tjskii:
Now this is just my opinion,I'm not critisizing mums who r exclusively breastfeedin o,u guys rock,it can't be easy doin that for 6mnths and den continuing to 9-12mnths

I think most ppl use it as a method of FP.My cousin doesn't c her period as long as d baby's stil breastfeedin so sh breastfeeds for 2yrs even afta weanin d child.I so wish my body system was lik dat.I'l breastfeed for 4yrs walai cos if u no c period,belle no go happen

introduce solid(swallow)wit draw soup(ogbono without okro)until he gets aquinted to eatin soup.another recipie i lov 4 starters is soft boiledand mashed yam,plantain or irish potato,yu can boil it in meat,chicken,fish stock or ordinary water,spice d stock normally bt wit lil or without pepper.wen its soft boiled bring them out nd mash wit a fork den pour palm oil wit salt to taste on it nd feed him,wow,certainly he weont object.

tjskii:

D gist is true na,dey even do it here in naija,problem is thyr goin to cut u open to tie ur tubes,and u kno ow we naija peeps feel bout surgery,ordinary cs we dey cast and bind for us not to undergo it,nt to talk of undergoin surgery just to prevent pregnancy,very few peopl go for this option

U always mak me laugh sis.Cut&open indeed.Nobody's husbnd wil agree 2dat one o.If not for d scar? If my husbnd travels,I'l go&do dat one secretly cos there's no side effect&it'l b good 2do afta havin lik 3kids so dat if d wire no gree commot sef,wetin concern u.This family plannin thng is vry vry crucial orelse na so u go dey carry belle evrytym u open leg&these children we're havin nowadays;so active.Wen u'r home,u can't hav a quiet moment unles there's miracle sleep in progress.l

Honiepie24: introduce solid(swallow)wit draw soup(ogbono without okro)until he gets aquinted to eatin soup.another recipie i lov 4 starters is soft boiledand mashed yam,plantain or irish potato,yu can boil it in meat,chicken,fish stock or ordinary water,spice d stock normally bt wit lil or without pepper.wen its soft boiled bring them out nd mash wit a fork den pour palm oil wit salt to taste on it nd feed him,wow,certainly he weont object.

pls can I ask any effect adding okra?

@jade shebi if d rope no gree commot,hahaha oh my GOD! 4 me i dnt lik family plannin or pill contraceptive,implant is even worse,because our bodies cn decide to act funny on its own nd its being,okpari,end of discussion,then u will start regretin wat harm u brought to ur self.simply discuss it wit hubby,he shud understand,withdrawal method dosnt always wok,cd na anoda fin altogeda,jus do ur timin well nd pray hard,honestly kids these day r super hyperactive,my cousin had triplet last yr only to findout few dayz bk shes 2mnths belleful.n her kids r omg!a hndfull,difficult in deed,n livin in uk makes it worse.i don laff tire.

julicoka: my sis no be small ting imagin she weigh 8.5 at dis her age,i will close eyes ad stop her breastfeeding d worst is water she is not collecting water

Sweetie! Who said 8.5kg at 8mths + is bad?I hope sh's not teethin though cos wen my girl started teethin at 8mths,sh refused al d food sh used 2eat b4.I'l personally advise u 2giv her Bcomplex but stil confirm wit a dr or nurse sha but Bcomplex syrup is safe.u can giv her 2xs a day.it'l stimulate her apetite.Prepare pap or frisocream or cerelac;put Barley or any children musical 4her 2watch&c how it'l go.goodluck

Jade William:
I used NAN 2 frm 6mths.SMA gold is also good if u can get d original unles u want 2go for foreign milk lik Aptamil,similac,Emfamil,cow&gate&d rest.
Add soyabeans to ur baby's pap too.Its good 4kids.Do u knw abt 7 seas codliver oil? It helps wit baby's bone.Ask ur peadiatrician abt it.SMy paed advised me 2use it wen my baby was abt 5mths.

Jade pls do U know another brand of codliver oil apart from 7seas? Realy looking for good alternativ that my baby may apreciate. thnks

@itsmelex,no no no,nofin is wrong wit addin okro,bt for a starter who is not used to bumpin fins in his mouth durin feedin wont find it a pleasure at all,he might entirely reject d whole food because of it,jus prepare nice tasty n light, ogbono with deboned ice fish,as u feed him press d fish as though u r mashin it,at d same time checkin for bone,nd he wud eat.

