oliver don: Bros mayb she want 2 no mind,i wil say play along 4 sometime and strike her 2 c weda she mean it if so i beliv she has ova used her kongo by her uncle bros 2 claim innocent just let her find her way

sapien: Do you mean I should give a girl who listed those weird rules a chance?Impossible!I already did tell her my mind,the relationship can't work.

chidyhels: .
U knw it cant work and u stil brought it here.U mind is made,luk 4 sm1 else

sapien: I met this comely and ravishing looking young girl some couple of weeks ago in Gra,Porth harcourt.As a guy whose heart melts on sighting a beauty,I walked up to her,wooed her and collected her number.Couple of days later,I started hitting on her for a relationship.But ridiculously,she gave me some stringent rules for her to be in a relationship with me.The rules go thus-*No hitting on her for se.x. *No form of kissing,cuddling or smooching. *I shouldn't for any reason slap or hit her. *And above all,I shouldn't try to cheat on her for any reason or else,she would ruthlessly deal with me and dump me with immediate alacrity. Nairalanders,I would really to know,are these rules possible in a relationship?Guys,can you condone those stringent rules from any girl?Ladies,can you frustrate a prospective boyfriend or fiancé that much?

Shollypopz: i see absolutely no problem with these rules.

Enockia: Therez no way wat u will have will eva be a relationship if u go by her rules.ive heared of no sex relationships but this is just too oextreme

Mynd_44: That girl must be a law student. You go fear terms and conditions nah

Chizolum:
I personally think that these rules are very abidable. And it's good as she laid them down early enough so that you don't make any mistake. As time goes on in ur relationship, she will loosen up a bit. So i advice that you still date her if you want to regardless of the rules, abide by them and see what happens. Hope this helps.

sapien: Funny enough,the girl hasn't secured admission yet.She is a jambite hoping to secure admission this year.

2buff: Everything else maybe but no holding hands or kissing?
That's impossible for a girl.
Although meeting someone and then already hitting her up for a "relationship" a couple of days afterwards is a little..."telling" of your intentions so that could be her way of keeping you at arms length but not totally getting rid of you as she is still assessing you as a person..

sexkillz: Bro, she knew quite alright that it's impossible to abide "strictly" by those rules. She said them but never meant them. It was just a test to know your "true" intentions. . . She's a smart arse, i give her that. That is her way of "filtering" the serious ones from the unserious. In a very healthy relationship, where there exists trust and loyal love, these are very simple laws. You should have said yes, treated her nice, and believe it or not, she would have broken those rules herself. . .

Mynd_44:
Good for her. She already know that most guys cannot be trusted with anything

2buff: Everything else maybe but no holding hands or kissing?
That's impossible for a girl.
Although meeting someone and then already hitting her up for a "relationship" a couple of days afterwards is a little..."telling" of your intentions so that could be her way of keeping you at arms length but not totally getting rid of you as she is still assessing you as a person..

nikkyshyne: I gave my ex the "no sex before marriage" rule. Cuddling, smooching...was allowed.

He made a plan B though by seeing other girls, but he eventually had to travel to the UK and then the whole thing fizzled out.

sapien: Am in a dilemma right now.Don't even know the answer to give her,but I would give your suggestion a thought.Thanks!

sapien: What did you do when you discovered he was cheating on you?

nikkyshyne:

It was war ooo. Break up, make up, break up. Inshort the total breakups was up to 4 times. Phew* glad it is over.

sapien: Are you trying to insinuate that I am a cheat?

Mynd_44:
Are you trying to "insinuate" that you are not?

Nosu: Bros, ur intention isn't right in d first place. Only God knows hw many ladies u re dating now.