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Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Killz1(m): 11:48pm On May 18, 2012 |
pDude:***Falls from a Liberian Mango tree*** |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 11:51pm On May 18, 2012 |
Killz.: what were you doing on top of a Liberian Mango tree |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 11:53pm On May 18, 2012 |
Dis Pdude is mean 0!!!! Laughing my bra off o!!!!! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Killz1(m): 11:56pm On May 18, 2012 |
pDude:I was peeping at Hotie Tima. . . No Offense. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Godmother(f): 12:00am On May 19, 2012 |
pDude: *yawns* |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 12:05am On May 19, 2012 |
Godmother: Prayer isn't enough. Keep your legs closed too. From your NL history, you have a filthy habit of returning to your Ex-bfs even when you break up with them. You're like the proverbial dog that always return to its vomit. I lie? Or should I paste the numerous proofs of your returning to ur Ex-bfs? (E be like say the babe go delete all her past posts ) Keep ur legs closed and your mind sharp and things will turn for you. *wink* |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 12:13am On May 19, 2012 |
@Godmother- Mu che che che che che. So you have finally put up your pix in ur profile eh? It wasn't there before sha. It seems that due to my posts, you felt that your profile page might experience some traffic, hence you put up ur pix to advertise yourself. . A good move but quite cheap, considering the fact that NL is an anonymous website. Be careful with what you write here or what pictures you paste cos they might just haunt you; just like I'm haunting you with your past. BTW, you are pretty on the outside (fact) but I'm not too sure how the inside is (maybe inside is decayed). Cheap advertisement, but a good move considering the fact that you are now desperate for a hubby. Mu he he he he. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by ijebabe: 12:14am On May 19, 2012 |
^^^LWKMDD!!!!!!!!!!!! Please stop, allow me go to bed. PLEASE |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 12:16am On May 19, 2012 |
ijebabe: ^^^LWKMDD!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh sowrri dearie. I'm in a different timezone so its still daylight here n I'm having a blast. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 12:17am On May 19, 2012 |
Pdude ooo!!!!! It af do na! I don laff my bra and g-string comot oo!!! Chineke moi! U are evil! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by ijebabe: 12:18am On May 19, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Pdude ooo!!!!! It af do na! I don laff my bra and g-string comot oo!!! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 12:19am On May 19, 2012 |
ijebabe:Na dat 1 u go see! Asewooooooo! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by ijebabe: 12:21am On May 19, 2012 |
pDude:It will be daylight in a couple of hours and haven't slept yet! Maybe you can do a sequel to Adamawa Girls based on this thread. Title it "Prayer isn't enough. Keep your legs closed too" |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 12:21am On May 19, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Pdude ooo!!!!! It af do na! I don laff my bra and g-string comot oo!!! Mu he he he he he he he. Ok lemme chill for the babe. Lemme relax on my reins. Its just that her post vexed my soul. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 12:23am On May 19, 2012 |
ijebabe: I will give that some serious thought |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 12:28am On May 19, 2012 |
ijebabe: Chei! Y u doing dis to me na? Grown azzz woman crying like Sango punch moi. Mehn! Ur title make sense o! Dats a best seller rite dia mama! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by ijebabe: 12:39am On May 19, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Not ma fault, I know how it's done! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by 2sexy(m): 1:03am On May 19, 2012 |
Ummm OP you are getting it all wrong. And you invariably concluded the best advice would come from only a married person. You seem to be looking for an easy route and who told you that life offer us anything on a platter of gold? If all you hear about marriage isn't good, then I must say that all those people are fools. They probably married on the basis of a wrong notion which is mostly the trend today. And if such fools are the kind you wish to get advice from, you are likely to be turned into one as well. When the blind leads the blind, what do you get? Too many people do not know what to look for before going into a relationship; they hardly know who they want to spend the rest of their life with because of 'love',blind love indeed. Like PDude said you are moving with a wrong set of friends. Life is gabbage in , gabbage out. Before ever thinking of marriage, all your senses should be alert. Some people fall in love for silly reasons this days. Let's take an hypothetical case study. 2face idibia just wedded anni as we all know. But the question we should ask is that, what does she hope to gain in the future from a man that has slept with too many ladies and impregnating them in the process with impunity? It may not seem obvious now to her because there is money, tuface na fine boy, bla bla. . . Did she ask if such a man would be faithful to her? Oh she doesn't care either. But wait and let's see how things pan out in future for both of them. I no wish dem bad o but I know HISTORY and the UNIVERSAL rules of life never fails. My elder sister is married to an awesome man, a warrior and a man who love her so much, not just her but we her younger sibling. If you are the author of those thread dugged by Pdude, it's obvious that you should re-evaluate your life. You need self improvement. Get books that will educate you more, but thats if you love reading at all. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 1:22am On May 19, 2012 |
