't like it? Una never halla.

This your boyfriend sounds very controlling. And you said the relationship is new.LOL.
You should be happy he's showing you his true colours now, rather than later.

^
Thank you o jare,that's my thought too,a new relationship and he's already dictating pix not to put up,mscheeew. Op is even begging him sef,she has time.

Please any of you should drop your email, let me send you the picture and then you could judge from it.

kpolli:

Advice:
You offended him, then u gave him ultimatum. . . . That wasn't rite . . . . Use sweet words n go see him, stop depending on bbm

What ultimatum did I give?

Hye-Bits:

Deida, you are not a serious Lady. You have the tendency to be a cheat. What your fiance or whatever does not like on BB is yet to go round again. Kindly use your head.

Do you want to see the picture?

It depends on morals. . .  No one expects his one week gf to put up a pic revealing her underwear. . . . Dps are saved regularly, do u know how fast a girl's pic spreads on bb, who wants a nasty pic of his gf (new or old) to spread around. . . .

Stop looking at it as "he is controlling". . .  He is correcting her

kpolli

Crop your face out and post it here if you want.

^^^^ better

^Na my ppl dem just dey talk now, new relationship & guy just vex like dat and if its an old relationship then its certain he'll turn his girl into a punching bag.

^To kelz88 and freecocoa

Deida:

After putting a pic of me on BBM with me on a bed sitting down with a dress that my guy didn't like, I removed it and apologized but he has changed. I now asked him if we were broken up so I know and can move on or at least still be friends because of the emotional shut down but he doesn't want to answer that.
At this point, i've decided to let him be and not initiate anything again. Hope i'm making the right choice.

That's regarded as an ultimatum to guys. . . . He not answering means he is shocked by ur question *IMO*

kpolli:

kpolli-joe@hotmail.com

Sent

I wish i can get dat pic as well let me judge things better.

Tosinville:

I wish i can get dat pic as well let me judge things better.

Pls send ur email



@ all I'm just worried whether I crop my face out, i have friends that are nairalanders as well and they would know it's me

LOL! What makes you think that if I give you my email and you send it to me I wont put the pic up here?

You could have cropped, pasted the pic and removed it by now.

let me come back and testify. my email israel_adeolu@yahoo.com

kelz88:

LOL! What makes you think that if I give you my email and you send it to me I wont put the pic up here?

You could have cropped, pasted the pic and removed it by now.

I should trust you not to do that 'cos there is no reason.