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Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 10:15pm On Jun 12, 2012 |
Am not writing this peice for any one to get mad and offended at me but just to inform us that in the name of 4 letter word "LOVE", many guys have got it wrong. I have seen relationships that were beautiful, but now, dey are crashing. I am a guy, and I have learnt to love and to care for any woman i meet. Even when I was in a relationship, it flowed like milk and Honey. Both of us enjoyed the REAL LOVE and CARE to each other. But, just as My friend UDY MADUMERE said: A boyfriend is neither a father nor an uncle nor a husband. He is just a dude who is in a relationship with a girl he likes and vice versa and also a girl he is contemplating getting serious with. He is not under any obligation whatsoever, to foot the bills of a girl he is neither a father nor a husband nor an uncle to. Let truth be told, the level of foolishness perpetuated by BOYFRIENDS of our generation cannot be compartmentalized. Majority of boys and girls in a relationship do not know that the meaning of a relationship or what being in a relationship entails. People who depend on others for survival, yet deem it an obligation to foot the bills of another. My Bible neva told me that. I think, they are fools of no comparison. They have been thoroughly misguided to believe that giving a girl an allowance or satisfying a lady with all u have got signifies love for her. You can't be in a relationship and be paying your girlfriend a monthly salary and also footing her bills. One of my guys told me of a girl he loves but each moment, the girl kept demanding for money and school fees. They are just 8months in the relationship but he has bought 4 phones for her. Sadly, the girl hasnt spent a kobo on him. Dis guy is running dry and blinded by a wicked type of love. What are some ladies up to in this life? It is hightime Ladies change from being MONICAs to LOVINAs. Then our society will be good. If a guy is bad today, maybe, he has suffered from too many heartbreaks from bag girls that claim they love. Some Ladies have learnt to walk out of any Church whose Pastor preaches "IT IS MORE BLESSED TO GIVE THAN TO RECIEVE". Why? because dey are always at the recieving side. Why on earth should a guy pay a lady monthly salary for being his gurl. That is a serious case of maga mugu of the mumu enterprises. . . Nigerian Guys, PLEASE WISE UP. If u dont corect dat ur girlfriend who is misbehaving today, she will be mad at u in future when she realises that she wasnt discplined during the relationship 4 Likes |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by austinsmat(m): 5:17am On Jun 13, 2012 |
ladys are one of the worst liability guy have to ignore with all means guy wise up |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 5:00pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
som of them think tht if a guy dates them,then he shld b responsible for their upkip.rubishhhhh.mtcheww |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by IZUKWU(m): 5:31pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
The issue tire me ,my present gf is a tailor and has been on her own for over 3 years now,but am surprised the demands are still the same. She expects me to give her money for hair, buy her cream , buy her gifts at the festive periods and even buy her clothes notminding the outings,the recharge cards. And whathave you# THAT just because you have a gf,your monthly expenses increases by more that #4000. Is it worth it? |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
IZUKWU: The issue tire me ,my present gf is a tailor and has been on her own for over 3 years now,but am surprised the demands are still the same. She expects me to give her money for hair, buy her cream , buy her gifts at the festive periods and even buy her clothes notminding the outings,the recharge cards. And whathave you# THAT just because you have a gf,your monthly expenses increases by more that #4000. Is it worth it? just 4k and you're complaining. ladies love undivided attention, complete love and satisfaction and generous guys even when you have nothing. what's now the point of getting a girlfriend? arranged marriage is still legal you know |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by xynerise: 6:05pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@Is not a must. My wife paid my bill on our first date. Even when I insisted on paying she refused. So it depends on d girl. 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by xynerise: 6:05pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@Is not a must. My wife paid the bill on our first date. Even when I insisted on paying she refused. So it depends on d girl. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Riodiao(m): 6:31pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Nigerian gurls no b am.Iv told my Dad to xpect it,i might not marry a nigerian babe.I dnt mind goin to kenya or liberia to find a wife.Our gurls mind set is rubbish nd stupid.. 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by IZUKWU(m): 7:12pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
joeydozzy:bros, how can you be generous ,when you have nothing? |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Flashaldrin(m): 7:39pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
xynerise: @Is not a must. My wife paid the bill on our first date. Even when I insisted on paying she refused. So it depends on d girl.antelope stop lying joor! Is it not the skydeep i know?? 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 8:11pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Riodiao: Nigerian gurls no b am.Iv told my Dad to xpect it,i might not marry a nigerian babe.I dnt mind goin to kenya or liberia to find a wife.Our gurls mind set is rubbish nd stupid..guy ur resolutn no easy at al o!anyway,i no belame u.most naija babes no b am abeg. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 8:15pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
i could rememba a girl i accidentaly met at LASU ojo campus.i went there to do smetins.she was very calm n colected.situatn warranted i spoke to ha.we got talkin.at d end we xchangd numbers.i cald ha afta a wik,n gues wht?... |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 8:18pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@flash. Of course he's lying because he didn't toe d line of other haterz who were spewing rubb.ish. Abi? Did d girl come nd 'toast' u? Na by force to get galfriend? Aren't u guys tired of singing this same old song? Abeg change d tune jare! That old woman wey u dey call 'honey', make she for give u small change, na ur mother? Mtscheww! Anyway, m happy dat some guys re beginning to see d lyt. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 8:27pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@rio, is kenya nd liberia not too close? Even kenyan gals will need to buy some stuff abi? Y not just go nd get a wife from among d eskimos? U won't need to spend anything at all. Sunlight is all she needs! 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 8:30pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@kristofa, wat situation warranted u to talk to her? *sneers disdainfully* opportunist! U probably took her calm nature to mean she'll come easy. Ryt? 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 8:35pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Fyn gal: @kristofa, wat situation warranted u to talk to her? *sneers disdainfully* opportunist! U probably took her calm nature to mean she'll come easy. Ryt?loool...ths girl has on rampage o! My dear i didnt take advantage of ha calm nature.we just acidentaly startd talkin. Bsides i hav my rules abt women.I DNT TAKE ADVANTAGE.! U sef no easy o! |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Mynd44: 8:36pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Another thread by broke guys complaining about how their domestic economy is being run aground by their wasteful spending on the ashis they call GF. Y'all should hang out with matured women 2 Likes |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by davida222(m): 8:41pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
