What is the general consensus on a women wanting to wait to get pregnant until after her wedding. should I get pregnant now for my fiancé? Yes or no? Fiancé is near 30. he wants kids like yesterday and wants me to get pregnant now. We both are students, don't have a job, he is looking at doing another masters and has one already. I have 1 child already and just want to wait till we get married this Summer or possibly next Jan to get pregnant, am I wrong? What do you suggest? I am in mid 20"s. I just completed my degree.. My child will be starting kindergarten soon, I feel it is better we both secured jobs and medical b4 getting pregnant. The wedding would be financed off loans.

from your economic status I would say make sure you keep taking the pill watch him to make sure he doesn't punch any holes in the condoms

you are going to need to reason with this career student to get a job because masters degrees won't feed the family marriage and kids with no job is the fastest reason for divorce

Staytru: What is the general consensus on a women wanting to wait to get pregnant until after her wedding. should I get pregnant now for my fiancé? Yes or no? Fiancé is in late 30"s. he wants kids like yesterday and wants me to get pregnant now. We both are students, don't have a job, he is looking at doing another masters and has one already. I have 1 child already and just want to wait till we get married this Summer or possibly next Jan to get pregnant, am I wrong? What do you suggest?

if you can afford it. doesnt sound like you can

It seems like you know your answer just make sure you stay strong with your decision.

How do you intend to look after another baby, when both of you are presently jobless? You stated you guys intended to get married in the summer or jan, do you have some savings in the bank to finance this? If he has already got an Msc and intends to get another, he seems to be a fairly sensible chap, sit him down and let him see your POV. Or maybe he wants to test that the tree can still bear fruits before he commits !!!

I am in mid 20"s. I just completed my degree.. My child will be starting kindergarten soon, I feel it is better we both secured jobs and medical b4 getting pregnant. The wedding would be financed off loans. What s your thought about that?

Staytru: I am in mid 20"s. I just completed my degree.. My child will be starting kindergarten soon, I feel it is better we both secured jobs and medical b4 getting pregnant. The wedding would be financed off loans. What s your thought about that?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! NOT LOANS,SO SOON ANYWAYS....Just stick it out! What's the rush?

I say NO! Unless you are looking to live off the goverment and that it limited.

Secure urself first and love the baby you have. He's thirty and still have plenty of time.

I'm seeing a guy who is in his late 40's and wants a kid.

What's the rush? He needs to calm his hormones down. Jeez!

Don't do it until you're ready, especially financially. You should know this already seeing as you already have a kid.