Hi evrybody! I hv bin in a relationship for 4 yrs wit dis luvly guy.he's 21 n am 20.we kept d relationship open i can evn visit him in his family house,we got admission in 2009 but he cudn't go 2 unijos cos of d crisis.d next year he got in BUK KANO.by den i was in my 2nd yr nut i dint mind,as tym went on,we had d bomb blast in kano dis year n his family r planin 2 relocate n he re-wrote JAMB while i am alredy in my 3rd yr. Nw am beginin 2 hv fear cos am d only daugther,wen i graduate my parents wud start watchin out 4 ring in my finger. My boyfriend stil has a long way 2 go but he luvs me 2 bits n our relationship has been void of sex. I cant bear 2 leave him cos of his situation yet am in tyt corner, hv talked 2 him abt dis n he said dat d ball is in my court. Nw am geyin more confused n depressed pls i need mature advise.

For once lemme be good. Sweetheart, success can never be determined by your level of education, though is plays a role too. You're not sacred of when he's ready to marry but when he's financially gonna be ready since as it's going, u thought dt being academically ahead, you'll get there first. But it doesn't alwys work out like that. My uncle got chattered through the help and support of his wife that was financially ahead of him. Now, since 15yrs ago since he's became a chattered accountant, he takes care of the whole family. My friend david read marine technology for ND but was unable to further due to the costssf not available here but abroad. He took to teaching while he saves from his stipends to do another course. Along the way, after yrs of gathering almost 300k for a sandwish programme in OOU, he met a girl he once dated yrs back. The girl is already working and ready to marry. Like play, they got married, the girl not minding his status, when d girl got pregnant, she dropped a suprise for david wit a secured visa in the states. The girl's father is well connected. Now, david has been in the states and will be through this yr.
Sweetheart, u either be an obstacle for your spouse, or a blessing. Pls choose

Tnx alot dat was encouragin

KINGwax: For once lemme be good. Sweetheart, success can never be determined by your level of education, though is plays a role too. You're not sacred of when he's ready to marry but when he's financially gonna be ready since as it's going, u thought dt being academically ahead, you'll get there first. But it doesn't alwys work out like that. My uncle got chattered through the help and support of his wife that was financially ahead of him. Now, since 15yrs ago since he's became a chattered accountant, he takes care of the whole family. My friend david read marine technology for ND but was unable to further due to the costssf not available here but abroad. He took to teaching while he saves from his stipends to do another course. Along the way, after yrs of gathering almost 300k for a sandwish programme in OOU, he met a girl he once dated yrs back. The girl is already working and ready to marry. Like play, they got married, the girl not minding his status, when d girl got pregnant, she dropped a suprise for david wit a secured visa in the states. The girl's father is well connected. Now, david has been in the states and will be through this yr.
Sweetheart, u either be an obstacle for your spouse, or a blessing. Pls choose

U r on point...

relationship is tricky atimes.open ur eyes and pray.but dont wait @ the busstop wishing.

^^Tnx but way do u mean by waiting @ d busstop and wishing

KINGwax: For once lemme be good. Sweetheart, success can never be determined by your level of education, though is plays a role too. You're not sacred of when he's ready to marry but when he's financially gonna be ready since as it's going, u thought dt being academically ahead, you'll get there first. But it doesn't alwys work out like that. My uncle got chattered through the help and support of his wife that was financially ahead of him. Now, since 15yrs ago since he's became a chattered accountant, he takes care of the whole family. My friend david read marine technology for ND but was unable to further due to the costssf not available here but abroad. He took to teaching while he saves from his stipends to do another course. Along the way, after yrs of gathering almost 300k for a sandwish programme in OOU, he met a girl he once dated yrs back. The girl is already working and ready to marry. Like play, they got married, the girl not minding his status, when d girl got pregnant, she dropped a suprise for david wit a secured visa in the states. The girl's father is well connected. Now, david has been in the states and will be through this yr.
Sweetheart, u either be an obstacle for your spouse, or a blessing. Pls choose

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