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Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by dasparrow: 9:21pm On Mar 23, 2012
Topics like this always attract nairaland resident chuvinists like bees on a honeycomb. See how many male posters responded to the topic in comparison to female posters. It proves what I have always known. Nigerian males are obsessed when it comes to anything concerning females and relationships. They sit here and bad mouth women and generalize negatively about Nigerian women yet they cannot stay away from threads that center around them and relationships to them. I guess Nigerian males are aware that when it comes to relationships, they gain more from it than women do. Nigerian women just become certified slaves and human incubators that can easily be discarded once they become married and left with absolutely nothing in the event of a divorce.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Acidosis(m): 9:41pm On Mar 23, 2012
"A poor man is shunned by all his relatives--how
much more do his friends avoid him! Though he
pursues them with pleading, they are nowhere to
be found."
Proverbs 19: 7
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by occam(m): 9:45pm On Mar 23, 2012
Ladies saying poor guys are more loving than those with extra cash are LIARS. Guys don’t believe this. Maybe they’re managing you until they find a correct guy. Don't buy this Nollywood story, romeo and Juliet nonsense.

Most Naija women are impatient when things aren’t working out. You start hearing stuff like “see Dele took his wife & Kids to Disneyland and you’re still struggling to get me visa for Dubai.” Naija women bug you to buy “aso ebi’ every weekend for some dumb wedding or birthday. And you want us to believe. The motto for our ladies is: "No money No love"

So for ladies, who is a poor guy? well when you’re dating a guy between 31 to 34 then you must see/observe these things, if not he’s poor.

- Lives in his own apartment; not with mom or pop
- On these 3 occasions he steps up his game to show he loves you: your birthday, valentine and Christmas. Not just with flowers or a measly meal at McDonald’s
- Of course has a job or business (and make sure you can verify this)
- Listens to your problems and tries to come up with a solution especially if it involves money.

If he’s under 30, well there’s still time but… if not, ditch this poor guy NOW. Your marriage is already in trouble before it’s even started. Ask yourself why can’t he meet these needs. Money ritual can be a last ditch attempt to change things.

I may sound cold, but we live in a brutal world. Cost of living has gone up a lot in the last 15 yrs… Today you pay for wedding, 2 yrs you start buying diapers, 5th yr you’re paying school fees, small time baby #2 arrives and the cycle starts again, you wanna buy a correct ride to take family out and so on…
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by deeflamez(m): 9:50pm On Mar 23, 2012
Broke Guys are usually more Loving than Rich Guys,but Rich Guys SHOW more Love than Broke Guys #Keyword: SHOW grin
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Dipwater(m): 10:09pm On Mar 23, 2012
jobfront: See, girls themselves are to blame, it is the girls that make rich guys not to be loving becos they always show that with your money, that it is enough, that your money does every other thing for you. for instance, when i meet a girl, and she sees my ride, checks out my age and probably gets to know my fam...background, i have noticed that their love and interest always increased unusually. for instance, there was a time last year i went to visit a cousin on the mainland, i took a cab cos my ride was with d mechanic. so we went out shaa, and unfortunately, his car got broke down, and we had to look for a taxi, but couldn't find any, and my cousin being a born omolile agbero, suggested we take a public bus, and lo & behold we did. inside d bus, i saw this chick just sitting next to me, after some time, i said hi, she ignored, i kinda liked dis girl to d last, said hi again, snobbed me, i tried again before my cousin signaled me to stop, so i painfully did. on getting down, she was also going down dsame bus stop, so i took the opportunity to try again, but she ignored me and after i tried again, she said, thts how u poor guys wil be going up and down pursuin girls instead of finding urself sth to do, pls go jo. i was dead inside, i swallowed and walked away. unbelievably, i met dis same girl somewhere after 2 weeks, that day i was on my power ride, and on goggles, so i walked up to her where she ws standing & waiting for a byke and asked her, do you mind if i give u a ride? she smiled and said, tnkx...but u dnt knw where i am going? i replied, never mind, i will go wherever u want me to ma. she smiled and said, u must be funny, and finally off we go. 2 days later, i nyashd her & kicked her. later i sent her sms....to explain who i am. so my guys, girls themselves make guys with extra cash not to be loving, cos they make them to know that money is all they need, so y wste time loving? wheresas poor guys who don't usually get attention from girls have no options than to show the girl love to mke her stay with them. they are helpless, i do pity them shaaa....life....wished i cud change that status for all guys just to deal with gurlz!! lolz





