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Poll: Who are better in relationships?

Older Men: 37% (3 votes)
Younger Men: 62% (5 votes)
50/50: 0% (0 votes)
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Younger Men Dating Older Women - Reasons / Why Are Younger Women Seeking For Older Men And Older Men Seeking For Girls? / Why Young Women Often Date Older Men (1) (2) (3) (4)

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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by ~Killz~(m): 5:17pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

Hmm, I see.  What do you think about older men choosing younger women?  
Depends on the age range! Like pendo said, if it's more than 45, then it's not love and if you are not getting married for love, it's pointless! It's quite common here, where young ladies get married to old men as old as 70. But the problem they face is that the man, could get blind, deaf very sick, very needy and they are just too young to be in that kind of situation! What i mean "too young" is their emotional development. There are some scenarios a young lady just cant handle! Before long, she starts sleeping around with younger men and when the man dies, she re marries. . . and to a younger man! So what is her point getting married to him in the first place? I'm thinking Money!
Mrs, Chima:
Do you agree with my husband when he said older and younger men typically choose women base on age (for procreation) or men have different set of criteria when it comes to women?  
Yes i agree! The chances of a 30 year old is not the same as a 35 year old or a 40 year old! Men have different criteria. True
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by La Parisienne(f): 5:18pm On Feb 06, 2012
@Topic
Since there's no age range, I'll answer it in my own way.

For me, I prefer a younger guy (25-35) over an older man. Some young guys are really smart with a lot of potentials, not all of them are struggling financially and not all of them are cowards. I'll rather grow old with my physically fit bobo, than be with a deja vu old man who might just die tomoroow. No offence really.

Then again, there are some circumstances that could make me adjust a little bit. But anything above 40 is a big no no for me. I'm a young woman, why would I waste my youth on a 50 yr old man?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Okontami: 5:18pm On Feb 06, 2012
@Lefu, u are one of the best F.ucking students i have seen in a while. You know your Job and know how to do it. You have been recommended for scholarship.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Yield(f): 5:21pm On Feb 06, 2012
Age and maturity don't always correlate. At the end of the day, how someone acts in a relationship would have more to do with their character than their age. You can meet a young person who would be more mature, better behaved and wise than an older person and you can meet an older person who would portray those attributes much better than an older individual. So, it usually boils down to the person and not their age.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mr..Cork: 5:28pm On Feb 06, 2012
ok on a serious note, age is a number. My sugar mummy is a married woman and is 19yrs older than me.  she is rich. who cares! undecided
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Flashaldrin(m): 5:56pm On Feb 06, 2012
Just tell how old Mr. Chima is and we will advice accordingly! tongue
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mrs..Chima(f): 6:23pm On Feb 06, 2012
Flashaldrin:

Just tell how old Mr. Chima is and we will advice accordingly! tongue

Not that it is any of your business, but he is younger than YOU. wink
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Ammyng(f): 6:26pm On Feb 06, 2012
I rather date an older man than babysitting big baby.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mynd_44: 6:29pm On Feb 06, 2012
It depends on maturity not age
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by tpia@: 7:33pm On Feb 06, 2012
Btw, why are so many women looking for men who are financially stable? huh

Must be an effect of globalization because if everyone is looking for a financially stable man, most of these men wont marry until they're in their late thirties to early fifties.

Quite a lot of younger males who are financially ok, arent that interested in settling down, and when they do, tend to go for women outside their locality. So i could be wrong but it seems to me that if you're waiting for a man to be rich before you marry, then your wait might be a long one unless you have some thing or some qualities that put you above the competition.

Yes, its true some men turn out to be ingrates but i'm still not sure one should generalize.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by tpia@: 7:36pm On Feb 06, 2012
Just went through the list again and noticed another error.

Being older doesnt automatically mean a man will be family oriented.

And being younger doesnt mean a man wont love his family or take care of them.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mynd_44: 7:38pm On Feb 06, 2012
Tpia@, well said
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by sexlog(m): 10:40pm On Feb 06, 2012
Nairalanders watch, Ammyng is an aristo!
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mynd_44: 11:05pm On Feb 06, 2012
sexlog:

Nairalanders watch, Ammyng is an aristo!
Dey find trouble for there so gbo
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MarcAnthon(m): 11:34pm On Feb 06, 2012
@Chima, please answer the following question: are you looking for a fresh blooded younger man? I am asking nicely, pls tongue tongue tongue
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mrs..Chima(f): 11:36pm On Feb 06, 2012
MarcAnthon:

