it is reciprocal and not only men alone. if u plant a tree and keep nurturing it even in harsh weather, the tree will definitely repond. someone once says ' If a woman know what will make her man step out, she should do for him at home what He is looking for elsewhere.
people do not consciously grow relationships again. they get used to the other so much and dont even feel anything in a short while after marriage. to see real results u had expected, den give as much as u ever wanted.

Well d@z a compliment i guess..

Mayb dey start seein thins

because there was no commitment in the first place

Those who appreciate marriage and its originator remain committed.

It's simply because action and reaction are equal and opposite Shikena! A positive action will induce an opposite reaction. Na oga newton yarn am o *just trolling*

oluchi jud: Itz simple!!!... Av u eva seen a fisherman giving worms(bait) 2 a fish after it had bn caught?

Which one come be this? You be jonathan sister (NIGER DELTAN)

Cos they r nt contented with wat they ve and sm dnt even knw wat they want. You give them too much sex and every other thing,they become tired n bored n then seeks external stimulation. You dnt give then enough,they become starved n still go out. Cos they r nt contented with wat they ve and sm dnt even knw wat they want. You give them too much sex and every other thing,they become tired n bored n then seeks external stimulation. You dnt give then enough,they become starved n go out. Hmm...afi suru!

cos fiancees changes to wives after marriage.

Na wa o, so you mean the man is suppose to continually try to impress her all his life abi? well if she too endeavors to dazzle and Razzle him by looking as sweet and young as she was then bah wahala

After u get married and u discover the wife is not only a lazy a.s.s that doesn't want to contribute anything to the finances and other things involved in runnin of the home and she is also a complete nag and has waywardtendencies. Ur commitment jst gotta drop...." God won't let that be our portion IJN" Guys look b4 u leap..Dnt go and marry wrong woman.

Before you marry her, she will always want to be with you, would not eat until you come back from work, will follow you out at every opportunity...e.t.c

Very Romantic, kissing and pecking you all over!
but after marriage and latest, after the first baby, they become so dis-interested in their husbands!
Their new found attraction is now the baby!
Its my-baby..my baby..blah....blah ....all the time!..........(growls loudly at the baby! )
Husband gets neglected and before you know it, he starts to "wonder" around looking for appreciation!


QUESTION: Why do women become very unromantic, once hey have one baby?

Trust' commitmment will always be there when there is 100% submission and respect from the woman'take it or leave it.

semid4lyfe: The chase is more interesting than the catch. . . .

Not for me.

Chasing? I can't stand it.

honeric01: Another angle can be likened to getting disappointed especially if you were the type that didn't see "your trophy" well enough before getting married to her.. seeing the "real deal" ends up causing disappointment and silent anger like you wasted all your time chasing a "physical shaft".

During courtship = she was always putting on "pretense" and armor

After marriage = You end up sad and angry after seeing the real deal without "pretense" and armor

Well said!

That is why I insist people should know their partners before marriage.

2good:
Women enter into marriage with so much fantasies and men discover that they cannot live up to such fantasies all their life after marriage, so they adjust to a level that will make them have some personal gratification.

Well said!

I only live for my own fantasies. Thank God! I no go die of heart attack unlike some Real Men.

Danka7777: Because we didn't know any better of what we were getting ourselves into before marriage. After wedding and over time, we realize this institution(marriage) is inherently bias, provides a great deal of benefits for women at the expense of men. Besides, most men though they will never tell this, are unhappy in their marriages and feel they being held hostage against their will.

LOL! Well said!

Anyone that does not know and does not accept that marriage is bias and more to the benefit of a woman is a proper Real Man.

STOP thinking and feeling only with your FLESH. If flesh is what u want then dont get married that is for both men/woman. Then it is better not marry and end up adultery.. Pls everyone think second time before entering something special God made for man and woman in marriage...

joy78: STOP thinking and feeling only with your FLESH. If flesh is what u want then dont get married that is for both men/woman. Then it is better not marry and end up adultery.. Pls everyone think second time before entering something special God made for man and woman in marriage...

How do you know God made it?

When did God make it?

How did God make it?

Sagamite:

How do you know God made it?

When did God make it?

How did God make it?

Oh my goodness gracious Gawd!

jidegirl12:

Oh my goodness gracious Gawd!

People just regurgitate the illogical shyt that falls from the mouth of their pastor aimed at people with low ratiocination capability.

Afi ratiocination naa. See new vocab for me. Tongue twisting.*yimu*

baby_123: Afi ratiocination naa. See new vocab for me. Tongue twisting.*yimu*

Why are you hating on my swag?

Sagamite:

Why are you hating on my swag?

Not hating, just learning new things

baby_123:
Not hating, just learning new things

Okay o.

Baddest boy speaks good grammar. I have posted a new profile pix just to give you something to think about while in bed.

Sagamite:

Okay o.

Baddest boy speaks good grammar. I have posted a new profile pix just to give you something to think about while in bed.

Uhmm, hmmm.. Sagamite is turning the heat up I see. Trying to showcase all your endowments. Nice. . You are so totally hitting on me right now.

baby_123:

Uhmm, hmmm.. Sagamite is turning the heat up I see. Trying to showcase all your endowments. Nice. . You are so totally hitting on me right now.

Go to bed and stop looking between my legs at my endowment.

I feel so violated right now.

Sagamite:

Go to bed and stop looking between my legs at my endowment.

I feel so violated right now.

Hahahahaha!!! Rotflmao! Like that was not the purpose when you posted the pic?

baby_123:
Hahahahaha!!! Rotflmao! Like that was not the purpose when you posted the pic?

Because of your sexual harassment I have taken off a pix of my crotch.

Sagamite:

Because of your sexual harassment I have taken off a pix of my crotch.

Nice as*s, pecks and arms though . Continue the show, am enjoying it.

baby_123:
Nice as*s, pecks and arms though . Continue the show, am enjoying it.

I am not a piece of meat, you know? There is more to me than my looks.

Sagamite:

I am not a piece of meat, you know? There is more to me than my looks.

Sure, you can be anything you want to be. The meat is nicely cut all round, that is what is important right now.

baby_123:
Sure, you can be anything you want to be. The meat is nicely cut all round, that is what is important right now.

Premium meat, babes.

I am off to bed. ............. And I am going to make sure all the windows and doors are locked.

You will have to pay for the next show.

Sagamite:

Premium meat, babes.

I off to bed. ............. And I am going to make sure all the windows and doors are locked.

You will have to pay for the next show.

Hahahaha! Well am sure you now have people interested and wanting to hit that! So you better secure the perimeter. You may be mobbed after some girls see what has been written here. I will only pay if you wear a G-string of my choosing and swing from a pole. Woohoo! . Can't risk you doing shakara, and me not getting my money's worth.

Eeww ..... go get a room guys and stop derailing