Testing A Woman...there're so many ways a man can test a woman just to know if she's good or bad or the right woman for him. Some men test girls via cooking (to know if she's a good cook). You know we have girls who cant cook but like eating out alot. these type of girls like eating fried rice and chicken with salad everyday. you find them at eateries in the morning, afternoon and evening. they dont bother to even use their pot for one day to cook or cook for their guy. everytime, its honey lets go to Genesis or Mr. Biggs and eat or buy this or that food (buy shawama). they dont even know if the guy might be testing her or noting this habit of hers. so, cooking is one important area most men test a wife to be. they also test women via neatness, organization and home management. we have men who would like to know if a woman is clean and neat, organized and knows how to manage a home before marrying her. they set tests for girls in these areas just to know how good they are. you know we have girls who are not organized one bit. they sleep and wake up anytime they like. even if they are working. they leave their dirty clothes anyhow and everywhere. they leave their undies and other things hanging everywhere. they leave half eaten meal on the table or in the sink for days without washing them. using work or tiredness as an excuse. we have such girls. especially in this time and age. cos back in the days, most of our girls were very hardworking, neat and they know what to do and when to do them. they wash plates, clothes and clean the house when its suppose to be done. they hardly leave today's tasks till the next day. they were very organized. that's why men rush to marry them those days. unlike what's happening now. so, men use this to test girls. and once they notice you are not clean, neat or organized they might decide not to marry the girl again, cos of this. a woman can also be tested via her manners. men always want to know if a woman is well mannered or not before marrying her. cos character matters alot when marrying a woman. if a man ends up marrying a woman with bad character, you're on your own. and anything you see later, its yours to carry. though some ladies do pretend to be good and sweet when a man wants to marry them. but after marrying such girls, they now show their real colour. many men have fallen for such a trick, only to regret it later. some are lucky to walk out of it alive while others live with it for the rest of their lives. so, men dont joke with it when looking for a lady to marry. character comes first. a woman can also be tested in the area of being hardworking and prudent. some guys can give their girlfriends some money to hold for them (which they might not collect from her again), just to test her and know if she can keep the money safe or manage it well for them. Girls usually fail this kind of test alot. especially those ones that are extravagant or tend to feel they must spend to look good (for their guys) always. and once a man notice you're not good with money or prudent, him go begin fear you. cos most men need a prudent woman by their side, to help them plan and manage their finances very well. and not those ones that would come and lavish it anyhow. since there are men who find it hard to be prudent (save money) and as a result, needs a prudent woman as a wife. and there are men who cos of lust for a girl, do block their sense of reasoning when testing a girl. once the girl is sexy or very good in bed but bad in other areas. they overlook her bad side and decide to marry her cos of her bedmatics. guys do this alot. some have married a girl cos she's sexy and good in bed. only to regret it later. cos such girls hardly make good wives. once they know a man is lusting after them and enjoys sex more than anything else in the marriage, they use it to have a strong hold of such a man/husband. And the other test and which is very important is taking a girl to meet a guy's family or mother-in-law to be. many girls dread this particular meet/test alot. Except for those ones who have gone through it before and have learnt from their previous mistakes. so, most of them go out of their way to be/look nice, sweet, godly and look like a born again before their mother-in-law to be. they even end up over doing things. just to satisfy the guy's mother. Cos we do have guys who do whatever their mothers ask them to do. especially when it comes to choosing a life partner. Like the film i saw recently titled " Heaven on Earth" where a mother was competing with her son's wife for his love and attention. her over bearing influence on her son had a negative effect on their marriage. she virtually turned the guy against his wife, made him a wife batterer and also intigated alot of quarrels, fights and problems in their marriage, before the battered wife finally decide to walk out of the marriage. we do have mother-in-laws like that. we call them monster-in-law. And girls generally dont like guys that are mummy's boy. they see such mothers as a threat to their own happiness, safety and comfort in their home/marriage. So, once a girl passes all or most of these tests, she's as good as becoming the man's wife. Except yawo con gas later...Abi no be so?

