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|Autos / Re: Free Vin Checks And Reports by bjcole: 9:24am On May 08|
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|Autos / Re: Free Vin Checks And Reports by bjcole: 8:46am On May 08|
2hnyd18884h528713. My email:email@example.com.
|Family / Re: If Your Spouse Cheated, How Would You Feel? by bjcole: 7:59pm On Feb 25|
From what i have read on this thread, it is obvious that, we dont all want this (infidelity) to happen to us, we forbid it dearly but the question is, this infidelity thing is on the high side, the trend is rising daily, so who are those that their wives are being used like rags? yes because when you allow another another man to sleep with you as a married woman, you are a rag and also who are those that are sleeping with other people's wives? it seems that only God can tell.
For me i cant and wont tolerate infidelity, i will allow you to take care of your kids and still answer my name but i will never trust or love you again, it can be very disgusting and irritating, funny enough, too many of our married women are doing it. I pity marriages of today and future marriages, flirting and infidelity are part and parcel of it. God help us.
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Computer Technician For Immediate Employment (female) by bjcole: 7:12pm On Feb 25|
kelvin1191: My brother, why must it be a female? I av OND in Computer Engineering and diploma in computer repair and maintenance and very good with electronics repairs also.
You can send your CV to the email above
|Jobs/Vacancies / Computer Technician For Immediate Employment (female) by bjcole: 3:55pm On Feb 23|
A female computer technician is urgently needed in a new IT Consulting / Software Dev. firm in Port Harcourt, close to the office premises of Nigerian Agip Oil Company. If you are a female and can carry out some repairs and maintenance on computers and networks, understanding of software development, you can send mail to firstname.lastname@example.org.
Qualification : OND in any of the Sciences
|Family / Re: How Do You Deal With A Jealous Husband? by bjcole: 7:05pm On Feb 22|
@Op, I guessed your question has been answered and your body is calm now, after reading your first post, i thought about it and i know most times, you women are always the cause of your husband being jealous, see the way you flirt online with men and you complained of your husband being jealous, sometimes i wonder if marrying to some ladies actually worth it and those useless guys cant even respect your marital status. I myself here, i can feel some stains around you, well its not my business, you can flirt & flirt & flirt as you like, after all so many of you are doing here, even the few that we respect and they say there is no big deal about it, its just online, a spade is a spade, wherever it is. Bye -bye
|Family / Re: When The Desirable Is Not Available... by bjcole: 6:21pm On Feb 22|
Its like lots of our married women are still living in the dream world, or they just don't want to accept the reality. Do your research from any part of the world, from Alaska to Australia, you will find out that out of every five married men, four are likely cheating on their wives, it takes an average of about 6-12 months after marriage for a married man to start cheating on his wife. Men are cheats and i can tell you, too many of us are doing it, As i am here, i cant vouch for any man when it comes to women matters, may be pastor E.A Adeboye, because of the respect i have for him.
To the discussion proper, most married men are always looking for girls and ladies(single or married) to scratch their backs, In so many offices these days, married men are always demanding for sex before they can offer you job, so with all these opportunities starring our ladies on the face, why wont they give to the demands. Whether you are a big, small or simple lady, married men will surely come your way, its now left for you to do or not but most ladies will do because of the benefits involved.
Its until when we married men know how to caution our JT, by being disciplined, when we see beautiful women, we admire them and remove our eyes, may be, these trends will reduce but i doubt it will ever happen. So the actress is in her right frame of mind, the married men are just too desirable for our ladies these days. Out of every 10 ladies you come across, more than 6 are dating or have dated married men, even the ones that are marrying single guys. Lets us tell ourselves the home-truth, we are even talking about single ladies, what of married women that are breaking other women's homes. We are not too different from animals, a friend usually says that, if God don't punish this generation for our intimate lust-fulness, then he must apologize to Sodom and Gomorrah but He cant be questioned.I may not be liked for this, but that is the honest truth.