Not always true have,nt u heard about guys with cash dat can't toast babe
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Criously broda most guys with the big dough bleep prostitute and they don't have gud self esteem they tend to spend too much to cover up their low. Self esteem. they can buy 3 BB phoes for 1 gurl. I have a friend like dat very gud looking,fine ride, owns a haus at his age witty,sexy swit height infact correct guy to the core but he has a very very low self esteem. He wants to shine all the time and without the swag the money gives to him he is nothing weneva he sees a very pretty chick dats wen he wuld use his range sport to lure the girl without car he cannot start up a conversation he always wants to impress. Broda I think ur case is like dat
Wether u are rich or broke. U can get any gurl of ur choice if u have gud charisma and u know how to dress fine with swit talk. Except the chick no gbadu ur type naturally . U go even Bleep babe wey. Some foooools dey see as big babes Am a living testimony
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Tinyemeka(m): 10:26pm On Mar 23, 2012
jobfront: @Killz, you are a kid with less or no experience, why do you always like to intrude when men are interacting? carry time o!! you better give up your fighting for girls on NL, cos you ain't gona get any gurl on NL, you better go and hustle to make money and enjoy a wide immunity with chicks...doing this your fending for girls can't win you a flash from a NL girl talk less of a wink....sorry, meant no offense, was only strolling by....hope you took your drugs tonight?...lol

grin Pally na wa to you O. Sofri sofri.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by TopDog1(m): 11:19pm On Mar 23, 2012
occam: Ladies saying poor guys are more loving than those with extra cash are LIARS. Guys don’t believe this. Maybe they’re managing you until they find a correct guy. Don't buy this Nollywood story, romeo and Juliet nonsense.

Most Naija women are impatient when things aren’t working out. You start hearing stuff like “see Dele took his wife & Kids to Disneyland and you’re still struggling to get me visa for Dubai.” Naija women bug you to buy “aso ebi’ every weekend for some dumb wedding or birthday. And you want us to believe. The motto for our ladies is: "No money No love"

So for ladies, who is a poor guy? well when you’re dating a guy between 31 to 34 then you must see/observe these things, if not he’s poor.

- Lives in his own apartment; not with mom or pop
- On these 3 occasions he steps up his game to show he loves you: your birthday, valentine and Christmas. Not just with flowers or a measly meal at McDonald’s
- Of course has a job or business (and make sure you can verify this)
- Listens to your problems and tries to come up with a solution especially if it involves money.

If he’s under 30, well there’s still time but… if not, ditch this poor guy NOW. Your marriage is already in trouble before it’s even started. Ask yourself why can’t he meet these needs. Money ritual can be a last ditch attempt to change things.

I may sound cold, but we live in a brutal world. Cost of living has gone up a lot in the last 15 yrs… Today you pay for wedding, 2 yrs you start buying diapers, 5th yr you’re paying school fees, small time baby #2 arrives and the cycle starts again, you wanna buy a correct ride to take family out and so on…
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by JoeMosco(m): 11:56pm On Mar 23, 2012
[color=#770077][/color] I feel soo sad when people display fallacies.
Anyway, all I see here are mere description of fantacies and infatuation.....
The poor socio- economic and political nature of Nigeria has made LOVE a rare commodity.....
Infact, the only reason a Nigerian lady will date a "perceived" poor guy is either she hopes for a better tomorrow (the guy is intelligent and a graduate), or she is over- aged, or "ugly".....
Hey..... Am not talking of student-flings..... God help Nigeria.....
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Mayflowa(m): 2:01am On Mar 24, 2012
Kai,dem wan finish killz mehnnn!
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Killz3(m): 2:31am On Mar 24, 2012
Mayflowa: Kai,dem wan finish killz mehnnn!
Dem no reach mehnnn! Dey neva even born the person papa mehhnnnn. . .

