We seperated a year ago. Actually,her parents did the seperation so we were both hurt. I tried reconcilling with her and appease her parents but seeing am begging,it get over her head and she started insulting me,first locking me up,then disgracing me before her elders and equally raining all manners of insults on me through all the communication channels.
it past one year now,why cant she just stop since its obvious we cant marry anymore because she continously tell me she is now married and expecting her first baby. I am of the opinon that we should just be friends since she still relates with her other ex guys.
Recently,i have begged her and admitted all the wrongdoings and ask her for forgiveness yet she keeps abusing and cursing!!!
Indeed i love her,how do i convince this lady to forget the past and let be friends since she is in a relationship now? It puzzles me that a lady that dump a guy cant find reason to cheer the guy up.

Goldie,
I need advice please. Atleast from a female perspective

Even if she doesnt want you anymore, does that mean she should be throwing tantrums at you in the presence of every tom dick & harry? Op, that babe lack manners! She's also uncivilized! Besides, must you marry her? Op, you need to let go, she doesnt deserve you.
If you end up marrying someone like that, she would be the man of the house.

Guy, forget her friendship and move on. Lots of fishes in the ocean.
Abi na by force?

Arrived,
You have got lots of wisdom

@Crown Prince

The question is what did u do to her? tell us the truth

Thanks op, people that cant manage their anger like that your ex don't worth bothering about!

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@Crown Prince

The question is what did u do to her? tell us the truth

tell us ,what happened . May be we will be in a better place to advice, then.

Why would you still want to be friends with someone who treated you so shabbily like that? Moreover she's married so? Like someone said,there are many fishes in the ocean

Pfffft! Half baked stories, cant work with it.

Did you die yet OP?

Op as beautiful as love is, its sometimes best to put 'reasoning' first. Except u want everyone to rush to ur pity and get pathetic.

What did u do, and how does she want u dead? U admitted ur wrongdoings and apologized? What wrongdoings? r u d only sane person against d whole family that ur relationship with her degenerated to such barbaric level.

Boo hoo!!

Ummmmmmmm
BRB let me consult the oracle.

u dint say what went wrong

Actually,this is my true story. We have been having domestic issues before but sometime it degenerates to physical abuse which i am always the victim. She is brash,abusive and unrepentant short tempered lady. I also is a victim of short temper but sensible and tries protecting my pride each time she is on the lose.
We dated four year and two of those as a live in lovers. I refused further preparation to our engagement because of her way of life. She lies,cheats and make dirty smart manuvouerings. I only requested she leave my house in the wake of this lingering issues of incompatibility but she goes all out fighting me dirty-remember i requested and her leaving was totally her violation.

Now u'r talking

Eurgh! You guys can't even be civil in a relationship or out. Goshhhh! Grow up and go work on your anger, lies, childish behaviour etc. You guys have issues. Just go your seperate ways, and out of each other's lives. You're not heliping each other. Let her be, please. It's not a must to remain friends after a break up. And you're supposed to be a grown-ass man. Smh!

I know,impaired characters must always have dissenting views