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Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 10:59am On Apr 25, 2012 |
Sub_zidi God bless you and that man, don't mind ekwensu trying to reap were he did not sow. I will text you my number when I get home, called you with work phone, my mobile phone is at home. God bless your marriage, do quick and go back to lagos jooo and go sh@g his brains out . Nothing like make-up s3x. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Analytical(m): 11:16am On Apr 25, 2012 |
@sub_zidi, that was quick and commendable! Thanks for listening and taking to advice as well. You and hubby will get to understnad each other the more. Conflicts are bound to occur. Learn from them and be the best for yourselves. Loving the two of you already! As Jenny said, make sure you repay the four days of absence from duty with a weekend of marathon! As for Jenny, I saw beyond all that fiesty and blunt character long ago. I knew she had to be a great person through and through. All of us can't be the same. I am glad I wasn't proved wrong. So, Jenny this is for you |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 11:19am On Apr 25, 2012 |
Welcome to marriage. U and ur husband are childish. What is with all the malice and threat of leaving the marriage just for minor issues? Since ur husband want's to play the macho man, step down from the captains cabin and be the bigger person for peace to reign. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 11:25am On Apr 25, 2012 |
Thanks to Jenny for mediating but i stil think she is an a[i]s[/i]s hole . Erm are we sure op isn't Jenny? Maybe she is trying to redeem her image Make i commot before dem kill me. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 11:47am On Apr 25, 2012 |
Awww Bless you analytical. .Devil was just there enjoying himself as both of them were busy saying "I won't apologise afterall I did nothing wrong". You know me naaa, if it is a cheating husband or abusive husband, my tone of voice for change for this thread No long thing This woman loves her husband to death and so does he, that man can literally cross the ocean for her. They just need to get used to working as a team. Let me go and find another cheating husband thread and show face small |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by subzidi: 12:22pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
For those implying this is Jenny sooooo wrong! I was frustrated cos I didn't know who to talk to hence I put it up on NL. Incidentally Jenny was the person to respond as God would have! @Jenny: yea I will go back thursday instead of friday! Wld sure make-up with kpekuson when AF goes home! @Analytical: you were soooo right my hubby is like you interms he doesn't wanna involve me on tech stuffs but sometimes I come up with creative ideas which he uses when his own has failed ! Lol but y are MEN like dat? In fact sometime agohe bought some techy stuff he was trying to fix I noticed he was having difficulty then I joined him in observing the catalogue an idea came to my head which he applied and it worked! But he was furious and beating himself up that night! Meanwhile I later discovered he was googling how to fix it b4 I stepped in...lol! He's such a lovely guy in/out but his sturborness atimes chei....tks 4 ur contribution too as I would be looking 4 u whenever I want to pick out d mind of man! Thanks so much all! This experience has taught me that really REAL people come here with REAL issues but most times we see some members either attacking or mocking them! This is one big family now for me! Many thanks peeps and much love! |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
^^^You owe no one no explanation. Yesterday they accused me of being someone else, today they accuse me of being you , let them continue to live in fool's paradise, Such is life. You sound happy dearie, I can see the burden has been lifted off your shoulder. Attend more church programs with your husband. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Analytical(m): 1:13pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
@Gaggi, give it up! What if the OP registered using another name but is actually not new to NL? The Jenny we know is not given to pretence. It seems you like her so much |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Analytical: @Gaggi, give it up! What if the OP registered using another name but is actually not new to NL? The Jenny we know is not given to pretence. It seems you like her so much @ Don't mind him. The dude and richy are so in love with me that they chase me from one post to the other . The poor girl refused to post with her normal ID cos she's got her pics there, bless her for even thinking str8 amidst tears They know me naaa, I no dey fear to open mouth to them. Even Mukina sef is tired of me, if not she for don ban me since this year |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Analytical(m): 1:24pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
@sub_zidi, lol! I guess it has to do with the male ego. We want to figure things out on own own and feel proud of our achievement! Sometimes it backfires. Don't mind us. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 1:27pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Analytical: @Gaggi, give it up! What if the OP registered using another name but is actually not new to NL? The Jenny we know is not given to pretence. It seems you like her so much Just trying to show some of u that we ain't all gullible. African's are so easy to scam. Anyway, Jenny enjoy ur moment of fame. Whatever rocks ur boat. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by shushu(f): 1:34pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
gaggi its ok, i also communicated with sub zidi and the number worked. The importasnt thing is she has been advised well.sometimes it isnt easy to discuss issues with friends or family and anonymous persons tend to tell you the blunt truth rather than sweet coat it |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
shushu: gaggi its ok, Jenny planted her friend on d line to help out with d scam. . I've had my fun for d day and i'm out. Just pushing buttons, no harm intended. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 1:59pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
shushu: gaggi its ok, Nope, This is another one of jenny's ID posting here |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Fawaz30(m): 3:01pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
jennykadry: You both are keeping malice which is not good at all for this marriage at least not at this stage. You both seem to be full of pride, One of yous need to step down and let the other person take charge(without pride). . . . I cannot imagine that one of yous is away from the other person and no one has bothered to communicate? Best requote from this Lady, i myself im new to this marriage thing, we got married almost a year ago we've had our ups and down, i speak to my other married friend and believe they give best advice, talk to him, give him space, stay positive, be patient and keep praying my sister. Ps, a violent man won't threaten to slap every other. (excuse my typo on the train) |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by MmuoOkija: 3:14pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