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 8:10pm On Feb 18|
jidegirl12: I just did , lol. E ma binuI vex not and if i have to, not u. I saw it and replied. Take care
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 7:22pm On Feb 18|
@OP May be because i have chosen not to be angry this year, that is why i am not angry with you yet, You still did mot reply my mails.
To the topic, I see lots of people quarrel and argue here and i thought this is an opportunity to address this. I am surprised people are not responding or saying anything related to that. Does it mean we are all happy with ourselves? or all is just well now as it is for me too, everybody on nairaland is my pal o, i dont have enemy, I like everybody on nairaland, i like the ladies more, i enjoy their writeup more and Jidegirl in particular
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 6:58pm On Feb 18|
Vikin: Hmmm.....make una continue the conversation na! Am just a silent reader!so you want to enjoy the conversation and you dont want to join, ok enjoy well well o
|Family / Re: I'm Fed Up! by bjcole: 10:38am On Feb 16|
Odenigbo Aroli.:when your wife oppresses with her cash,what do u do,u married her so u should be able to control your home.If u know how to control your home & treat your wife well, u will have less wahala.
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 8:18pm On Feb 15|
jidegirl12: Hehehe I'm jealous o that's how our life should be 'sweet'... let me whine a little for you jare, I broke my thumb days ago and you know what? my hubby has been great with the 'house-chores', ( of course excludes cooking ).. going back and forth ( after a long day ) I'm speechless, all I've been saying to him was thanks hon, thanks dear, thanks babe, one stage he said ma ki mi pa now .....even tho everything was done backwards I appreciate him very much, he's my custom made hubby specially crafted for moi.
jealousy indeed, who should be jealous, you are always saying sweet things about him every now and then, well enjoy yourself, it is always sweet when a good man meets a good woman, i usually tell people people, shine your eyes, if you marry an Omo Aye( I borrowed my friend's word for a real bad girl) all in they name of love, you carry cross. And most men can always do more than what you wish them do for you as per house chores, if you know how to go about it.
|Family / Re: After 16 Years Of Marriage Man Finds Out 3 Of His 4 Children Are Not His by bjcole: 8:08pm On Feb 15|
Pathetic or what else can u call it, it is a big pain and it is product of the society we created for ourselves, I was telling a guy recently that, we just recycle this women, we guys move from one woman to the other, thinking that we are catching fun, whereas it is a case of eating your cake and having it. There are so many bad women these days and they don't carry out their act alone, they do with men. What i am saying is that, we men made these women what they are today, it is unfortunate it happened to him, he may even be a good man, my advice for him is just to carry his cross, the children are grown already and they know him as their father, so he should carry on in as much as nobody will contest the kids with him, that is my opinion.
|Family / Re: I'm Fed Up! by bjcole: 6:18pm On Feb 15|
steph7: It seems like of recent,there are e-fights on all the threads in this section.people open threads seeking for advice or opinions and before you can say jack, there is an e-fight between the so-called feminists and the alpha males.I don't think you should be fed up, there are lots of constructive arguments here, it is just for you to take what you think is good for you. This forum has helped me in so many ways and i have learned so much here.
|Family / Re: Why Are You Still Married? by bjcole: 6:13pm On Feb 15|
Tgirl4real: Call it a resaerch...
Whatever your reasons for staying in a marriage will worth after all, all the reasons you listed up are the reasons for marriage in actual sense, one thing i have discovered about love is that, you choose to love someone, you can always love your spouse, if you choose to. For me, I m in my marriage for all the reasons you listed up there and i have chosen to love my wife unconditionally and she submits to me too, hence my happiness in marriage.