I was enjoying dis b4 he/she started tellin me a movie. Smh . . . . . . Is dat de picture of de girl we will test

There's 'something' called paragraphing. I bet you've never heard of it.

marvelck: Testing A Woman...there're so many ways a man can test a woman just to know if she's good or bad or the right woman for him. Some men test girls via cooking (to know if she's a good cook). You know we have girls who cant cook but like eating out alot. these type of girls like eating fried rice and chicken with salad everyday. you find them at eateries in the morning, afternoon and evening. they dont bother to even use their pot for one day to cook or cook for their guy. everytime, its honey lets go to Genesis or Mr. Biggs and eat or buy this or that food (buy shawama). they dont even know if the guy might be testing her or noting this habit of hers. so, cooking is one important area most men test a wife to be. they also test women via neatness, organization and home management. we have men who would like to know if a woman is clean and neat, organized and knows how to manage a home before marrying her. they set tests for girls in these areas just to know how good they are. you know we have girls who are not organized one bit. they sleep and wake up anytime they like. even if they are working. they leave their dirty clothes anyhow and everywhere. they leave their undies and other things hanging everywhere. they leave half eaten meal on the table or in the sink for days without washing them. using work or tiredness as an excuse. we have such girls. especially in this time and age. cos back in the days, most of our girls were very hardworking, neat and they know what to do and when to do them. they wash plates, clothes and clean the house when its suppose to be done. they hardly leave today's tasks till the next day. they were very organized. that's why men rush to marry them those days. unlike what's happening now. so, men use this to test girls. and once they notice you are not clean, neat or organized they might decide not to marry the girl again, cos of this. a woman can also be tested via her manners. men always want to know if a woman is well mannered or not before marrying her. cos character matters alot when marrying a woman. if a man ends up marrying a woman with bad character, you're on your own. and anything you see later, its yours to carry. though some ladies do pretend to be good and sweet when a man wants to marry them. but after marrying such girls, they now show their real colour. many men have fallen for such a trick, only to regret it later. some are lucky to walk out of it alive while others live with it for the rest of their lives. so, men dont joke with it when looking for a lady to marry. character comes first. a woman can also be tested in the area of being hardworking and prudent. some guys can give their girlfriends some money to hold for them (which they might not collect from her again), just to test her and know if she can keep the money safe or manage it well for them. Girls usually fail this kind of test alot. especially those ones that are extravagant or tend to feel they must spend to look good (for their guys) always. and once a man notice you're not good with money or prudent, him go begin fear you. cos most men need a prudent woman by their side, to help them plan and manage their finances very well. and not those ones that would come and lavish it anyhow. since there are men who find it hard to be prudent (save money) and as a result, needs a prudent woman as a wife. and there are men who cos of lust for a girl, do block their sense of reasoning when testing a girl. once the girl is sexy or very good in bed but bad in other areas. they overlook her bad side and decide to marry her cos of her bedmatics. guys do this alot. some have married a girl cos she's sexy and good in bed. only to regret it later. cos such girls hardly make good wives. once they know a man is lusting after them and enjoys sex more than anything else in the marriage, they use it to have a strong hold of such a man/husband. And the other test and which is very important is taking a girl to meet a guy's family or mother-in-law to be. many girls dread this particular meet/test alot. Except for those ones who have gone through it before and have learnt from their previous mistakes. so, most of them go out of their way to be/look nice, sweet, godly and look like a born again before their mother-in-law to be. they even end up over doing things. just to satisfy the guy's mother. Cos we do have guys who do whatever their mothers ask them to do. especially when it comes to choosing a life partner. Like the film i saw recently titled " Heaven on Earth" where a mother was competing with her son's wife for his love and attention. her over bearing influence on her son had a negative effect on their marriage. she virtually turned the guy against his wife, made him a wife batterer and also intigated alot of quarrels, fights and problems in their marriage, before the battered wife finally decide to walk out of the marriage. we do have mother-in-laws like that. we call them monster-in-law. And girls generally dont like guys that are mummy's boy. they see such mothers as a threat to their own happiness, safety and comfort in their home/marriage. So, once a girl passes all or most of these tests, she's as good as becoming the man's wife. Except yawo con gas later...Abi no be so?

am waiting for the short version

better don't wait!

Booty4me:

am waiting for the short version

& you have to quote everything to make your point known


Op, your sermon is lengthy like this on a PC, i wonder how its like on mobile.

Too much of African magic

testing a woman/lady/girl to know if she's good is a very easy thing. . .simply take her for HIV test

too just joorrr,no paragraph.

Sijo01:

& you have to quote everything to make your point known


Op, your sermon is lengthy like this on a PC, i wonder how its like on mobile.

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make una nor go test woman finish and then put unaself for trouble.

Why didn't you post this to www.sunonline.com