Make them still dey practice, the D Day go soon come, and they'll be silenced once and for all. . . Let'em practice. . . It's only fair! wink
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by skylo(f): 3:56am On Mar 24, 2012
You guys are really funny...can't stop laughing though, it depends on the individuals concerned either poor or rich, it still boils down to who we are. Let me gist you of my own experience. My current boyfriend use to work for a bank here in London and highly paid (his day job equates 3 day job of mine at the moment) but along the line, he got into trouble by helping a friend get into the same bank which i warned about but never listened. To cut the long story short, he is presently not working, we are still together, encouraging each other as if nothing never happened and as a matter of fact, he looks after me now than when he was working. To the Glory of God, i am now qualified(ACCA) and we both hoping for the best in the future, though he doesn't want to hear anything about marriage now which i understand and provided it's not getting too late, if not i might have move on. wink wink wink
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:04am On Mar 24, 2012
jobfront: See, girls themselves are to blame, it is the girls that make rich guys not to be loving becos they always show that with your money, that it is enough, that your money does every other thing for you. for instance, when i meet a girl, and she sees my ride, checks out my age and probably gets to know my fam...background, i have noticed that their love and interest always increased unusually. for instance, there was a time last year i went to visit a cousin on the mainland, i took a cab cos my ride was with d mechanic. so we went out shaa, and unfortunately, his car got broke down, and we had to look for a taxi, but couldn't find any, and my cousin being a born omolile agbero, suggested we take a public bus, and lo & behold we did. inside d bus, i saw this chick just sitting next to me, after some time, i said hi, she ignored, i kinda liked dis girl to d last, said hi again, snobbed me, i tried again before my cousin signaled me to stop, so i painfully did. on getting down, she was also going down dsame bus stop, so i took the opportunity to try again, but she ignored me and after i tried again, she said, thts how u poor guys wil be going up and down pursuin girls instead of finding urself sth to do, pls go jo. i was dead inside, i swallowed and walked away. unbelievably, i met dis same girl somewhere after 2 weeks, that day i was on my power ride, and on goggles, so i walked up to her where she ws standing & waiting for a byke and asked her, do you mind if i give u a ride? she smiled and said, tnkx...but u dnt knw where i am going? i replied, never mind, i will go wherever u want me to ma. she smiled and said, u must be funny, and finally off we go. 2 days later, i nyashd her & kicked her. later i sent her sms....to explain who i am. so my guys, girls themselves make guys with extra cash not to be loving, cos they make them to know that money is all they need, so y wste time loving? wheresas poor guys who don't usually get attention from girls have no options than to show the girl love to mke her stay with them. they are helpless, i do pity them shaaa....life....wished i cud change that status for all guys just to deal with gurlz!! lolz
U r so on point my guy.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:06am On Mar 24, 2012
Sugardiva:

Tales by moonlight undecided undecided undecided
I had to go back and look at d name. Onli a gurl wld updt dis
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:11am On Mar 24, 2012
hustla: Q1 Is dis why we are here?
Q2 How does dis affect d price of condom?
Lmaooooooo
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:13am On Mar 24, 2012
sample042: D reason s simple, thus;
Poverty humbles men.
Touche!!!!!
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:18am On Mar 24, 2012
deeflamez: Broke Guys are usually more Loving than Rich Guys,but Rich Guys SHOW more Love than Broke Guys #Keyword: SHOW grin
So spnding money translates to showing love. We r learning
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by finn(m): 4:23am On Mar 24, 2012
Funny posts mehn. The truth is dt poor guys definitely r more loving dan rich guys simply because rich guys dnt bother to show love. Esp as love in 9ja today is nw commercialised, why shld u kill urslf to show d love wen u cn spnd d money and dey ll call it 'love showing'.
As for a poor dude. U won't blame a nigga for try use wt he has to kip wt he wants. Sinc its nt money, it shld b his mouth, tool, prospcts or sth. Life is like dt.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by alex406(m): 7:27am On Mar 24, 2012
Before ko? Money=love
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by ReLaTE(m): 7:32am On Mar 24, 2012
~Killz~:
This is bullshit! If broke guys are more loving, how come the rich guys become more loving after they get married. . . Duh! Blah Blah B U L L S H I T! ! !
tnks for pointing that out,she just complicated the issues.
@Lady,ur post makes no meaning.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by ifihearam: 9:51am On Mar 24, 2012
The following are the reasons why the broke ass guys are more loving

1 they have enough time to spend with the babes while the rich guys don't

2 they satisfy the babes sexually more that the guys with extra cash

3 they are more faithful becos they dnt have unlike the rich guys who can have any other babe

4they will be able to do things or render certain assitance which the rich dudue won't beable to do.


