I have a boyfriend who have known for 6years. We were neighbours at the same compound, before u know it we became friends. We never knew wen we took ourselves as best friends. In 2009, d story changed. D guy started havin deep feelings for me, told me he loved me, dat he did not know wen our friendship turn to !!!!!!!!! At first, i refused, lost my friend, n later accepted his request. We started dating. All these whiles, i never knew dat he was double dating. He had other girlfriends if i should say. This year i went to visit him were he stays, very far from me. Spent my money, time, strength, effort only to be told dat he is nto a relationship that he doesnt want to hurt d lady because she had sponsored him or would i say, helped him financially in terms of given him an amount of cash to his fees at school for his clearance for NYSC. He said dat he is dating a lady who is older than him and he doesnt want to leave. So i ask again, What is it with guys and older ladies?

Nmacherry: I have a boyfriend who have known for 6years. We were neighbours at the same compound, before u know it we became friends. We never knew wen we took ourselves as best friends. In 2009, d story changed. D guy started havin deep feelings for me, told me he loved me, dat he did not know wen our friendship turn to !!!!!!!!! At first, i refused, lost my friend, n later accepted his request. We started dating. All these whiles, i never knew dat he was double dating. He had other girlfriends if i should say. This year i went to visit him were he stays, very far from me. Spent my money, time, strength, effort only to be told dat he is nto a relationship that he doesnt want to hurt d lady because she had sponsored him or would i say, helped him financially in terms of given him an amount of cash to his fees at school for his clearance for NYSC. He said dat he is dating a lady who is older than him and he doesnt want to leave. So i ask again, What is it with guys and older ladies?

You just answered your question your self....

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You just answered your question your self....

Most times, it is a money thing

[size=18pt]Experience still remains the best teacher.
Older women are not in a hurry and are not afraid of unwanted pregnancy.
In most cases, older women are not liabilities and are more faithful in relationship.[/size]

Younger gals comes with alot of burdens n "shakara" while the older once are so caring, loving and submissive....
My younger gal hardly come to stay with me but the older one (though not yet married) she cant do without seeing or calling me every day.... She gives me ALL THAT I NEED....am so loving her....infact am missing her right now....,....the difference here is that one is soo much caring than the other.......babe hope you got it.

Older girls don't disturb you with nonsense like BIS

hmmm,its not always about the money..I happen to be one of those guys in that category..I am very very comfortable as a matter of fact and i have never asked anything from either of the 3 older ladies ive dated,id rather give than to ask..its the comfort and beauty that drives me to them.I feel so very comfortable with them,no unusual nagging,we both know the rules of the game so we play it so maturedly..i must confess its a very sweet experience THAT IS IF THE LADY INVOLVED IS EDUCATED,BEAUTIFUL,INDEPENDENT,SEXY

Because older ladies are more mature and friendly...

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