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 5:59pm On Feb 15|
jidegirl12: Baba mi, don't want to reply you ke? I've been very busy and all, all this NL post are all mobile thank Gawd for Apple and Siri or else you won't see me here often.Ok i take the apology until you reply no comment, my family is great and my wife is just turning out sweeter and sweeter day by day, i just cant stop loving her, I send my warm regards to your lovely home and to Debrief,that is one woman that you cant ignore, no matter how you disagree with her, one thing i have deduced from her post, is that she is a strong personality, a courageous woman, may be because she is a lawyer i don't know, i guess we just sometimes misunderstand ourselves and that is the essence of NL but abuse, we should lead the way in leading the younger ones right
|Family / Re: Please I Need Advice-i Don't Wanna Do Something silly by bjcole: 5:45pm On Feb 15|
BukkyDan: I just clocked 19 about two weeks ago, buts my mum don't seem to believe i'm grown up.i don't have a say in anything,i don't have friends-both male and female,nobody dares visit our home in d name of "coming to see me".well to summarize,an incident happened yesterday,a coursemate(male) knocked our gate,i went to open it, mum came along,i just had to say hy and good night quickly-mum closed her gate.as expected,dis morning exactly 4am,she woke me 4 a new sermon,preached about indecency,accused me of bringing males to her house,reminded me of HIV and all.
Hi BukkyDan, I guess people would have given you some good advices, i would advice you keep them up, one thing i will like to add is that, there is nothing you will ever again from any relationship with a guy at this your age other than heartbreak, jilting, or HIV as your mother has pointed out. I don't like preaching to young girls, because it is always a case of wasting time, most are like a dog that want get lost and will not hear the whistle of the hunter, just an adage in case it gets you high. I took a look at some teenage girls in my church sometime ago and i was wondering why this good looking girls, from good homes and with all these godly teachings still go through this part of boyfriends to boyfriends to pregnancy to abortions to all sorts of waywardness.So do whatever pleases you, any relationship with a guy now is intimate, may be i should say welcome to a sex filled relationship, that is what the world offer now. So enjoy yourself.
|Family / Re: Lets Talk Day :) by bjcole: 5:05pm On Feb 15|
jidegirl12: Today is mental illness awareness day( not that you have to be crazy or necessary from Yaba left.
Gud day all and Happy Val in arrears, I have been away for a while and its nice to come back and see this nice thread.I m using this opportunity to forgive the guy that made me loose my promising job about a year ago, Though i have forgiven him, i just cant get it off my mind but with this, i will even go as far as calling him on phone and see if i can reconnect my relationship with him again. Life is all about forgiveness and you let go, whatever anybody has done to you, you just have to find a way to forgive and forget because of the healthiness it brings to your life as jidegirl has right pointed out. Let me use the opportunity again to ask for forgiveness from anybody i may have offended here and i also forgive anyone that may have raised my temper in one way or the other. One post i cant seem to forget in a hurry, was when i abused debrief when she commented on my post on my wife seeing a gynecologist, i can remember someone calling my attention to the fact that i cant be abusing someone like that, the fellow was very right, that was just too much of me, so pls Debrief forgive me, i guess you have forgotten but i can remember well. If there was any of my post in that line, I m so sorry. Tgril4real, i saw your apology mail, sorry i didn't reply back, jidegirl, you dont want to reply my mail abi?
|Family / Re: At What Stage Does It Become Infidelity For A Married Woman? by bjcole: 9:51am On Feb 02|
@op, this is a sentitive matter & its gud its comimg 4rm a woman, many of us r guilt of this, do unto others what u can take, most men dont knw this. 4 me, infidelity start frm when u start having too much closeness wit a married woman, online flirting, office flirting, e.t.c. Its really disgusting, flirting & Being Intimate wit another man's wife but what do we do, its d trend now everywhere. Some married ladies, if u go thru their BB, u wil be ashamed. I dnt knw, why wud u open ur legs 4 another man other than ur hubby, some women r thrash seriously.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 7:49pm On Jan 14|
coogar:my brother, whether it is rope or spoon, it just ve to been long o, so u dnt ve to exhaust ur patience. Women will always get u high & 4 me na siddon look. U can imagine one even called me mumu here, she said i dnt measure up 2 her hubby, she does not know me o. One cannot just do without them abi? with dat honey pot in between their legs. God dey.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 7:37pm On Jan 14|
I thought this case is closed & dusted, i dnt expect any woman to still be making any comment on what they think the guy shd still do after these facts 4rm d gurus. I ve never seen a discussion where d opposing discussants fell flat like this, in a game of boxing, this is a pure knockout, men, dayo, david & others, una too much, even debrief wey sabi argue, quickly agreed wit d gurus. May be i shd ask my ladies, what do u think of this woman? is she a Naughty Lady, wicked & a devil? just ur opiinion pls.
