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| Who Would U Choose? by OgidiOlu3(m): 7:20pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
If you were to choose between someone that will love and accept you for who you are OR someone that will change your life for better, Who would u choose? |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by bingbagbo(m): 7:23pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
NONE OF THE ABOVE!!  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by modavi: 7:50pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
someone that can love you for who you are can still change your life for the better as time goes on.love is not blind,it only sees wat matters, |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by OgidiOlu3(m): 8:00pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
^^^i know but assuming one loves u as u are and does not change anything about u(u're still where u used to be) AND the other changes a lot about u(u're now a beta person), who would u choose? Don't forget that they both love u. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by modavi: 8:04pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
brb!  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Killz3(m): 8:56pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
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| Re: Who Would U Choose? by queensmith: 9:00pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
ok lets make sense out of this. Given the example of a woman that will love you for being a jobless tramp that lives under a bus shelter and a woman that is eager for you to move out of the bus shelter and get you a job. Choose the woman that wants to change you, no man can regret it. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by OgidiOlu3(m): 9:51pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
^^^@queensmith. Why do people keep looking for 'someone dat will love me for ME' and not 'someone that will affect my life positively'?  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by queensmith: 10:17pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Because people are lazy and don't want to try harder. Its understandable that nobody wants to be reminded of falling short but at the same time i think it's important to appreciate when your other half is trying to make you better. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by slimyem: 10:33pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Ogidi-Olu:this question,e get as e be! |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by 1stKlass(f): 11:41pm On Feb 20, 2012 |
Ogidi-Olu: I would choose the first, because if a person accepts and loves me for who I am then that already has changed my life for the better. Its a win-win situation imo  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Nobody: 12:01am On Feb 21, 2012 |
1stKlass:nice!  @poster, how about someone who loves you and accepts you as you are now, but you mutually inspire and support each other, to keep changing for the better. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by OgidiOlu3(m): 12:22am On Feb 21, 2012 |
1stKlass:Oh! Has it? Let's take this scenario: U're dating a guy dat can't speak English fluently. If u choose to accept him as he is, u'll be scared to even correct his blunders because u knew he was like dat b4 u guys started dating BUT someone dat wants to change him will correct him even if he will get angry. So, if u were dis guy, who will u prefer? The 'loving acceptor' OR the 'annoying changer'. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by 1stKlass(f): 12:40am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Ogidi-Olu: I dont see it in the same way. To change me means to alter the core of my character and personality , so using your own example, if I met a guy whose English was not as fluent as it could be then of course I will help him improve it, that is not the same as wanting to instill in him a desire to change. It is an improvement on what is already there not a change to his personality or character. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Flashaldrin(m): 12:46am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Lol, the things i have to waste my time on. Smh @ People replying. |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by 1stKlass(f): 12:49am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: Now this is funny ^^^^^ you are shaking your head at yourself. Hilarious image abi |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Nobody: 1:01am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: I dont think Im wasting my time.  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Flashaldrin(m): 1:17am On Feb 21, 2012 |
1stKlass:another case of username paradox. I'm shaking my head at the people replying to the question, cos it sounds so foolish, my little cuz would hiss and walk away. Now i didnt reply to the question, did i?? |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Flashaldrin(m): 1:19am On Feb 21, 2012 |
talina:i didnt say that. Afterall you cant be wasting your time if you have nothing better to do with the time! |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Nobody: 3:54am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Flashaldrin: You are here too!  |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Idowuogbo(f): 5:31am On Feb 21, 2012 |
Ogidi sweets am lost here,if am to make sense out of this,I would go for sum1 who loves ME for Me.I have phrase I use always,it goes" to love is natural but to understand d variations of love is wisdom".Sticking with sum1 dat loves u means dat person will break barriers to make things rite eida by understanding or accepting changes, or by learning and adapting to keep d flame burning,dat alone shows positive impacts.U could also argue about d postive impact aspect,but sorry to bust ur lil bubble if dat so called positive impact does not love or accept ur ways,den Son u in a serious dilenma.Think friend think! |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Excelboi(m): 5:40am On Feb 21, 2012 |
I dnt knw why people like too much story! Choose one and get tha hell out. @op, someone who will change my life for better, 4ck luv! |
| Re: Who Would U Choose? by Nobody: 6:24am On Feb 21, 2012 |
"better" is ver subjective. I prefer to be in charge of my destiny. God leadeth the way. |
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