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How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by nascentprof: 4:56pm On Feb 05, 2012
[/color][color=#000099]I have a girlfriend and we have been together 4 about 3yrs. I luv her and she does luv me. the only thinf is that she only visits me when i call her to come and sometimes she excuses herself that she has something to attend to and i will never hear from her until i decide to call or go visit her.

Another thing that can make her visit me is when she wants to ask me something or escorted  hsb to my house. But i do knw 4 sure dat she luvs me. About a yr ago she came wit a friend of hers that needed my help n she introduced her 2 me.

Her friend n i became close n my parent n siblings came 2 knew her more(my gf's friend), unlike my gf. She(my gf's friend) helped me 2 do chores, spent time with me and even slept wit me sometimes till morning, unlike my gf. 1 day(about last month), we finally got involved, unlike my gf. She traveled 2 school, and my gf too(but they will soon com bak).

She calls and send me txt always, unlike my gf. But i now feel guilty inside of me for cheating on my gf wit her own gf. Dont know What 2 do pls help fellow NLers.
Hw will  i stop dis?
Should i tel my gf?
What if she knows?
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by nascentprof: 5:01pm On Feb 05, 2012
pls i nid ur advise on dis
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by ULSHERLAN(m): 5:06pm On Feb 05, 2012
U cheated that's bad but you cheated on an uncaring girlfriend, not too bad The thing is that, sit ur gf down and ask her exactly what her problem is. If she still cares then no problem. You never can tell, the feelings she had might have reduced drastically

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Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by lolaluv1(f): 5:07pm On Feb 05, 2012
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Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by nascentprof: 5:18pm On Feb 05, 2012
i actually cald her after dat event n ask her if she rily stil cared about me. She hung up on me but leta cald n askd me y wil i ask her such ? afta hw lng we've bin 2geda.
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by bekay911(f): 5:37pm On Feb 05, 2012
U dnt luv her cos if u do u woudnt av cheated on her wit her gf.
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 5:45pm On Feb 05, 2012
bekay911:

U dnt luv her cos if u do u woudnt av cheated on her wit her gf.
comot jor angry angry, wetin concern free blowing with luv?, guy tell urself the truth, its not that you luv this girl but enjoy her company and assistance . Love na different matter

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Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by 1stKlass(f): 6:34pm On Feb 05, 2012
You should simply tell your gf what you feel and the fact that you have cheated on her. If she is stooopid enough to trust you again then maybe you kick the disloyal and cheating friend to the curb. Dont try to have your cake and eat it though, you will for sure regret it!!!!
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by nascentprof: 6:53pm On Feb 05, 2012
i rily luv my gf jst could'nt resist d compliment.
E no go easy to tel her oh!
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by amuukwu1(m): 7:20pm On Feb 05, 2012
nascentprof:

[/color][color=#000099]i hav a gf n we hav bin 2geda 4 about 3yrs. I luv her n she does luv me. D only tin is dat she only visits me wen i cal her 2 com n most tyms she xcus herself dat she has sth 2 atend 2 n i wil neva hear 4rm her until i decide 2 cal or go visit her. Anoda tin dat can mak her visit me is wen she wants 2 ask me sth or xcurted sb 2 my hauz. But i do knw 4 sure dat she luvs me. About a yr ago she came wit a frend of hers dat nided my help n she introduced her 2 me. Her frend n i became cloz n my parent n siblings came 2 knew her more(my gf's frend), unlik my gf. She(my gf's frend) helped me 2 do chores, spent tym wit me n even slept wit me somtyms til mornin, unlik my gf. 1 day(about last mth), we finally got involved, unlik my gf. She travelled 2 skul, n my gf too(but dey wil soon com bak). She cals n send me txt always, unlik my gf. But i nw fil guilty inside of me 4 cheatin on my gf wit her own gf. Dnt knw wat 2 do pls help fellow NLers.
Hw wil  i stop dis?
Should i tel my gf?
Wat if she knws?

My guy, check this thread out on NL. "Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman". by the time you are through with it,you wouldnt be asking what to do anymore.  grin cheesy


Here's the link to it,   https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396243.0.html
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by lifestyle1(m): 7:45pm On Feb 05, 2012
Tell her but be ready to face the consequences undecided
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by cynthiafred67(f): 9:58pm On Feb 05, 2012
Subscribing. . .
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Dynamique: 10:21pm On Feb 05, 2012
Maturity shud play a role here,call ur gf,explain ur reservations,suggest what she can do to improve the relationship as in care-wise&more attention,then leave the rest to her,but if her nonchalant attitude persists,then u beta find sum1 who acknowledges the fact she is in a relationship.
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Killz3(m): 10:42pm On Feb 05, 2012
nascentprof:

[/color][color=#000099]i hav a gf n we hav bin 2geda 4 about 3yrs. I luv her n she does luv me. D only tin is dat she only visits me wen i cal her 2 com n most tyms she xcus herself dat she has sth 2 atend 2 n i wil neva hear 4rm her until i decide 2 cal or go visit her. Anoda tin dat can mak her visit me is wen she wants 2 ask me sth or xcurted sb 2 my hauz. But i do knw 4 sure dat she luvs me. About a yr ago she came wit a frend of hers dat nided my help n she introduced her 2 me. Her frend n i became cloz n my parent n siblings came 2 knew her more(my gf's frend), unlik my gf. She(my gf's frend) helped me 2 do chores, spent tym wit me n even slept wit me somtyms til mornin, unlik my gf. 1 day(about last mth), we finally got involved, unlik my gf. She travelled 2 skul, n my gf too(but dey wil soon com bak). She cals n send me txt always, unlik my gf. But i nw fil guilty inside of me 4 cheatin on my gf wit her own gf. Dnt knw wat 2 do pls help fellow NLers.
Hw wil  i stop dis?
Should i tel my gf?
Wat if she knws?
Chairman, there is no excuse for infidelity. You are not married to her, so if you had felt you could not continue with the relationship, you should have ended it rather than cheating! All that blabbing up there was really unnecessary! If you no longer like your girlfriend, dont bother telling her nada! End the relationship and move on with your life! Why complicating an already complicated issue? From your story, i really dont think you want anything to do with you gf! So be a man and take a much needed decision!
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by snthesis(m): 11:42pm On Feb 05, 2012
winkBadt guy- next step is a 3some wit ur gf and her friemd- truss me
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Mynd44: 11:51pm On Feb 05, 2012
Another mumu
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Skii(m): 12:16am On Feb 06, 2012
amu ukwu:

