Godmother: For all the married women out there, I would appreciate your viewpoint about Nigerian marriages. Is it like a bondage for women. Once a woman gets married she's expected to change her entire self to please the man.

I believe in being submissive o, but some men can take it to the extreme. My mum and sisters keep telling me there's nothing in marriage and we single girls shouldn't be desperate to rush in. And I saw for a fact that my dad wasn't the best of husbands.

I recently left a relationship where the guy was overbearing. He wanted things done his way ALL THE TIME. I had to think of ways to make him happy always and each time he brought up the subject of marriage I froze. I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with him.

Iyalola19:

This is one thing I dislike about nl
marriage advert, marriage counsel
seeking for love
so all d marriage topics in the past hasnt given u any useful info
are u not d lady dt opened a similar thread of not having a man in those days
come is there fire burning una yansh?
spirit dey chase una?
devil dey threaten u?
witch dey wan dash u manhood?
if u want to marry, go and marry
wetin sef!
which stupid bondage, when una no find husband na so so bondage, witchcraft, i want to face my career, i am still young, men are animals.
if dwarf press bell for your house now, omo na u go propose
if u no find husband, find person wey go dey shine congo for d meantime
i will teach members how to find a husband, d trick

Iyalola19:

This is one thing I dislike about nl
marriage advert, marriage counsel
seeking for love
so all d marriage topics in the past hasnt given u any useful info
are u not d lady dt opened a similar thread of not having a man in those days
come is there fire burning una yansh?
spirit dey chase una?
devil dey threaten u?
witch dey wan dash u manhood?
if u want to marry, go and marry
wetin sef!
which stupid bondage, when una no find husband na so so bondage, witchcraft, i want to face my career, i am still young, men are animals.
if dwarf press bell for your house now, omo na u go propose
if u no find husband, find person wey go dey shine congo for d meantime
i will teach members how to find a husband, d trick

Iyalola19:

FOOL and married ladies answered
what u gonna do about it huh?
take your best shot fool!
what were u thinking calling marriage a bondage
dt is how ladies curse their life with their actions and words
another frustrated unmarried lady

Odunnu: Have you guys had a fight previously?
I mean, I dont gerritt

To answer ur question, please take a look at my above links on the poster. I think he dumped her for been obese

Odunnu: Have you guys had a fight previously?
I mean, I dont gerritt

Godmother: I need help on aa natural way I can loose weight. I have tried exercising by taking long walks but doesn't seem to be helping much.

My weight has gotten to d point where my bf is startin to complain. Really need ur help guys

pDude:

Hi my lil' sis. Howdy there.

To answer ur question, please take a look at my above links on the poster. I think he dumped her for been obese

pDude:

Hi my lil' sis. Howdy there.


To answer ur question, please take a look at my above links on the poster. I think he dumped her for been obese

ijebabe: ^^^LWKMD!!!!
As a doctor please recommend something for her woes. Self awareness is obviously not in her books

Odunnu:
me lil sis? Choi! I don suffer. At 35yrs, you dey call me 'lil sis'. Kpachakwaru onwe gi anyi there

Godmother:


I am far frm Obese dude and I didn't get dumped. If u noticed my post I said my ex was talking about marriage. I got scared and left cos of what I see happening in marriages all about. That's why I asked for views of other married pple on the forum.

pDude:

Keep your mouth shut jor

I'm married so I think your topic is bullshyt. I have been married for more than a year now and I am enjoying the bliss. It isn't very easy but before I went into it, I made sure I was mature enough and I told my then fiancee that divorce was never an option. Marriage takes a lot of patience and perseverance but it is the best blessing from God and I'm enjoying every moment of it.

Do you know how it feels to no longer be alone? To always lie beside someone who keeps U̶̲̥̅̊ warm at night? To share your problems and aspirations with someone who gats your back always? Also the feeling of cooking and eating together? Sitting in the car, driving fast and sharing laughs and jokes? Looking forward to her bearing your children? Oh boy!!! Please find the right guy and get married to him.

Marriage is worth it!!!

Bros, abeg which brand you dey drink? Order enough bottles. . . I go pay.

Killz.:

Bros, abeg which brand you dey drink? Order enough bottles. . . I go pay.

Godmother: For all the married women out there, I would appreciate your viewpoint about Nigerian marriages. Is it like a bondage for women. Once a woman gets married she's expected to change her entire self to please the man.

I believe in being submissive o, but some men can take it to the extreme. My mum and sisters keep telling me there's nothing in marriage and we single girls shouldn't be desperate to rush in. And I saw for a fact that my dad wasn't the best of husbands.

I recently left a relationship where the guy was overbearing. He wanted things done his way ALL THE TIME. I had to think of ways to make him happy always and each time he brought up the subject of marriage I froze. I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with him.

Killz.:
So, because "some" men take things to the extreme, Marriage becomes a bondage? Like i'll always say, if you don't understand the semantics of marriage and how it's supposed to work, you are better off being single. No queries. But rubbishing the institution of Marriage just because "your" own Marriage did not work out, is wholly unacceptable!

Godmother: @pdude

Someone like u shud neva step into counselling as a career. U went to root out my previous posts that u didn't even take one min to read. U misinterpretated everytin and decided to give a silly answer.

If ur wife just cooked a wonderful jollof for u why didn't u say. Didn't u read d original post well?I asked for advice frm married pple on marriage. Those I have asked so far around me have all told me marriage is like a bondage.

If urs is d one gud one out there why not say instead of coming here to vomit all this.

And one tin about nairaland is that wen one person tolls one line everyone follows.Iyalode answered with anger and of course you had to too.

Someone is asking for help on how to get over a fear of marriage and instead of offering ur advise you are there saying

non. Sense.

pDude:

I'm not a counsellor. What U̶̲̥̅̊ need is psychological (if not psychiatric) help and not counselling.



I'm married therefore I replied. Secondly, it seems you need to change the type of crew you hang out with. Your friends are not building you up.

adosjun: Godmother ? luv ur rite up above it shows humility nd calmness... But marriage is ? bondage, ? believe wen U?? meet ? right guy, U?? will be one even bring marriage topic table... So wat U?? hv do is keep praying F ur God designed hubby..

Godmother:

You are just a child *shakes head*