2sexy: Ummm OP you are getting it all wrong. And you invariably concluded the best advice would come from only a married person. GBAM!! @Godmother- I hope you are reading this. Here is another advice from another person. Don't come here screaming, whining and bellyaching that nobody offered you advice. Develop yourself, reorient your mind and change your circle of friends. Simple. Before I got married, I did away with my drinking and womanizing buddies cos they weren't adding to my life. Do the same. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Godmother(f): 7:15am On May 19, 2012 |
@ 2Sexy Thanks a lot. I have read a few books, but I also wanted advice frm real pple, bpnot just sometin u find in d pages of a book. Its nice to knw there re still some gud marriages out there. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by neyostica: 8:12am On May 19, 2012 |
Op, i think you are just lukin for justificatn/excuse for ur spinsterhood, well mariage isnt a bondage |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by neyostica: 8:16am On May 19, 2012 |
So pdude is married Is it hasiya?? |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Nobody: 9:40am On May 19, 2012 |
neyostica: So pdude is married Is it hasiya?? Hell NO!! Its my childhood sweetheart. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Godmother(f): 9:59am On May 19, 2012 |
@pdude My dear, this is the last I will reply you. I am a woman yet I dnt quarel like u do. U wanna have the last word? Be my guest. When I'm done you can get urself a mat and sleep on the thread. I wonder how ur wife copes with u quarrelling like a woman. U re so like my ex; quarrelsome and petty among his other faults. That's why I refused to marry him. U tink its enof to be married. I pity ur wife. One of my prayer points will be not to meet a guy like u 10 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 10:05am On May 19, 2012 |
ijebabe:Talk to Pdude na! It's unfair o! Chei! still lmaoooo!!!!! Poster, never in ur life will u vex Pdude's soul. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by 2good(m): 10:20am On May 19, 2012 |
Godmother: For all the married women out there, I would appreciate your viewpoint about Nigerian marriages. Is it like a bondage for women. Once a woman gets married she's expected to change her entire self to please the man. Do you think it is easy to be a married man in Nigeria where a woman expect you to be her sole provider while she still want to control your personal life. Marriage should not be something compulsory but I will say Nigerian women need to change their mentality and start being independent from their husband. Your being married to your husband does not mean you have absolute control over his will. I am married myself and alot of times, women want their husbands to do what they want even if it is the dumbest reason because they put emotion first before reality. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by maclatunji: 10:26am On May 19, 2012 |
It is okay to disagree with OP but seeking to subject her to public ridicule and humiliation is base. 7 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by blacklion(m): 10:41am On May 19, 2012 |
Iyalola19: LWKMD!!! |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by kay9(m): 11:40am On May 19, 2012 |
maclatunji: It is okay to disagree with OP but seeking to subject her to public ridicule and humiliation is base.My exact thought. I personally found OP's first post reprehensible, and a couple of the first replies must've made that obvious to her. But to turn the whole ish into a laughter parade? Gosh... Almost like y'all are gloating that u've ''triumphed'' over her. Disgusting. By the way, pDude, one of those her last lines about ''... u can get a mat and sleep on the thread..'' was quite sublime. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 11:53am On May 19, 2012 |
maclatunji: It is okay to disagree with OP but seeking to subject her to public ridicule and humiliation is base.U can talk? Plzzzzz shushhh........... |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Johndoe100(m): 11:59am On May 19, 2012 |
Godmother: For all the married women out there, I would appreciate your viewpoint about Nigerian marriages. Is it like a bondage for women. Once a woman gets married she's expected to change her entire self to please the man. I agree with you 100%. Marriage is for fools, don't marry. Anytime any man makes any demand on you, tell him to eff off. There are plenty of men out there. Have as much fun as you want. The only thing is I hope you are in Nigeria? That would do just nicely. |
Re: Marriage Is A Bondage by Idowuogbo(f): 12:02pm On May 19, 2012 |
^lmAoooo!!! Who d heck moved dis to family sect? Poster! Get ready! Ur own don better o! #subscribing# |
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