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| Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 10:55pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
[/color] sometimes when you see girls fighting, most definitely they are fighting cos of one guy. According to people who i've asked about this, they seem to be of the opinion that if you love your man, you've got to fight for him and that got me asking if fighting is an effective way to winning a man's heart. Candid response please.[color=#006600]
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| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by lifestyle1(m): 11:01pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
No, i don't think so.  |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by pendo89(f): 11:05pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
like physical?  No way. there are better ways to make a man stick with you and fight is not one. if either of you is to fight then let it be the man but not you. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 11:10pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
Nah I don't think fighting over a man will make him stay but there's an iota of truth in what you said,I think 60% of fights between ladies is because of a man. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by slimyem: 11:14pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
pendo89:bingo! freecocoa:your statistical source please? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 11:18pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
^Na me conclude by myself from what I've been seeing.you even help sef cos you fought one lady here over e-dick.  |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by lifestyle1(m): 11:26pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
u are 90% more likely to b killed by ur spouse than by a total stranger SOURCE ?? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Killz3(m): 11:45pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
u are 90% more likely to b killed by ur spouse than by a total strangerLMAO! You dey mind that ITK! Watch the poor defensive show of words she'll put up! You dey ask for source, but your own signature is screaming for a source. . . #Checkmate! |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Dabss(m): 11:50pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
rubi96:lol That is not very wise. Its not like the guy is gonna wait to take the winner home. Ur physical strenght cannot change anything if he still wants the other lady. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by slimyem: 11:54pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
freecocoa:why go all aggressive over a simple question? U could have ignored it betterstill.ugh! ~Killz~:and what difference will a rich defensive show of words make? Enrich me? Please! |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Sijo01(f): 11:59pm On Feb 08, 2012 |
Freecocoa, hailies! @topic, count me out. Wil rather settle d issue wit my man instead of attackin sombdy or setting my self loose 2b assulted. Mi too busy 4such. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 12:05am On Feb 09, 2012 |
slimyem:Come are you sure you are normal?where's the aggressiveness in the reply I gave you? You know many people have told you to drop this silly fake attitude of yours but you won't hear,in the bid to be all funky\posh and label me "aggressive"you come across as stuppid,don't try that with me this night. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 12:07am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Sijo01:Oh bebe my hand dey for up,make I bring am down? Missed you,where did you went to since? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by phraoh(m): 12:14am On Feb 09, 2012 |
freecocoa: Yu were supposed to tel me something on romance gone wrong. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 12:16am On Feb 09, 2012 |
phraoh:Really? I thought I answered your question about the "AIM" or is is it something else? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by phraoh(m): 12:21am On Feb 09, 2012 |
freecocoa: Yu sd something about being interested?And whether,i know who yu were talkng about.? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by arrived(m): 12:32am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Op, na rubbish. Just dont try it! |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 12:34am On Feb 09, 2012 |
phraoh:interested ke?in what? I was teasing you about the ogbanje meeting,I meant I told the queen of ogbanjes about you and she said she is interested in winning you over to her kingdom. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by phraoh(m): 12:36am On Feb 09, 2012 |
freecocoa: lol, i dont mind. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Sijo01(f): 12:38am On Feb 09, 2012 |
freecocoa: mama beg mak d hand mellow! Mi missed u too. Mi hav been wentin around, jst readin tru threads but gat no time/concentratn 2reply. work is nt been givin me space. Dt's by d way. Plz visit Val's Auction & mak amendment. Wanna see d normal moral/flow lera 2day. Jah bless! |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by freecocoa(f): 12:47am On Feb 09, 2012 |
phraoh:Alrighty then,I'll pass the message across tonight,we have another meeting.*winks* Sijo01:Your own better jorh,abeg keep bringing in the money,we need it. I'm be there later,make things just calm down,you know at times we all gatta vent small but we all cool.  |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by phraoh(m): 12:55am On Feb 09, 2012 |
freecocoa: Just,lemme know wen yu do den.Find a way to tel me.lol.Wish your AIM or YIM was working. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 12:56am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Pendo yes, saw one yesterday and that was the reason for this post. The worst of it all was that the 2nd gal's clothes was torn badly. I wonder how she went home |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by InkedNerd(f): 12:59am On Feb 09, 2012 |
@OP: I really don't understand why women feel the need to "fight for their man". Personally, I would NEVER fight over a guy. It's just pure stupidity to me. Often times in situations where women are fighting over a man, the guy is usually involved in the mix in terms of them stepping out on their girlfriend and in some cases, the girls they're cheating on their girlfriend with probably has no idea that they are already involved in a relationship with someone. With that being said, I find it quite sad and pathetic that women who find out their guys are cheating feel the need to attack or fight the "other woman". If anything, its the guy who the attack should be directed at, not the woman. In my opinion, if I was with a guy and he cheated on me, regardless of whether or not the "other woman" was aware, I wouldn't even bother fighting, arguing, or addressing either of them because neither of them are worth it. If he didn't care enough for me while him and I we were in the relationship, why should I care about after he had broken the commitments of our relationship? Besides, what kind of man sits or stands around as his girlfriend, partner, or wife fights another woman and does nothing to mend the situation? At times, I see guys watching their significant other fighting and they're just standing by getting nothing but pleasure knowing that the two foolish women are there tearing each other apart all because of him. Seriously ladies, we gotta get it together. Women who act like that make us look bad and women who knowly get involved with a guy knowing damn well that he is already with someone make us look even worse. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 1:14am On Feb 09, 2012 |
@inked_nerd exactly my point. Some guyz really enjoy ladies fighting over them, |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by InkedNerd(f): 1:17am On Feb 09, 2012 |
rubi96: It's pathetic when such people in engage in that kind of behavior both for the men and the women. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Cuddlemii: 4:13am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Ladies that fight physically for a guy are simply uncivilized, local, uncultured and lack proper etiquette. Just imagine after dressing up, looking all fly with lovely pair of shoes and a clutch bag, then you are spotted dragging some chick's wig, weaves or clothes because of a guy. What impression are you creating of yourself. I regard such ladies as insecure and emotional wrecks. Just comport yourself as a lady, what would be would be, the best lady would prevail or triumph. A lot of ladies fight over men. The men usually enjoy the scene, they laugh at the ladies, press their buttocks while they fight or throw them out of the house or even video the fight so as to show their real fiance or friends. Any man that allows fighting between two ladies doesn't give a damn about them, he has someone else he is nurturing, that he is probably not screwing but he is using the fighter for mere sex. Ladies should not fight for men because once a guy senses desperation, clinginess or a lady is coming on too strong, they disengage, take advantage of the lady and the lady becomes worthless instantly. Just play your role, act decent and crazy when necessary, don't pass your boundaries, be yourself, don't fake things, don't imitate others, don't seek for perfection, be prayerful, love & groom yourself, always make yourself happy first, give yourself peace and what would be would be or who is meant for you would stay. No need to fight anything, channel that energy, fierceness, fisticle to your own development, wealth, empowerment and accomplishment. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by Chnges(m): 8:48am On Feb 09, 2012 |
@OP I'm a living witness. It happened to me and i was just like, ahhh this is serious. Only the kind of eye & attention you'll get from the surrounded ladies. Especially the o ne from your guys will make you work hard to secure another fight. |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 8:52am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Cuddlemii::-D |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 9:09am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Ch@nges:do u really enjoy ladies fighting over u? |
| Re: Fighting Over A Guy by rubi96(f): 9:10am On Feb 09, 2012 |
Ch@nges:   |
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