austinsmat: ladys are one of the worst liability guy have to ignore with all means guy wise upit only hapns in Nigeria, they are vry stupid liabilities to guys. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 8:44pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
98% on point! |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by davida222(m): 8:53pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Fyn gal: @flash. Of course he's lying because he didn't toe d line of other haterz who were spewing rubb.ish. Abi?U are rite though!! guys ar beggining to see d lyt dat Nigerian ladys ar libilitys to guys. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Mynd44: 8:59pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
davida222: U are rite though!! guys ar beggining to see d lyt dat Nigerian ladys ar libilitys to guys.Y'all can turn gay then 2 Likes |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 9:03pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@mynd, u just spoke my mind. @kristofa, m on rampage cos dis issue has gone on for toooo long! I ask again: dem force u toast girl? Btw, @ austinsmat(smat? How ironic!) nd co, what is liability? Gals re liabilities? By what authority do u make such sweeping statement? Anyway, it's ur broke ar.se talking not ur brain. Take a piece of advice from ur fellow man: be bold nd approach a matured lady not those ashis that u lure with ur chicken change cos' u're too weak to talk to a real lady! 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by kristofa09(m): 9:11pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@fyn gal:i just hpe u r nt one of them gals tht milk men dry? For ur infor i get only in2 responsible relatnshps. N hpe u arnt taken ths personal |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 9:24pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
I don't have to milk any guy cos i have my own milk. Dats y m angry whenever i see/hear a statement generalizing d totality of females. Imagine somebody saying that 'all nigerian gals' re liabilities. M very responsible so i take xception to such statements. Nd yes, m taking it personal cos m a gal(nd a nigerian gal) 3 Likes |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by 0k2NVme: 9:30pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
them send you?
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Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by queensmith: 9:30pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
I 100% agree with the op, they are the root of their own problems. Nigerian men like to chase women on the street, they chase after everything in skirt. They make all sorts of demands from their women yet they know how to complain. The same man will probably be expecting his girl to look like beyonce, intentionally date down (a woman younger, less educated and poorer than him) and then come back to wonder why she expects things from him? Erm you chased after her because of her looks? Obe to dun owo lo pa. If you all took your time to get to know the females you chase after before you date them you will know the goldiggers, the dependants, the expectants, the ones who cannot take care of themselves and so on and so forth. Most of you even use these things to entice women before getting to know them, after denying you, you try to appease her by buying gifts presents and all sorts. Why do you bother doing these things if all you are going to do is complain? You perpetuate the cycle you claim is causing you greif and you keep banging on about it and using it as an excuse to be disrespectful! If you can't afford a dinner, don't bother asking a girl to one, if you can't afford a recharge card don't offer to buy one (dont even chase a girl with a mobile phone), don't run after a girl that has no job and wears brazilian weave then come back and complain when she expects you to pay for it, get to know the damn female before you ask her out! stop dating down and date women your age! date mature adults that look after themselves, you cannot have it all. and to top it all off be damn respectful! 3 Likes |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Skmoda360(m): 9:31pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
kristofa09: i could rememba a girl i accidentaly met at LASU ojo campus.i went there to do smetins.she was very calm n colected.situatn warranted i spoke to ha.we got talkin.at d end we xchangd numbers.i cald ha afta a wik,n gues wht?...she askd for call card rite |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Fyngal1(f): 9:38pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
@ queen, u're so on point. Btw, how many guys even buy a gal a proper dinner? One cup of ice-cream nd d next minute, they re crying to high heavens how they have spent a lot. 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Flashaldrin(m): 9:39pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Fyn gal: @flash. Of course he's lying because he didn't toe d line of other haterz who were spewing rubb.ish. Abi?read through your post many times and all i see is a confused person contradicting herself. You're happy guys are seeing the light and you're also criticizing them for seeing the light?? |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Skmoda360(m): 9:40pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Fyn gal: I don't have to milk any guy cos i have my own milk. Dats y m angry whenever i see/hear a statement generalizing d totality of females. Imagine somebody saying that 'all nigerian gals' re liabilities. M very responsible so i take xception to such statements. Nd yes, m taking it personal cos m a gal(nd a nigerian gal)why gettin paranoia ovr the reality that u gals are liabilities, i dnt knw abt u................bt wit d way u are talkin its obvious u are affected. |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Flashaldrin(m): 9:41pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Fyn gal: @ queen, u're so on point. Btw, how many guys even buy a gal a proper dinner? One cup of ice-cream nd d next minute, they re crying to high heavens how they have spent a lot.what about buying the cup of ice-cream for the guy instead?? Afterall what a man can do a woman can do better, right?? 1 Like |
Re: Must D Guys Always Foot D Ladies Bill?abi We B Their Fada?!!help Us Out Here O. by Flashaldrin(m): 9:43pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Skmoda-360:most girls are liabilities in one way or the other, but then so also are most guys. . . . |
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