true for my father but my husband?? he gotta carry it. am sorry.[/color]

Looka here, what i posted has nothin' to do with me. Go back and read correctly but when d time comes for my marriage, u can bet it's goin' to be a naija dude.don't let that be your personal problem now. Besides, i never said they were disrespectful just not sensitive. c'mon. english is really not that difficult.

money4you:

We don't care about the US life ok? that was the us fucking life, talk about nigeria life olofo

JustGood:



Seeing that English is not that difficult, you could have written that in better grammar.

Get away and find something else to do. Na by force to post something? The only idle hands like you want to do is to bash Naija. How many foreign men have you been with?

shuo

hmmm,God, why?? bash naija?? now, why'd i want to do that when am from there.It's funny how pple have brain but refuse to use it. See, ain't nobody askin' u to post so if u ask me, u shld be d one gettin' out not me. As for ur last question, u don't know me or my age, so be quiet. As for english, u can bet i can speak in better grammar but seein' that this is just a forum, i learned to take it easy because nobody really cares what u speak as long as u're comprehendable. That,i know i am so i don't know why u're confused about my post because i clearly stated that it has to do with a couple.

FemiATL:

Hold on! Where do you reside? I guess the US based on your posting! Did I mention language? No I said “accent”!
So what was your question---- “Are Nigerian Men Lazy or Just Completely Insensitive?” My answer ----only Naija women who come to the US try to turn the naija men into complete nonsense, just because they cannot maintain a balance between their culture and the new environment they meet themselves. Did I answer you question or you still think I am digressing. Sorry to say your thoughts of how a typical Nigerian man must behave has been affected by the US environment, thus your question.

Sometimes a conversation might get a bit technical so you have to be able to think ahead. And based on the fact that you are not close to the age of marriage, that explains you are a bit immature to understand the depth of a response.

chiogo:

@naija_diva, hey girl, long time.

@londoner,ok, i got u.

naija_diva:

hey ya. i know you 'bout to be mad because i'm about to leave. but i'll log on again when i come back.

FemiATL:

Chiogo----
People who understand what I am saying do and i guess you are not one of them. When a Naija woman leaves Naija and come to the US (example) they change into something else. Asking if a naija man is lazy or insensitive is based on a lot of factors, one being comparism. There must be a basis for your comparism and that could be related to behavior of other races and even other Nigerians in general.
But I must tell you, when a woman calls her husband lazy, that is insulting to him and vice-versa. It goes on to say a man can no longer perform his duty. But when you say insensitive, it is another ball game on its own.
How many women based in Nigeria will bother if their husband carries a bag for them or not. If it is too heavy for a woman to carry a few bags, then all she need to do is ask for a hand and if the husband does not help then you can qualify that as insensitive not lazy.
But when our Naija women get to the US they make new laws, come up with new ideas that is novel and want to perpetuate it. The irony of it all is that it starts from a simple question like yours, then a notch further. Give an inch they take a mile. Are you still at awe?

toyinrayo:

i understand what you're saying. however, living in the US has nothing to do with it. it all has to do with modern thinking even SOME naija women in naija have asked the same question. so what you're trying to say is naija men are neither lazy nor insensitive. aight, we got your point thanks, case closed


[size=15pt]Naija Mena are neither lazy nor Completely Insensitive[/size]

Chiogo, you got that?

JustGood:

Living in the UK/US has a lot to do with it. How many women living in Nigeria have you heard complaining or saying that their men are lazy because they don't carry the grocery bag from shopping?