That's why they spend all the monies acquired from the rich duded on the broke ass guys.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by badesco(m): 11:44am On Mar 24, 2012
What do you expect from a broke guy nothing but true love. what i mean is this, since the guy cant provide cash he has maximize the only weapon he has efficiently.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by MegaG: 6:39pm On Mar 24, 2012
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Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Osasumwen15: 9:16pm On Mar 24, 2012
all girls are after money especially girls who are the first child.beware
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Bisjosh(f): 6:57am On Mar 25, 2012
MegaG: to know if a man is humble, let him have. u can't say a dude truly loves u until he has money in his pocket. some poor dudes turn out to be monsters immediately they become somebody. so ladies, don't count it as love because for all i care he might b committed cos of an empty pocket!




D best post eva!!!! This is d truth! U never know until he's somebody(rich)
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Bisjosh(f): 7:00am On Mar 25, 2012
Osasumwen15: all girls are after money especially girls who are the first child.beware
grin grin grin grin grin very funny
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by emsquare(m): 10:01am On Mar 25, 2012
Really!
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 25, 2012
Today i woke up feeling tired not to go to church, but finally, God inspired me & i went & it was awesome, i worship at RCCG a.k.a. Redeem, and the man of God that preached today seemed like he was sent to speak to me personally because all he said- fornication, using & dumping girls, immoral lifestyle and encouraging others not to be righteous, was all that i do. though i wasn't born this way, i was raised by a disciplinary father and a loving mother, who provided all my needs and showered me with love, but life experiences with the opposite sex began to turn me into a bad guy with no conscience for girls. in fact i was headed towards going as far as breaking hearts of at least 20 different girls by the end of this year. I loved guys that maltreat girls; if you cheat on your wife, u are my best friend, if you use & dump girls, u are my paddy and i don't mind giving u money to achieve any evil (besides physical killing) against girls. i just hated girls and had already cancelled marriage in my dictionary cos i was determined to adopt or born on contract. but this morning at RCCG amazing grace parish, God touched me amazingly, i am now a new person, so please ignore all my threads and posts against Nigerian girls. i Am sorry pls, forgive me Lord, i am sorry if i hurt any of u or destroyed your faith in God or in human, forgive me & forget. join me in prayers so i can stand and not fall again. to the ladies, try & be nice to men, try & ask God to help u become a good friend, daughter, sister, fiancee, wife and mother, God can do all things, i am now a witness. don't always put money & material things first in all u do, especially in your relationships. if u love a guy with your heart, go after him irrespective of his financial or social status, and join him in prayers and encourage him, he will surely make it and will forever value and respect/ treat you like a queen, than when you just come when he is already made. pls forgive my frequent bashing on Nigerian females, even if any wronged me, i have forgiven you all from the bottom of my heart and pls do find it in your own heart to forgive me too & forget. i want to live a new happy life, even with or without a woman. Now i see that having money is not all it takes to be happy in life, but having Jesus Christ, the giver of peace and joy, now i feel inner peace, good afternoon friends and God bless you all. Please moderators help me put this on the front page. Thank you & God bless you all & God bless NL! Pls find time and read these Bible verse: 2Timothy 3:1-4. Isaiah 53:5
Pls guys, live a good life that glorifies the name of God. loving and knowing God is the best & the only key to joy & happiness, so pls ignore my advise and be good to your friends, female and male, God loves us and wants us to be the best & to reflect His image in our daily lives. pls also pray for my salvation, that God should strengthen me not to fall but to stand till the end, amen! God bless you all, I love God so much, pls Lord help me to love u more each day!
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Sweetlemon(f): 2:35pm On Apr 23, 2012