@Chima, please answer the following question: are you looking for a fresh blooded younger man? I am asking nicely, pls tongue tongue tongue

The thread has nothing to do with my personal life. You can answer the question above or you can find a piece of my WHOLE Bottom to kiss. Which one you prefer?
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MarcAnthon(m): 11:38pm On Feb 06, 2012
^^^ neither. Thanks for the offer though  tongue
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by ~Killz~(m): 11:54pm On Feb 06, 2012
Mrs, Chima:

The thread has nothing to do with my personal life. You can answer the question above or you can find a piece of my WHOLE Bottom to kiss. Which one you prefer?
undecided undecided undecided
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mrs..Chima(f): 12:08am On Feb 07, 2012
MarcAnthon:

^^^ neither. Thanks for the offer though  tongue

You are not welcome.

~Killz~:

undecided undecided undecided

What? huh
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by HQ: 8:09am On Feb 07, 2012
Hehe. . .I'll just let the *Ladies* Answer.  grin

Gentlemen, Are Older Women much Better In Relationships than Younger Women?   undecided
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Good Girl: 9:29am On Feb 07, 2012
Growing older doesn't necessarily mean growing up. The later rarely happens for most men. That's why you can find a bunch of idi[i]o[/i]tic men in their 30s who reason like toddlers.  angry

Take these two scenarios.
1. A 35-year old guy who fa[i]r[/i]ts and belches aloud in a poor attempt of displaying his humorous side, or
2. A focused, very intelligent and responsible 24-year old guy.

What would you ladies rather have?

Oh! Did I neglect to mention the older guy still lives in his mama's house and is a bouncer in a popular casino in the city?  grin
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by tpia@: 11:41am On Feb 07, 2012
It's the height of folly (not to mention laziness) to assume just because a man is older, therefore he'll be better at relationships than a younger one.

Quite hilarious, really.

I suspect this has more to do with inheritance issues (older man vs younger- do the maths for the woman in question).

The only area in which a scheming woman might have an advantage when choosing an older man over a younger one is the older man is likely to be less picky and choosy about who he dates, than most of the younger men.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Good Girl: 1:02pm On Feb 07, 2012
tpia@:

I suspect this has more to do with inheritance issues (older man vs younger- do the maths for the woman in question).

True. Besides, if the woman is the type that gets turned on by the sight of $, £, €, ¥ and ₦, she's bound to experience multiple org[i]a[/i]sms with the older man, the assumption here being that the older man has managed to accumulate more resources than his younger counterpart.

tpia@:

The only area in which a scheming woman might have an advantage when choosing an older man over a younger one is the older man is likely to be less picky and choosy about who he dates, than most of the younger men.

Maybe it's because there's an elastic limit to man's vanity, after which other factors such as intelligence, personality and compatibility take precedence over b[i]o[/i]obs, cheekbones and a[i]r[/i]se. I could be wrong though.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by iice(f): 2:16pm On Feb 08, 2012
Maturity isn't always a result of age.
Any can be good in a relationship so long as the person has matured.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mrs..Chima(f): 12:38am On Aug 26, 2012
Hmm.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by amefi(m): 1:24am On Aug 26, 2012
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Mrs..Chima:
Hmm.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by Mrs.Chima(f): 8:09am On Aug 26, 2012
amefi: shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Park well ke
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by kandiikane: 6:26pm On Aug 26, 2012
Mehn, I don't know. Never been with a younger dude b4. tongue

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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MsDarkSkin: 12:20am On Aug 27, 2012
kandiikane: Mehn, I don't know. Never been with a younger dude b4. tongue

^^^^
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by MsDarkSkin: 12:21am On Aug 27, 2012
iice: Maturity isn't always a result of age.
Any can be good in a relationship so long as the person has matured.

true.
Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by nelie(m): 6:11pm On Jun 13
Okontami: grin grin Dear All, i am seroius now. OBO, OKO and Money are very serious matters. OBO for the MEN and Money for the WOMEN. For women who already have money , OKO is their priority. Most young men (21-28) are strugglers without money but with great, massive and huge OKO and have mastered the usage from their frequent visit to Ile Ashewo and constant drinking of Shepe and Opa Eyin. Older men have the money which younger girls need but in all, a woma's greatest need is OKO. Money is useless without Sweet OKO. grin cool
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Re: Ladies, Are Older Men Much Better In Relationships Than Younger Men? by nelie(m): 6:25pm On Jun 13
grin Glad am graciously endowed! Looking for d older ladies whr they at?

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