Whether you are the dumper or the dumpee, how do you deal with a breakup? Everyone has been dumped or dumped someone,but there is a formula for success go this hand to make sure both parties survive the ego bruise.
~THERE IS NO GOOD TIME TO BREAKUP WITH SOMEONE
(DUMPER) there is never a good time to breakup with someone ever,so when you know you want out,just buck ur and do it.Its far crueler to stay with someone out me pity,fear,cowardliness or laziness.a text is not acceptable way me communication
(DUMPEES) life sucks toughen up you are not alone.
~TAKE A BREAK
(DUMPERS) Do not text,phone,email,facebook,tweet,instagram or communicate with the person you broke up with for at least half the time you were together or until the person you dumped says its OK even then you proceed with caution
(DUMPEES) you know the rules about facebook(you can hide people from your feed without deleting them) this what you need to do when you have been dumped. (while we're on the subject on facebook) never put your relationship status on there,seriously.It sucks when you breakup.) you also need to email the dumper and say you cannot speak until you feel OK. The person will get it plus, he or she probably doesnt want to talk to you either.ban yourself from communication and if you run into each other go public say hello politely and move along(restrain yourself).
~DON'T ASK QUESTIONS WHEN YOU DON'T WANT TO KNOW THE ANSWERS.
Just don't. Don't ask about win your ex is sleeping with or what she was doing with that guy at that bar.Ignorance is bliss.
~SLIP UP, SLEEP TOGETHER AND YOU ARE DOOMED
(DUMPERS) if you dump someone and then sleep with the dumpee, its not going to end well Exes always want more than just sex. They probably want to win you back.
(DUMPEES) as much as you want to sleep with your ex for whatever reason, its always a losing game(restraint). Finally,
~FOCUS ON YOURSELF
(DUMPERS AND DUMPEES) you are now single its time to focus on yourself and what you want.this is a liberating time.Never forget that, breaking ur is not the end me the world. There will be another relationship,another great love and another bad ending its just life. We all do it and we are all still here, aren't we?

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