Pls nairalander how would u feel if u visit ur spouse 4 d 1st time and at 9nt u told him u were dizzy and he shows u d way 2 d guest rum instead of his bedroom.sincere comment pls

Is the person your boyfriend, fiance or your husband pls clarify us.

So gentleman still dey dis world or abi the joystick get small wahala ,

Your spouse??

And cant you be visiting your spouse for the first time?

Me thinks she meant bf.

The guy no send you. . . simple

Maybe he don't want to be too 'forward'
Noo worry sha, this night thing will change

Onyiclassic:

Pls nairalander how would u feel if u visit ur[b] spouse[/b] 4 d 1st time and at 9nt u told him u were dizzy and he shows u d way 2 d guest rum instead of his bedroom.sincere comment pls

poster doesn't know the meaning of spouse

you went to his house the first time and he showed you the guest room. What exactly is wrong with that? you want to go to his bed room so he can wait on you like a slave? if i were him i would have sent your azz back home in a cab because you aint going to be all sick and dying in my house.

if he is ur bf then I think he is a married man, if he is ur fiance I think he is cheating on u. or maybe he is just trying to be a gentle man.

did you mean "spouse to be?"

so he showed you the way into his guest room, and now you feel bad about that?

what did you expect him to do?

1) if the two of you ended up in bed and you began a 9-month project before the wedding day, and unfortunately if he dumps you, you would still come back here complaining that he took advantage of you.

2) If the two of you ended up in bed and nothing happened during the night, you would still come back here doubting whether your BFs joystick was faulty or not

3) and most importantly, what were your intentions for visiting him and wanting to go sleep in his bedroom?

[size=18pt]I bet the name of your BF is Joseph[/size]

It means he is fasting and he does not want to become unholy

First they complain that he is rushing them into his room, now they are complaining he is taking them to guest room. . . . pick one

kpolli:

First they complain that he is rushing them into his room, now they are complaining he is taking them to guest room. . . . pick one

Never try to understand women.

Hey OP, i zhink u wasted time asking us what we think
u shld v sent him an sms to join u

You should have told him you are not comfortable with that na

@OP
you should have simply asked him: "what is me sleeping in the guest room going to achieve?! is that the new cure for dizziness?!"

I wonder oooo MJB. Why is it that most of our sistas are either too proud or shy to ask questions from their significant other

^^ strange creatures they are. lol!

They can't be understood

Mehnn!! I comot cap 4 dat guy! @ OP i know he might have set a ball rolling in ur mind. That guy is real, he's respecting ur privacy and i think u shld b happy about that_he's a real gentleman. But wait o! TERMS & CONDITIONS APPLY!!