@itsmelex,hahaha i jus remembered wat u said initially.let me tell u dh is waitin for LO to get his mouth off d nipple 4 him to score anoda goal,so prepare,its comin soonest.@jade i fink xclusive bossom feedin is perfect if u cn sustain it 4 a yr.d baby will grow lik cerelac ad babies,hardly fall ill.

Honiepie24: honestly kids these day r super hyperactive,my cousin had triplet last yr only to findout few dayz bk shes 2mnths belleful.n her kids r omg!a hndfull,difficult in deed,n livin in uk makes it worse.i don laff tire.

I just fainted.Triplets?I told my husbnd dat if he knocks me up wit twins,wen I deliver dem;I'l go&keep one at d rev father's doorstep.My mum had twin boys.Raisin them,was a handsfull so I knw how it can b.U c d importance of FP? If I hav triplets,I'm so doin d tyin of a tube thng then I'l resign&then move 2my parent's house wher sh'l bring al my grand auntsher &church group members 2com&tak care of dem til they get 2d age wher I can dump dem at d creche.Only one showed me shege.Tel ur cousin I'l put her in prayers.Livin in UK? Na wa o.2pay nanny for pounds no b smal thng.Walai! I asked;y was I born a woman again?Only God can answer dat

@tjskil I don free am oh!

When I was grown up there was this woman always sitting on her varander outside her house. if U see how OBESE this woman was ehn! she had a customaized chair and she hardly move, I mean she was OOOOBEEEEESSSE! OMG! my mum used to greet her and have a litle chart and when she cane fir omugwo she was telling me that it was family planing (I thnk the drugs or so) that caused it, she started adding uncontrokavlt after the plan. I still think there may other reason, nay not even be the pkan but I still they fear oh, what of if it was true....hmmmmm God help us....

Honiepie24: @jade shebi if d rope no gree commot,hahaha oh my GOD! .simply discuss it wit hubby,he shud understand,withdrawal method dosnt always wok,jus do ur timin i don laff tire.

My sister;me I knw dat calender method vry well.Wen we were in courtship na dat timin thng we dey use o.I set alarm 2tel me I'm close 2ovulatin&so on.Now dat we'r married,he's now d boss.Mshww.It gets worst wen they quote dat Ephesians 5:Wives b submissive 2ur husbnd.

@itsmelex vry true.My gynae told me wit d injections;contraceptives&d implant on d hand dat i might add weight&breast tenderness&so on but wen my body adjust,d side effects wil wear out.Me I dey go tie tube.Abeg giv me d link.My sister is also interested.Sh has 3 already&sh's done but sh was usin IUD b4. Sh said he husbnd was complainin he was feelin d rope&s**t so abeg tel us where they're tyin tube jooor.Wetin sef.

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,no no no,nofin is wrong wit addin okro,bt for a starter who is not used to bumpin fins in his mouth durin feedin wont find it a pleasure at all,he might entirely reject d whole food because of it,jus prepare nice tasty n light, ogbono with deboned ice fish,as u feed him press d fish as though u r mashin it,at d same time checkin for bone,nd he wud eat.

Alright, was wandering cos I give my boy okra and he loves it till now.

Honiepie24: @itsmelex,hahaha i jus remembered wat u said initially.let me tell u dh is waitin for LO to get his mouth off d nipple 4 him to score anoda goal,so prepare,its comin soonest.@jade i fink xclusive bossom feedin is perfect if u cn sustain it 4 a yr.d baby will grow lik cerelac ad babies,hardly fall ill.

Honie Dear I taught you had me covered in your prayer against any goal for now? No be lie oh! In fact d second day of rejection DH continued from where baby stoped oh @Jade has said the real thing, We are all the counting daz thing oh, and can only say " Ah! thank God!" when we see that color droping.
For me, exclusive didnt stop the period oh! I did 6mnth EBF but at exactly 3mths after delivery the thing startd oh

itsmelex:

Jade pls do U know another brand of codliver oil apart from 7seas? Realy looking for good alternativ that my baby may apreciate. thnks

I don't knw of anyother good brand.D paed said sh's sure of 7seas so dats d one sh mostly prescribes

Jade William: @itsmelex vry true.My gynae told me wit d injections;contraceptives&d implant on d hand dat i might add weight&breast tenderness&so on but wen my body adjust,d side effects wil wear out.Me I dey go tie tube.Abeg giv me d link.My sister is also interested.Sh has 3 already&sh's done but sh was usin IUD b4. Sh said he husbnd was complainin he was feelin d rope&s**t so abeg tel us where they're tyin tube jooor.Wetin sef.