My guy, check this thread out on NL. "Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman". by the time you are through with it,you wouldnt be asking what to do anymore.  grin cheesy


Here's the link to it,   https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396243.0.html

What an article, spoken like a true master of the art
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by nascentprof: 12:17am On Feb 06, 2012
i stil luv my gf n i dnt want solutn dat wil only corect dis mistake but wat wil i do dat it does'nt hapen again.
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 2:35am On Feb 06, 2012
NL of OLD. . .where art thou? shocked sad sad
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 2:39am On Feb 06, 2012
U shld date them both
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by chelseabmw(m): 11:01am On Feb 06, 2012
poster tell me u did not enjoy those period undecided
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Killz3(m): 11:38am On Feb 06, 2012
nascentprof:

i stil luv my gf n i dnt want solutn dat wil only corect dis mistake but wat wil i do dat it does'nt hapen again.
Stop bleeping your gf's friend, stop inviting her to your house, stop calling her, stop texting her, stop all manner of communication with her. Dont tell your gf about it, but Talk to your girlfriend about the things you want her to improve on. Things like visiting you, calling you always and texting you always. Now, when you've had the discussion with her, dont always expect her to be perfect. Learn to trust and respect her. If you love her like you claim, you should show more understanding! If you cannot accept her for who she is, then end the relationship and stop punishing yourself thinking when you'll be caught! If you are old enough to sleep with your gf's friend, you should be old enough to deal with the resulting consequences. There's always a consequence for every action. . . Good or bad! Decide wisely!
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Okontami: 3:36pm On Feb 06, 2012
grin shocked grin Nascentprof, what is your problem? This is exactly my hobby. I have drilled at least 17 friends (ie 34chicks). I have Oiled and canned 6 sisters (ie 12 girls) So what is your problem? You did it because you wanted to. So why are you coming here to give us crap that you are feeling guilty. You know what you want and what to do. grin
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 06, 2012
Use a blackberyy? Add me on BBM. Pin:26BE3874!! Everybody's welcome wink
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by ronkebp(f): 4:30pm On Feb 06, 2012
@ Poster your excuses for sleeping with your galfriend friend does not hold water at all, deal with it yourself. After all you have gotten a cheap replacement on behalf of your girlfriend. Carry your cross, i hope that your girlfriend sees how shallow and empty you and her ''so called friend'' are.

Talk about betrayal!!!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by highland(m): 4:43pm On Feb 06, 2012
She may be the person you need rather than the other gf.
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 4:45pm On Feb 06, 2012
you don't love your girlfriend and you are pretty immature. full stop
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by lordkrato(m): 4:53pm On Feb 06, 2012
@OP dude, simple. You just upgraded OS, we all miss the 190,but we all wouldn't exchange the beamer for it, simple,you don't love your gf anymore,tell her before she catches you kwol,
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Kaygeminix(f): 4:54pm On Feb 06, 2012
nascentprof:

[/color][color=#000099]I have a girlfriend and we have been together 4 about 3yrs. I luv her and she does luv me. the only thinf is that she only visits me when i call her to come and sometimes she excuses herself that she has something to attend to and i will never hear from her until i decide to call or go visit her.

Another thing that can make her visit me is when she wants to ask me something or escorted  hsb to my house. But i do knw 4 sure dat she luvs me. About a yr ago she came wit a friend of hers that needed my help n she introduced her 2 me.

Her friend n i became close n my parent n siblings came 2 knew her more(my gf's friend), unlike my gf. She(my gf's friend) helped me 2 do chores, spent time with me and even slept wit me sometimes till morning, unlike my gf. 1 day(about last month), we finally got involved, unlike my gf. She traveled 2 school, and my gf too(but they will soon com bak).

She calls and send me txt always, unlike my gf. But i now feel guilty inside of me for cheating on my gf wit her own gf. Dont know What 2 do pls help fellow NLers.
Hw will  i stop dis?
Should i tel my gf?
What if she knows?

y didnt u talk to ur girl? u shouldnt hav gottn involved with the other girl, u dont love ur girl simple,
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by 2kurupt(m): 4:58pm On Feb 06, 2012
SMH, medicine after death
I always say that if your gonna cheat, try not to get caught. From your story, your gf will find out eventually find you guys out but you got two options
1. Confess (a breakup is very likely)
2. Elevate the friend to gf status (she seem to hv qualities you crave from ur gf)
All the best!
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by Nobody: 5:07pm On Feb 06, 2012
Poster go and hug transformer, how do u expect me to advise you on someone that is not ur wife, mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Re: How I Cheated On My Girlfriend Wit Her Friend by gazilion: 5:20pm On Feb 06, 2012
I didn't have to read your post cos' it unnecessary but I signed in to call you

A F.O.O.L, less than an Idi.ota

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