My dear u jst hv 2 let d cat out of d bag, cos as it is nw u mind is nt setteled, u feel broken hearted, she is cousin jst let her no dt d guy is a player and u ar one of his prey, jst let her no so as to b free from ur conscience, give it a trial,

veron007:

For your own sanity and for the sake of the unborn child tell your friend immediately! And then support your cousin to marry the Joystick head. There is a chance that he will leave her later for another woman but it's the price she has to pay (though not her fault).

So because she is pregnant by him she must marry him? SMH

Please tell both girls, your cousin and your friend let them both know the kind of person he is.

You need to tell your friend what has happened, luckily it is not too late for her to be finding this.
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Why do u find it so difficult to escalate dis issue? U need to be brave and let both ur friend and ur cousin knw d kind of man dey r planning to get married in PDA not to prolong their heartache.u r not being fair to dem. Kai! U
Dnt manage situations like dis u jet spill evrytin out at once.

Fraud Alert!!!!!!!!!

^Vigilante fi bobo yen le mehnnnnn, is it ur money?

Idowuogbo:

^Vigilante fi bobo yen le mehnnnnn, is it ur money?

ASK AM OOOOOO,

I believe you should tell them both. I had a similar experience and have stopped talking to my cousin when i found out that he had know for months and didnt tell me. I have forgiven all parties involved, but i dont want them in my life anymore

Didn't bother reading to the Second paragraph. . .Weird, Totally Weird.

Ok,its been 8months now!how is the wife if william dd marry ur best friend and how's da baby mama ur cousin?
M sure all is settled now

Lord please have mercy.

tpia1: Lord please have mercy.

chiama1: you've been advised. pls let us know how they dealt with MR. Randy afterwards

Op, update?

Pretyella:
Have you ever been caught in the middle? Well, right now, I think i am and its not a funny place to be.

I have a close friend William (a guy). We met in university. We were so close that people thought we were dating, but we were not. Even when I told people that we were not, they did not believe.

I also had a female friend Pat; the three of us were good friends if not best. Later, I began to notice that they liked each other more than friends  so I encouraged them and they began to date. Most times, when we would go out, I felt like the odd one but it was good. When we left school, we all still remained friends and they were still dating.

7 months ago, William proposed to Pat. I was so happy that people would think I was the one engaged. I was so deeply engaged in the preparation for the wedding that my boyfriend (who was not always comfortable with ma closeness with William) finds it so annoying. Dont blame me Pat is the 1st of ma friends to be getting married.

Last month, during the xmas break, ma cousin came to my place, telling me she was engaged and pregnant for a guy. She wanted me to meet him before going to her parents. She said she met him during one of her office functions; she stays in Abuja and he stays in Lagos.  I was so happy for her but in ma mind i was like, "when is my boyfriend going 2 propose (I am saying this because he is not nl) I agreed to meet the guy, so I went with her to the eatery.

To my most shocking surprise it was William. My mind didn't register anything until she said met ma fiance I was so shock that I walked out on them. When I got home, I said to myself maybe it was joke, so I called William. He asked if he could come over, and I agreed. When he came, he confirmed it but pleaded with me to allow him tell Pat himself. I agreed, but was very mad at him. I asked him how long has he been seeing her, and he said almost a year, and he had the guts to propose to someone when he wasn't ready 2 settle down. And of people, ma cousin? he said he didn't know.

I told ma boyfriend who asked me to allow him (William) do the telling himself. After 1 week he still hasn't told her and its been 3 weeks. I tried contacting him but he is avoiding me and I have been avoiding Pat because if I see her I would be forced to tell her but the truth is I don't even know how to tell her, so I confided in my mom and she asked me to tell her, but I still can't because I feel guilty for keeping it for 3 weeks and anytime i call her she was always talking of her wedding and I asked of William she said he is fine that he calls and he takes her out, and its paining that he still hasn't told her.

My problem is how to tell her. Please, I need advice!

its been five years down the line, how did the whole thing pull through?

dingbang:
its been five years down the line, how did the whole thing pull through?

. Well I have a handsome, funny but stubborn nephew now. William is still an ass in sheep clothes and he traveled abroad I think, not so sure now about his whereabouts. The wedding didn't hold but pat, she is happily married now but the incident created a drift btw us but we are okay. My family is supportive of my cousin. The whole thing brewed fire and brimstone for awhile but it's all in the past now. Thanks for asking

Pretyella:
. Well I have a handsome, funny but stubborn nephew now. William is still an ass in sheep clothes and he traveled abroad I think, not so sure now about his whereabouts. The wedding didn't hold but pat, she is happily married now but the incident created a drift btw us but we are okay. My family is supportive of my cousin. The whole thing brewed fire and brimstone for awhile but it's all in the past now. Thanks for asking

wow... This is shocking. Williams even didn't end up marrying ur cousin.. What kind of wicked guy is that sef. I am just angry.

give me pat contact. I will help u tell her