Walai I dont know where them dey tie oh! na @tjskil fit know, she talked of it being done in naija. My own na to CUT the tube if monopause no come quick after I am true with "baby making"

Jade William:
I don't knw of anyother good brand.D paed said sh's sure of 7seas so dats d one sh mostly prescribes

Thanks Dear

tjskii:

@corrall,I really think I nid to deworm my son,cos hez started rejectin food,even down to cereal,and hez always spittin lik hez nauseated,hez 1+ and iv neva dewormed him,went to d clinic bout a month ago to complain and my doc said I shud wait til hez 2yrs,but I'm beginin to think he said that cos his clinic dosnt av a worm expeller for kids his age,cos if u dewormed ur baby at 8mnths,then my son shud be able to take it wtht any ill effect,abeg dt liquid combantrin,is it only for babies or can a 20mnth baby tak it too,pls help me check d agerange on d pack

My baby's not upto 20months but my paed recommended zentel since sh's upto a yr.Sh said I shld b dewormin evry 3mths.How can a dr say u shld wait til ur baby is 2yrs?D 1st tym they dewormed her was wen sh was teethin at 8mths&refused to eat so d paed gav combactrin.

Jade William:
Ur boo is lik myn.He said he doesn't want 2feel guilty at d long run so no FP.My gynae explained evry method one by one&d possible side effects.At 1st we agreed on condoms but then he said it kills d fun dat wen he was single,he was condomizin so y wud he stil condomize wen he's married so We settled 4withdrawal too but evrytym,I'l b so scared cos I'l b lik wot if a tiny soldier entered unknowingly?I'l spend hrs in d bathroom cleanin up as if dat can prevent anythng is d soldier found its way in.Then d anxiety of countin days 2my period&s**t.Evry mth,I get so scared.May God help women indeed

hahahah what of me way never see my period since after given birth,my hubby hate condom na wildraw method but dat small tin dey me oooo every day i dey but test trip haahha God help me

Honiepie24: @jade shebi if d rope no gree commot,hahaha oh my GOD! 4 me i dnt lik family plannin or pill contraceptive,implant is even worse,because our bodies cn decide to act funny on its own nd its being,okpari,end of discussion,then u will start regretin wat harm u brought to ur self.simply discuss it wit hubby,he shud understand,withdrawal method dosnt always wok,cd na anoda fin altogeda,jus do ur timin well nd pray hard,honestly kids these day r super hyperactive,my cousin had triplet last yr only to findout few dayz bk shes 2mnths belleful.n her kids r omg!a hndfull,difficult in deed,n livin in uk makes it worse.i don laff tire.

Jehovahhh ,triplets and anoda baby on d way,my God,dt na serios matter o,na dis kind gist dey mke me find family plannin

Jade William:
My baby's not upto 20months but my paed recommended zentel since sh's upto a yr.Sh said I shld b dewormin evry 3mths.How can a dr say u shld wait til ur baby is 2yrs?D 1st tym they dewormed her was wen sh was teethin at 8mths&refused to eat so d paed gav combactrin.

Is d zentel syrup or tablet

@itsmelex,hahahahaha dh na sharp guy!frm second day of rejection he took over,pls let me ask ooo,hw does dh's react to sucking milk filled bossoms?crazy question abi?abeg make una ansa jare.@jade hmmmm,hw much i pray 4 twins,God plz ansa me ooo,my cousin is seriously hvin a bad time,d mornin sickness coupled wit three very young boys,nd currently d mum is on child visit(omugo) at d youngest daughters place in us.shes so unhappy,it was xcitment dat dh visited after 3mnths stay in at his wok place in another country,nw shes left alone wit hurrible mornin sickness.

