jobfront: See, girls themselves are to blame, it is the girls that make rich guys not to be loving becos they always show that with your money, that it is enough, that your money does every other thing for you. for instance, when i meet a girl, and she sees my ride, checks out my age and probably gets to know my fam...background, i have noticed that their love and interest always increased unusually. for instance, there was a time last year i went to visit a cousin on the mainland, i took a cab cos my ride was with d mechanic. so we went out shaa, and unfortunately, his car got broke down, and we had to look for a taxi, but couldn't find any, and my cousin being a born omolile agbero, suggested we take a public bus, and lo & behold we did. inside d bus, i saw this chick just sitting next to me, after some time, i said hi, she ignored, i kinda liked dis girl to d last, said hi again, snobbed me, i tried again before my cousin signaled me to stop, so i painfully did. on getting down, she was also going down dsame bus stop, so i took the opportunity to try again, but she ignored me and after i tried again, she said, thts how u poor guys wil be going up and down pursuin girls instead of finding urself sth to do, pls go jo. i was dead inside, i swallowed and walked away. unbelievably, i met dis same girl somewhere after 2 weeks, that day i was on my power ride, and on goggles, so i walked up to her where she ws standing & waiting for a byke and asked her, do you mind if i give u a ride? she smiled and said, tnkx...but u dnt knw where i am going? i replied, never mind, i will go wherever u want me to ma. she smiled and said, u must be funny, and finally off we go. 2 days later, i nyashd her & kicked her. later i sent her sms....to explain who i am. so my guys, girls themselves make guys with extra cash not to be loving, cos they make them to know that money is all they need, so y wste time loving? wheresas poor guys who don't usually get attention from girls have no options than to show the girl love to mke her stay with them. they are helpless, i do pity them shaaa....life....wished i cud change that status for all guys just to deal with gurlz!! lolz

jobfront: @Killz, you are a kid with less or no experience, why do you always like to intrude when men are interacting? carry time o!! you better give up your fighting for girls on NL, cos you ain't gona get any gurl on NL, you better go and hustle to make money and enjoy a wide immunity with chicks...doing this your fending for girls can't win you a flash from a NL girl talk less of a wink....sorry, meant no offense, was only strolling by....hope you took your drugs tonight?...lol

occam: Ladies saying poor guys are more loving than those with extra cash are LIARS. Guys don’t believe this. Maybe they’re managing you until they find a correct guy. Don't buy this Nollywood story, romeo and Juliet nonsense.

Most Naija women are impatient when things aren’t working out. You start hearing stuff like “see Dele took his wife & Kids to Disneyland and you’re still struggling to get me visa for Dubai.” Naija women bug you to buy “aso ebi’ every weekend for some dumb wedding or birthday. And you want us to believe. The motto for our ladies is: "No money No love"

So for ladies, who is a poor guy? well when you’re dating a guy between 31 to 34 then you must see/observe these things, if not he’s poor.

- Lives in his own apartment; not with mom or pop
- On these 3 occasions he steps up his game to show he loves you: your birthday, valentine and Christmas. Not just with flowers or a measly meal at McDonald’s
- Of course has a job or business (and make sure you can verify this)
- Listens to your problems and tries to come up with a solution especially if it involves money.

If he’s under 30, well there’s still time but… if not, ditch this poor guy NOW. Your marriage is already in trouble before it’s even started. Ask yourself why can’t he meet these needs. Money ritual can be a last ditch attempt to change things.

I may sound cold, but we live in a brutal world. Cost of living has gone up a lot in the last 15 yrs… Today you pay for wedding, 2 yrs you start buying diapers, 5th yr you’re paying school fees, small time baby #2 arrives and the cycle starts again, you wanna buy a correct ride to take family out and so on…

Mayflowa: Kai,dem wan finish killz mehnnn!

Dem no reach mehnnn! Dey neva even born the person papa mehhnnnn. . .

Make them still dey practice, the D Day go soon come, and they'll be silenced once and for all. . . Let'em practice. . . It's only fair!

jobfront: See, girls themselves are to blame, it is the girls that make rich guys not to be loving becos they always show that with your money, that it is enough, that your money does every other thing for you. for instance, when i meet a girl, and she sees my ride, checks out my age and probably gets to know my fam...background, i have noticed that their love and interest always increased unusually. for instance, there was a time last year i went to visit a cousin on the mainland, i took a cab cos my ride was with d mechanic. so we went out shaa, and unfortunately, his car got broke down, and we had to look for a taxi, but couldn't find any, and my cousin being a born omolile agbero, suggested we take a public bus, and lo & behold we did. inside d bus, i saw this chick just sitting next to me, after some time, i said hi, she ignored, i kinda liked dis girl to d last, said hi again, snobbed me, i tried again before my cousin signaled me to stop, so i painfully did. on getting down, she was also going down dsame bus stop, so i took the opportunity to try again, but she ignored me and after i tried again, she said, thts how u poor guys wil be going up and down pursuin girls instead of finding urself sth to do, pls go jo. i was dead inside, i swallowed and walked away. unbelievably, i met dis same girl somewhere after 2 weeks, that day i was on my power ride, and on goggles, so i walked up to her where she ws standing & waiting for a byke and asked her, do you mind if i give u a ride? she smiled and said, tnkx...but u dnt knw where i am going? i replied, never mind, i will go wherever u want me to ma. she smiled and said, u must be funny, and finally off we go. 2 days later, i nyashd her & kicked her. later i sent her sms....to explain who i am. so my guys, girls themselves make guys with extra cash not to be loving, cos they make them to know that money is all they need, so y wste time loving? wheresas poor guys who don't usually get attention from girls have no options than to show the girl love to mke her stay with them. they are helpless, i do pity them shaaa....life....wished i cud change that status for all guys just to deal with gurlz!! lolz

