what would you do/how would you feel if your wife drinks alcoholic drinks??

If my wife is alcoholic, I'll send her to rehab and keep the kids away from her drunk ass.

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, lol.
so people who drink are crazy or wat??

why would i marry an alcoholic in the first place??

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Guys, there are conflicting views on this!

Being addicted to alcohol, whereby an individual develops a dependency, is a completely different scenario to just being a social drinker, or having a glass of wine with a meal.

Liking a drink does NOT make one an alcoholic, else most of us on here will be labelled as such! I'm sure there are people on here that drink Guiness, lager etc. Does that make you all alcoholic?

Understand the question properly first, before giving a view. I don't fully understand it, so I'll ask Leilah to clarify.

@ Leilah, do you mean "likes to have a drink" as in the odd glass, or a total dependency, whereby one can't function without the said drink? Please clarify this, and I'll give my opinion, as I'm sure others will too.

Agree with the last speaker.

It wont matte if its just a few drinks the type she can take @home and still be on point.

i think likes to have a drink sounds good to me than likes to get drunk

i will give her a drink.

one day, she will get tired of drinking

why do guys act this way? is okay for you guys to drink but a babe is a tabboo. if she likes to have a glass of wine or something is okay but not addicted to it, there is absolutely nothing wrong if a babe drinks and reasonably for that matter, the man should buy the drink keep it at home instead of her drinking outside. but if is getting drunk and spending all you have to drink, i dont solicit for that

I cannot seriously date a girl that doesnt drink at all. I like a woman who drinks and can control her alcohol.

I have never been drunk in all my drinking years and would appreciate if she doesnt get drunk publicly, but if its in the house she free!!!


I like to have people be themselves; crazy is cool, careless is what i detest.

The fact is that if you knew that she drank before u married her then u cant say anything.
But in this day and age everyone drinks.
If she drinks within reason and not to get madly drunk in public then she is cool.

I mean the odd glass for eg a few glasses of wine on a saturday night ooh no, not total dependancy.

Its all well and good. The thing is that we can have an odd drink here and there but not to getting drunk and acting the fool wherby disgracing ur self and ur husband.

LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK?
IT'S NOT AS IF SHE'S A DRUNKARD, SHE JUST LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK, RIGHT? SO WHAT'S D PROBLEM!

NEXT TIME U WAN WRITE POST, MAKE U DEY EXPLAIN VERY WELL, I THINK IT'S A BIG TURN OFF, IF A LADY IS A DRUNKARD, IF I WAS A GUY, I WOULDN'T BE INTERESTED IN SUCH WOMEN! I DON'T HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH GUYS DEINKING EITHER, BUT IF U GET DRUNK, PUKING ALL OVER D PLACE (IN PUBLIC), DUDE, U'RE A GONNER!!!

@ Leilah: I understand your question now.

I haven't got any issues with my wife / girlfriend drinking, socially, or with a meal etc.

I'd worry though, if she couldn't function without drinking, had to have a drink before noon daily, and got grumpy if all she found were empty bottles.

Ah no I do not mean a raving alcoholic. I just meant drinking socially in moderation. Interesting responses though. Thought I was going to hear "but what about wifely duties?" and the like. 

FactorChic:

LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK?
IT'S NOT AS IF SHE'S A DRUNKARD, SHE JUST LIKES TO HAVE A DRINK, RIGHT? SO WHAT'S D PROBLEM!

[b]NEXT TIME You WAN WRITE POST, MAKE You DEY EXPLAIN VERY WEL[/b]L, I THINK IT'S A BIG TURN OFF, IF A LADY IS A DRUNKARD, IF I WAS A GUY, I WOULDN'T BE INTERESTED IN SUCH WOMEN! I DON'T HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH GUYS DEINKING EITHER, BUT IF You GET DRUNK, PUKING ALL OVER D PLACE (IN PUBLIC), DUDE, You'RE A GONNER!!!

abeg leilah next time please explain it very well o, you know we are Nigerians just check those response above

kai a woman must not be associated with any thing like that in naija or anywhere sef!

Im sure u saw its efx on Ofunneka on BB II

It not a taboo to drink." Drink but dont get Drunk"

Buy it at home and spare her the stress of drinking out side.

n gauge, how can you randomly brand me as a drunkard when I am far from it! I was not referring to myself when I initially posted this topic. Theres noting wrong with my marital life.

Furthermore, the reason in which I decided to post this thread was becuase any party I attend I have never in all the years i now my husband saw one lady have a drink at a party. All the men are sititng down guzzlingbeer and talking politics (and eyeing up younger ladies) while their wives are up and down like yo yo's to the kitchen. THATS the reason why i asked. NOT becuase I have a problematic marriage. I reiterate I do NOT have a problematic marriage. I don't let myself be treated like a doormat THATS the only problem. NOT that I am treated like one either. BUT if I let that be it would BE. Please note that this thread has NOTHING to do with my marriage for crying out loud.

Ok. Is your question about casual drinkers or is it about alcoholics?

there's no big deal in drinking but one has to do it in moderation else, kasala go burst. personally jus cant do witout some buzz,

So small minded, so what your wife likes to take a drink,

Is she becoming violent, disrespectful, is she out of control, is she falling over drunk, Come on she is your wife not your child or property,

stop sweating the small things. As long as she is not a drunken mess causing drama in your household, sit back and shut the hell up. Really.

I bet you are drinking your spirits, right.

She's not an alcoholic neither is she a husband whose wives like to drink. Don't attack her; just answer the question!

I don't know why guys don't take time to understand posts.

If my wife want to have a drink I will oblige her afterall a little

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yes, casual Sean. Sure no one likes alcoholics.

I actually like the idea of my wife taking a drink. However conditions apply like- only with me at social occasions; no binge drinking; not with galfriends; she may take a drink at home now and then,

These girls sha, when they drink they are easy preys for sex by dudes that know how to play the game. Anyways, it opens a rigid wife up to have sexual pleasures.