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My sis I tire,but one has to be chosen,me I no fit do natural method o,cos once hubby touch me na belle,if he jus look me sef wth sex on his mind na belle,

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u wan kill me.Y won't ur husbnd jump on top of u evrytym?Ur hilarious personality is mesmerizin.U must hav bn vry good wit narrative essays back in sch.
He who wears d shoe,knws where it pains worst so u knw better.If dat'l giv u peace of mind,abeg,no wait or no look side effect.God wil secure our lives 4d sake of these kids.

tjskii:

Jehovahhh ,triplets and anoda baby on d way,my God,dt na serios matter o,na dis kind gist dey mke me find family plannin

tjskii:

Is d zentel syrup or tablet

Its syrup.Wen u buy it,d dosage 4each age group is written on leaflet.Buy d zentel by smithkline beecham(its a uk drug company).D pack is red.I'm always keen on d brand of drugs I use cos low quality indian drugs killed my grandfather so my mum always hammers it in our ear 2buy UK branded drugs

tjskii:

Is d zentel syrup or tablet

Zentel is tablet. Just crush the recommended dose in water and feed him.
I dewormed my 2nd son at 6 months cos that is the norm in his hospital.
For my first son, i did it at 1.5yrs cos i did not know better. Now, i do it every 3 months.

Warfibabe: hello mum.. I know some peeps think it is not necessary but have you tried massaging his navel with hot water?(Not burning hot o!) My older son was that way until my mum pointed out that their navels takes time to close up and heal after the cord has fallen off, that I was suppose to massage and use the baby mentholata till three months. I did that to my son and the whole crying, wriggling, grunting everything stopped. With my newborn I am still doing it and it is working fine for me.
It is well with us o!

.@Warfibabe,U're right.That was what I did for my baby too.It worked for her.

tjskii: @itsmelex abeg free d pikin,he don loose interest,same thing happened wth my 1st kid,he rejected breasttmilk at 4mnths,I jejely left him,cos I had alredy planned dt I wud wean him at 3mnths sef(na my mumsy hold me till d 4mnths sef),all dose plenty talk bout breastfeedinn d pikin for lik 9mnths no dey enter my ear,cos d argument dt kids are brainier and all dat wen thyr xclusivl breastfed dosnt convince me,all dose oyinbo pikin wey dem no dey even breastfeed nko,and they end up being very sharp and creative,compare and contrast to most naija pikins dt they even breastfeed til 2yrs sef(wey d pikin go dey lift himm mama blouse hiself),I just believe dt if ur kid is naturally intelligent and u giv him d best education u can,thhen that child will do well,irresppectiv of whether or not he was breastfed

Thank u for dis talk.My sister can argue y non EBF children do poorly in life&s**t&her talk irritates me cos me,I was not breastfed at al cos afta my mum had me,sh left me 4granny&went 2sch in UK yet I was d one carryin 1st position in dat house&my parents say I'm a well trained girl.Sh dat was breastfed is so hot&quick tempered?inshort if I say sh's d blacksheep of d family,its an understatement yet sh was breastfed o.
My sister wil so abuse anyone not doin exclusive fOr 6mths&site al d useles ppl in life dat turned out d way they ar because they were not EBF.I kept prayin 2God 2change her story until it happened lastmth;her newborn who's abt 4mths refused 2suck again.My mum had 2introduce pap 2d poor boy at 3mths.I said chei! U c how God shut ppl up.I'v bn askin her if d boy wil b useless because he wasn't exclusively breastfed for 6mths&sh said for dat reason,sh'l giv d best of milk.Sh bought Emfamil for 8k&me I'm yabbin her dat stil Emfamil is not breastmilk.Abeggi joor

blank:

Zentel is tablet. Just crush the recommended dose in water and feed him.
Now, i do it every 3 months.

True.I also crush d tablet wen I don't c d syrup

tjskii:

D gist is true na,dey even do it here in naija,

Abeg giv us link 2d place where they tie tubes here in Naija

julicoka: hahahah what of me way never see my period since after given birth,my hubby hate condom na wildraw method but dat small tin dey me oooo every day i dey but test trip haahha God help me

Can u get pregnant without seein ur period? I wish I had dat kind of body dat'l miss period wen I'm breastfeedin.Walai,I'l breastfeed til eternity.

Thanks jade and blank realy preciate it

@jade thanks for preciating me sense of humor,much obliged

As per d link,ure on ur own o,I no sabi wher dem dey do am,mesef just hear say dem dey do am for naija,but I'm sure most clinics shud be abl to do it,shebi na surgery