I heard a couple of guy friends saying kissing is not a big deal, and that a kiss is just as good as it lasts. it Maybe true for guys, but i think we ladies value and hold emotional stuff more in our heart. i made a silly mistake of kissing a close friend of mine. for me i really enjoyed it cos it was my first. i had a guilty feeling afterwards cos we are not dating and i felt its not normal for us to kiss. we've found ourselves doing it again a few times now and even though i want to stop, it keeps getting more difficult everyday cos i have feelings for him. i am in my 20s and i really want a relationship. he said he doesnt want one cos he doesnt think he is ready and he's busy at d moment and that we should simply have fun while it lasts.
i really like him, and i dont want to lose our friendship. what do i do?

Girl this guy has made it obvious that if that your kissing progresses beyond that, all its going to be is a booty call. Since you want something more concrete, this is the time to put your foot down and stop it.

Dnt allow yourself go through unneccessary pains. There are guys out there who want the same things you want. Go for those guys instead

Frnds ar nt supose to kis demselves wen i mean kis am nt talkn abt peck..am talkn of french kis..wat he wantz 4rm u its frnds wit benefit..if ur ok wt dat..u kan go ahead