hi nairalanders, i need ur wise opinion and suggestion on this. There is this lady am trying to make her change some of her bad attitude. but she is always prooving stubborn and very unteachable. I want to know if is possible for one to influence anoder person esp sombody very dear.

only if d person is willin 2 change

It's a very difficult task, you will need to learn a thing or two about human psychology. The key is any change you want her to make: let it be as if it was her idea.