jobfront: Today i woke up feeling tired not to go to church, but finally, God inspired me & i went & it was awesome, i worship at RCCG a.k.a. Redeem, and the man of God that preached today seemed like he was sent to speak to me personally because all he said- fornication, using & dumping girls, immoral lifestyle and encouraging others not to be righteous, was all that i do. though i wasn't born this way, i was raised by a disciplinary father and a loving mother, who provided all my needs and showered me with love, but life experiences with the opposite sex began to turn me into a bad guy with no conscience for girls. in fact i was headed towards going as far as breaking hearts of at least 20 different girls by the end of this year. I loved guys that maltreat girls; if you cheat on your wife, u are my best friend, if you use & dump girls, u are my paddy and i don't mind giving u money to achieve any evil (besides physical killing) against girls. i just hated girls and had already cancelled marriage in my dictionary cos i was determined to adopt or born on contract. but this morning at RCCG amazing grace parish, God touched me amazingly, i am now a new person, so please ignore all my threads and posts against Nigerian girls. i Am sorry pls, forgive me Lord, i am sorry if i hurt any of u or destroyed your faith in God or in human, forgive me & forget. join me in prayers so i can stand and not fall again. to the ladies, try & be nice to men, try & ask God to help u become a good friend, daughter, sister, fiancee, wife and mother, God can do all things, i am now a witness. don't always put money & material things first in all u do, especially in your relationships. if u love a guy with your heart, go after him irrespective of his financial or social status, and join him in prayers and encourage him, he will surely make it and will forever value and respect/ treat you like a queen, than when you just come when he is already made. pls forgive my frequent bashing on Nigerian females, even if any wronged me, i have forgiven you all from the bottom of my heart and pls do find it in your own heart to forgive me too & forget. i want to live a new happy life, even with or without a woman. Now i see that having money is not all it takes to be happy in life, but having Jesus Christ, the giver of peace and joy, now i feel inner peace, good afternoon friends and God bless you all. Please moderators help me put this on the front page. Thank you & God bless you all & God bless NL! Pls find time and read these Bible verse: 2Timothy 3:1-4. Isaiah 53:5
Pls guys, live a good life that glorifies the name of God. loving and knowing God is the best & the only key to joy & happiness, so pls ignore my advise and be good to your friends, female and male, God loves us and wants us to be the best & to reflect His image in our daily lives. pls also pray for my salvation, that God should strengthen me not to fall but to stand till the end, amen! God bless you all, I love God so much, pls Lord help me to love u more each day!
wow! good for you!
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by lefulefu(m): 2:44pm On Apr 23, 2012
Sweetlemon: Ladies, have you noticed that most broke guys are very loving towards women compared to those who have some extra cash to spare.
In my opinion, I think its more of pretence. Before you crucify me, have you also noticed that most times, after the poor man is married to the lady, he starts showing his true self. that is where insecurity starts rearing its ugly head especially if the woman has more money and the man is just barely there, or jobless. I have seen live cases of this.
The guys who have more cash to spare are usually not so loving cos they are not sure if that is the reason why you claim to love them so they are more laid back but believe me, they are actually watching and testing you to see if you really love them for who they are. You will also notice that when they get married, they tend to be more loving towards their wives (and I believe this depends on how well the lady plays her part)
so whichever guy you end up with, just make sure you are sure o and not just because you think he's a 'wonderful guy' or because you think he will later start showering love on you.
becos broke men no get anything to offer grin.dem know say if dem misbehave the girl go drop dem like hot stove grin.but for guys with money even if dem treat the babe like rubbish she go still remain with them nah grin.afterall nah such guys be their meal ticket grin.omo money talks ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by DECOtech(m): 2:55pm On Apr 23, 2012
At the moment, I'm in luv n for now, I'm a fukin broke a*ss. God knows I'm only tryn to make it up to her with the extra luv thats coming frm me while she is on with her shakara n threats to leave me. It might not be the same testimony by the time things turn around.

-The only people wey no go hammer na cowardly lazy men.
Re: Why Are Most Broke Guys More Loving Than Those With Extra Cash? by Sweetlemon(f): 3:34pm On Apr 23, 2012
DECOtech: At the moment, I'm in luv n for now, I'm a fukin broke a*ss. God knows I'm only tryn to make it up to her with the extra luv thats coming frm me while she is on with her shakara n threats to leave me. It might not be the same testimony by the time things turn around.

-The only people wey no go hammer na cowardly lazy men.
you see what I mean? Thank God you admitted it!
Anyway, Dont worry, no crime in being broke but you broke guys should learn to appreciate the girl who stood by you when you were nothing and CONTINUE loving and caring for her the SAME way you did when you had nothing to boast about ok?

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