There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY". Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc

P.S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself

How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice?

Women! One confused set of creature.

You can't. He'll never get you. Your best bet though would be to deliberately hurt him, to stoke some sort of fire in him (if he has any)and then maybe, bring out just a little of his dark side. Lol. But even this would be a gamble. Cos he still might be too nicey nicey to see through this ploy and may overlook 'what you didn't use to be like'..

Cosmass: There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY". Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc

P.S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself

How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice?

I guess he's conditioned himself to be 'romantic'. I think you should exit the relationship before you start disrespecting him. When you start doing anyhow is when you hear brothers say stuff like ''Nigerian girls are .....''

Cosmass: There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY". Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc

P.S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself

How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice?

This is one topic that is even too difficult 4 Confucius and he finds it so confusing. Confucius says " nice guy or not, women will just not understand. Its not about how nice the guy is but how they relate in the relationship"

I sense the guy may have not been in many relationships or haven't experienced major heartbreak. He'd likely be changed by circumstances, not you.

^^Bodykiss, ori e pe. When the guyy has been weaned off this chivalry nonsense he's practising his relationship philosophy will shift 180¤. I'm all for treating your significant other like a queen but kings are not menservants who wait on queens hand and foot 24/7, the better he realise this the better.

i can't stand such nicey nicey guys.
The act is usually a smoke-screen and i never buy it!
When they have you where they want you,the real them shows up!
Mtcheeeeeeeew!
Maybe you could just put up a snubbing act of some sort and hopes he gets the message...

I have learnt t0 take girls at face value...S0me 0f them are n0t even w0rth the shit...N0 matter 0w pretty a girl is I jst dnt care...I will treat th0se wh0 deserved t0 be treated well very well and th0se wh0 are nt w0rth the shit vice versa...Dnt w0rry 0p u will get the nasty aggressive guy u want...sha dnt cme back here and c0mplain...Instead u shud appreciate wat u have mschewww

he is nice----they complain

he is cruel---they complain

he is handsome----they complain

he is ugly---they don't even go there

he is rich---they rejoice at first and later start complaining

he is not rich?----dat one is a diff story

pls ooo

what else do you girls want ooo...nobody should say perfect cos dre's nufing like "a perfect man"..

@op
learn how to appreciate what GOD has given to you, if you don't want, kindly lve and go else where

#LUBBISH

Cosmass: There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY". Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc

P.S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself

How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice?

yea dude is a sucker as mofo. thats the type of guy who would flip on you as soon as you get married.

fresh_dude: ^^Bodykiss, ori e pe. When the guyy has been weaned off this chivalry nonsense he's practising his relationship philosophy will shift 180¤. I'm all for treating your significant other like a queen but kings are not menservants who wait on queens hand and foot 24/7, the better he realise this the better.

*In sheen's voice* I don't gerrit.

yorke: Women! One confused set of creature.

U have said it all!if he beats dem,dey wl cry foul,now he's been d good guy,she's shouting....mchew

Wait make he marry u first, not b only nice na 'nicey'

Cosmass: There is a very sweet, nice guy you like which initially was good but as time went by, he is still very nice and when I mean nice, I mean "VERY". Even when you do something bad,he takes the blame,always lets you decide everything at the end, could compliment you 10 times in a day everyday, ready to overplease you at his own cost always etc

P.S I'm not saying it's bad but to some extent, he should also be able to stand for himself and sometimes please himself

How can one change or tell him he is being way tooooo nice?

I feel sorry for him. . .he deserves someone better.

You want to change him because he treats you well? Hope this guy dumps you or just leave him alone. Girls like you don't deserve proper men but abusers, rapists, cheats and guys who will fnck you pregnant, dump you and just laugh their ass off. . .hahahaha!

I hate too nice guy, I termed them MUGU,I'm nice but not too nice

I can totally relate. I'm talking to a guy that is too nice. We worked out together and he had a hard time telling me which exercise to do next. Let's do bicep curls next, if you like, I mean, if you want to. Come on. There is a limit. It doesn't mean something is wrong with me, or he deserves someone better. There are just some guys out there that think they need to be dormats in order to impress a girl? I don't know what it is. I want a man, someone that can at least make a decision as simple as what exercise we are doing next without trying to please me. So how do you tell the too nice guy you don't want to date him anymore, without telling him he's too nice

millco88:

I feel sorry for him. . .he deserves someone better.

Am tellin u, honestly!

Try telling him. Its amazing how something as simply and easy as talking goes a long way in solving problems

slimyem: i can't stand such nicey nicey guys.
The act is usually a smoke-screen and i never buy it!
When they have you where they want you,the real them shows up!
Mtcheeeeeeeew!
Maybe you could just put up a snubbing act of some sort and hopes he gets the message...

I think I blv u. I experieced that. D guy was just too nice. Everything I did ad he wld just forgive and even ask for forgiveness. See made in heaven man na.we were living in different countries. Only for me to come visiting and catch his soRry arse knacking one okpeke. The two of us got together and found out that we were both being played d same game. We both thot he was d nicest dude on earth. Sharp guy!!!