Sugardiva:

Tales by moonlight

hustla: Q1 Is dis why we are here?
Q2 How does dis affect d price of condom?

sample042: D reason s simple, thus;
Poverty humbles men.

deeflamez: Broke Guys are usually more Loving than Rich Guys,but Rich Guys SHOW more Love than Broke Guys #Keyword: SHOW

~Killz~:
This is bullshit! If broke guys are more loving, how come the rich guys become more loving after they get married. . . Duh! Blah Blah B U L L S H I T! ! !

MegaG: to know if a man is humble, let him have. u can't say a dude truly loves u until he has money in his pocket. some poor dudes turn out to be monsters immediately they become somebody. so ladies, don't count it as love because for all i care he might b committed cos of an empty pocket!

Osasumwen15: all girls are after money especially girls who are the first child.beware

jobfront: Today i woke up feeling tired not to go to church, but finally, God inspired me & i went & it was awesome, i worship at RCCG a.k.a. Redeem, and the man of God that preached today seemed like he was sent to speak to me personally because all he said- fornication, using & dumping girls, immoral lifestyle and encouraging others not to be righteous, was all that i do. though i wasn't born this way, i was raised by a disciplinary father and a loving mother, who provided all my needs and showered me with love, but life experiences with the opposite sex began to turn me into a bad guy with no conscience for girls. in fact i was headed towards going as far as breaking hearts of at least 20 different girls by the end of this year. I loved guys that maltreat girls; if you cheat on your wife, u are my best friend, if you use & dump girls, u are my paddy and i don't mind giving u money to achieve any evil (besides physical killing) against girls. i just hated girls and had already cancelled marriage in my dictionary cos i was determined to adopt or born on contract. but this morning at RCCG amazing grace parish, God touched me amazingly, i am now a new person, so please ignore all my threads and posts against Nigerian girls. i Am sorry pls, forgive me Lord, i am sorry if i hurt any of u or destroyed your faith in God or in human, forgive me & forget. join me in prayers so i can stand and not fall again. to the ladies, try & be nice to men, try & ask God to help u become a good friend, daughter, sister, fiancee, wife and mother, God can do all things, i am now a witness. don't always put money & material things first in all u do, especially in your relationships. if u love a guy with your heart, go after him irrespective of his financial or social status, and join him in prayers and encourage him, he will surely make it and will forever value and respect/ treat you like a queen, than when you just come when he is already made. pls forgive my frequent bashing on Nigerian females, even if any wronged me, i have forgiven you all from the bottom of my heart and pls do find it in your own heart to forgive me too & forget. i want to live a new happy life, even with or without a woman. Now i see that having money is not all it takes to be happy in life, but having Jesus Christ, the giver of peace and joy, now i feel inner peace, good afternoon friends and God bless you all. Please moderators help me put this on the front page. Thank you & God bless you all & God bless NL! Pls find time and read these Bible verse: 2Timothy 3:1-4. Isaiah 53:5
Pls guys, live a good life that glorifies the name of God. loving and knowing God is the best & the only key to joy & happiness, so pls ignore my advise and be good to your friends, female and male, God loves us and wants us to be the best & to reflect His image in our daily lives. pls also pray for my salvation, that God should strengthen me not to fall but to stand till the end, amen! God bless you all, I love God so much, pls Lord help me to love u more each day!

Sweetlemon: Ladies, have you noticed that most broke guys are very loving towards women compared to those who have some extra cash to spare.
In my opinion, I think its more of pretence. Before you crucify me, have you also noticed that most times, after the poor man is married to the lady, he starts showing his true self. that is where insecurity starts rearing its ugly head especially if the woman has more money and the man is just barely there, or jobless. I have seen live cases of this.
The guys who have more cash to spare are usually not so loving cos they are not sure if that is the reason why you claim to love them so they are more laid back but believe me, they are actually watching and testing you to see if you really love them for who they are. You will also notice that when they get married, they tend to be more loving towards their wives (and I believe this depends on how well the lady plays her part)
so whichever guy you end up with, just make sure you are sure o and not just because you think he's a 'wonderful guy' or because you think he will later start showering love on you.

DECOtech: At the moment, I'm in luv n for now, I'm a fukin broke a*ss. God knows I'm only tryn to make it up to her with the extra luv thats coming frm me while she is on with her shakara n threats to leave me. It might not be the same testimony by the time things turn around.

-The only people wey no go hammer na cowardly lazy men.