I am faced with a knotty issue a begin question which must be answered! Methink,before two love-birds take themselves to the altar,there should be an established love between them because the word"YES I DO"is heavy in the mouth. It is a life sentence! But i listened to a programme on rockcity F.M yesternite,the question was thrown down to d public platform and am still largely uncontented with d responses i got.
But i believe in Nairalander that we have analytical prowess to knife the knotty poser.
THE QUESTION: Is it right to love with all heart when dating or when the man and d woman gets hooked?
So this is my story,let the sages take the simplifying baton.

No replies? This is serious ooo

Mynd_44: No replies? This is serious ooo

Lol, quite serious i must confess. But thats one hell of a question the OP asked o. In fact, for me, i think u shouldn't give all ur love so it doesn't become an obsession, and its too risky cos if u ever get hurt, hmm, ur world will end. Express it, yes but not extremely. But if i must stick to the question, i'll say after u've hooked up.

LOVE 50% WHILE DATING BUT LOVE WHOLE HEARTEDLY WHEN MARRIED
THIS IS BECAUSE WHILE DATING, IT MIGHT NOT LEAD TO ALTAR. SO TO PREVENT IRREDEEMABLE HEART BREAK, ITS BETA TO LOVE HALF-WAY WHILE DATING.

YOURS SINCERELY,

OMOTOHDARAJUGBOGBOLO

omotohdarajugbogbolo: LOVE 50% WHILE DATING BUT LOVE WHOLE HEARTEDLY WHEN MARRIED
THIS IS BECAUSE WHILE DATING, IT MIGHT NOT LEAD TO ALTAR. SO TO PREVENT IRREDEEMABLE HEART BREAK, ITS BETA TO LOVE HALF-WAY WHILE DATING.

YOURS SINCERELY,

OMOTOHDARAJUGBOGBOLO

Hmm, but do u think that loving 50% while dating will ever lead to the alter?

why must u reserve some? Agreed dat relatnshp is a game, jst put in all d love. U neva can tel which one wil lead 2 d alter. 4 a lady, d man myt put u under close observatn witout u knowing.

chikk:

Hmm, but do u think that loving 50% while dating will ever lead to the alter?

Do you think that loving with 100% will certainly lead to the altar?

^^ I dont wanna derail this thread so i'll ignore the question for question.

How can you have 50% love? In my opinion, you either love or you don't. You can't love partially

This poser may nt get d correct answer from all and sundry because of applied love we have nowadays! I was once in such a situation where i can't control d expression of my love to my ex coz i loved her. Lo,u can't go to d alter without lovin each other. Trud love cannot be hidden

Invest all your love don't even reserve any in ur dating/relationship-if the like/love the person in question. Jst try and Enjoy the show/offer while it lasts. NO FEAR. Brokeheart never killed anyone, even if they wanted to.