How is your sex life?! If you guys are not going at it atleast 5 times a week, then thats the beginning of your problem. You need to start watching p'orn to learn some new mind blowing techniques that would leave hiom so exhausted he would go right to sleep without eating. Secondly, why you never carry belle after one year?! Abi you never tire for honeymoon?! Thirdly, have you started tying wrapper and walking around the house in hairnet and pyjamas?! This can also creat friction in marriage. . Also, learn how to be a mother to him and start massaging his ego. . Stop taking offence at everything he does. . we men are babies and very few women know how to handle us.. . I suggest you get a book about it. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by tasandra: 3:40pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Gurl,i will tell u my hubby,s worse than urs..in this malice thin but i knw hw to handle him :Pall men are disame...luv and cherish him,like u av always been doin..i luv that 1st move u made...it will make him knw hw wonderful u are 4 a wife.God bless ur home..enjoy it gurl |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by NaJoke2000: 6:45pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
tasandra: Gurl,i will tell u my hubby,s worse than urs..in this malice thin but i knw hw to handle him :Pall men are disame...luv and cherish him,like u av always been doin..i luv that 1st move u made...it will make him knw hw wonderful u are 4 a wife.God bless ur home..enjoy it gurl Gbam!!! Just love ur husband and stepdwon from competitive hot seat. And u wld b surprise at extent of control u will have over him by being submissive. I wish u well. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by dayokanu(m): 6:56pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Jenny Oya call me too, Me sef get issue wey I wan discuss over phone(NB: Read phone-sex for dummies before calling) or better still come in person to my house |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Simmy1: 7:37pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
That is life 4 U. You have 2 go on your knees, let God intervene even if you have made the wrong choice, he is able to do all things. Wakeup earlier 2am, speak 2 God in tears 4 like 40days. If the problem persist. Talk 2 your pastor before families. Did you sort God before marrying him? If no, then you have 2 be palient, if yes, then go back to your God |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
jennykadry: Can you please keep my user name out of your biz. If you like register as many false ids as please you,so that you can open a thread where you go back and forth with yourself in order to launder your bad image-None of my business. Two people can not be caught in the deception of a lie-Either the person telling the lie will know it is a lie or the person it is being told to will know it is a lie. What ever rocks your boat,dear. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Ehikoyia: 8:08pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
A home where Christ is absent, there'll be crises. The devil cometh not to steal, kill and destroy; while Christ has come to give life abundant. The devil knows that God has a good programme for your marriage, but the devil wants to steal, kill and destroy that programme. What to do? Understand that your husband loves u. And such he needs your attention. A situation where he needs you but you are not available to meet his psychological needs due to nature of your work(U leave home early and return late). If it'll take you to get another job that returns you home early before your husband comes from work, pls go for it. Two wrong can not make a right. Also, develop personal relationship with God, be prayerful, show him extra-ordinary love.God bless u |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 8:58pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Abeg make una close this thread! The problem is solved, i arrived very late, hoping i will be the messiah to this troubled marriage. Anyway, Next one pls....I got less time here |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by maryini(f): 9:09pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Mmuo Okija: How is your sex life?! So you are happy to behave like a baby. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by OYINBOGOJU(m): 10:12pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
sub_zidi: Hi NLanders, i would like to get opinion plus advice from people who are already experienced in marriage! My story is a long one but i woukld like ti make it as brief and straight to the point as possible. Intro: My hubby and I dated for about a year before we decided to tie the knot. During courtship/dating, i thought/felt he was one of the best things that happened to me probablly still is...We more like built/building our life together from the scratch. Initially things were not easy for him financially when we were still dating+courting but i did'nt mind cos i felt i had a good man ,who was self motivated,intelligent, smart,purposefully driven and above all loved God! Then we made out time to pray together and commune with God while committing his situation then to God for open doors as he was affected by the crisis in the bank. Two wrongs can never make a right. Please take note of those highlighted phrases No man love to be threatened by his wife. You always give up easily which i know Men don"t really like,don"t you know how to calm your man down wherever he is high,try to work on that. Next time come down little bit,let him feel he is the husband. Don"t forget no matter how much you have helped him before both of you can never paddle the canoe. Someone has to give up and its you. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Saraha1(f): 10:13pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Problem solve,n -e-x-t!!! |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 10:46pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Ewww I hate the word kpekus. . . Been seeing it here too often. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
Richvkunt: Now I know why you don't make sense, cos you talk too much. Kudos to your wife for dumping you. It is well Happy sh@ging with your best friends wife. |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 11:54pm On Apr 25, 2012 |
I wonder what it must be like spending all that time registering so many false identities? Then you start going back and forth with yourself. Don't you feel dizzy sometimes? However what I want to know Jenny,is how did you dream up the phone number trick? Absolute genius! |
Re: My Husband Of Less Than A 1yr Of Marriage Has Changed by Nobody: 12:01am On Apr 26, 2012 |
sub_zidi: @ Jenny: Update: I called him and we had 1hr discussion over the phone about the incident and we have both trashed things out.His anger was that he was calling me to get back home and i was talking back and saying in hash tone +public" leave me alone to go to work i have meeting" i apologised profusely and told him i had written an attestation letter that no matter how angry i am that i would never show any form of emotional outburst in the public,i'd sign it and put a date! He bursted out and started laughing! i also mentioned the verbal aggression bit of saying i will SLAP u, and his response was that it was a way of telling him that he's pissed and i said we would include it in the attestation that bioth of us would sign. at that point, i broke down again and started crying, i reminded him we both made decision to get married, hence he should not involve my dad as he threatened.And as u advised Jenny, i also made him understand that is left to both of to build this our beautiful r/ship and a spark of bitterness by d devil to destroy it! Alas he sobered and apologised too and promised me he would find another expression/code only too of us understand to use whenever he's angry with me! [b]And Jenny, This touch was just CLASSICAL public relations! |
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