|Family / Re: Why Men Don't Help-Out With Domestic Chores by bjcole: 2:08pm On Jan 14|
@ Op, i hope u r not looking 4 trouble, these women will attack u, hope u r ready? Well to answer ur question, doing a house chores is not a big deal, its ur house, when both husband & wife join hands together, the tasks become easier, however u dont take a house chores as a responbility u share wit ur wife, it shoud be out of freewill, u ve ur major financial roles to take care.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 1:43pm On Jan 14|
davidylan:I dont get angry any more wit abuse 4rm women o, after all these yrs in marriage, na 2day, to deal wit a woman, u need a very long rope.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 1:29pm On Jan 14|
What is d point about America being a sane clime when d laws are tilted towards women, its just d same here in Nigeria where it favors men. Lots of gud points have been made here & thanks 2 d guys dayo & co, some ladies also, debrief etc. I m still amused why some ladies were just making briefs for a Naughty Lady of a woman, a cheat, very disgusting, i wil never be on d side of a man that cheats on his wife. There over 1001 lies (ete ) in a woman, dats what my mum told me.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 4:50pm On Jan 13|
I thought the OP is a cousin to this woman or she just feel like runing her own cousin down, some one is talking about her own cousin & her evil ways & some people stil want to hear from d woman. Its only a third party that can give d true picture of things, a woman that is sleeping wit her colleague, nurse indeed.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 2:49am On Jan 13|
Gud nite & church 2morrow, what a hilarious thread, anyway i m married & i dnt forsee my wife becoming a witch in d future, i m not even going 2 relocate to canada or American, na only visits & i m back to my sweet home, my real nairaland where d african setting works, where i can enjoy my fatherhood, wit my wife besides me even @ 80yrs, there is even enough cash to make here 4 those dat knows how. Naija rocks
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 2:32am On Jan 13|
@baby 123, i will not want 2 join arguments with, i ve seen so many of ur comments full of insults, r u not d girl dat said u will insult, abuse ur husband if he deserves it, u said u get mouth well well & i can see it, i guess after giving him enough wash down, u will then call d cops 2 arrest abi? With all these ur talks i still wonder why naija babes still dey look 4 us naija men to marry, u wud ve settle wit those akata dat will use & dump u. Dayo & others, U carry d day, 3 Gbosas
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 2:06am On Jan 13|
There is no country where u ve these biased laws that u will see many stable marriage, bad women will always use it to their adabantage. Me think d best thing, u want 2 marry, just come home & date a girl here & marry, get so close 2 d family, so that when she is mis behaving, u can call some family members to talk sense into her head, abi? how person go take escape this kind palaver. Its just that there r still some gud naija babes there, d whole thing nid plenty prayers abeg.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 1:51am On Jan 13|
@ baby 123, go & sleep abeg, u ve no point, lots of u women are so wicked & mean except few ones like my wife. Why must a woman lie against her BF or Husband?
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 1:00am On Jan 13|
Thks Dayo & David, u dnt know how valuable ur contributions are tonite, i m sure ur information will go a long way 2 save some souls. I m definitely going 2 skool my brother, he must not bring one poo naija girl 4rm there say he wan marry at all. The whole tory just tire person abeg, this our ladies, wetin dey enter their heads so. My naija rocks so well, yanke is just 4 visitaion sake 4 me. I cant live with those biased laws.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 12:39am On Jan 13|
jidegirl12:u think this thing na joke, this is a matter of life & death, as my reading all these, my mind is just going 2 my kid brother over there. He is definetely not marrying over there but he shd not even have babe there abeg, all this living abroad does not worth after all, see all i m enjoying in my naija.
|Family / Re: Should He Fight For Custody Of His Kids?? by bjcole: 12:19am On Jan 13|
So all these wahala is b'cos of the law in the US, thats why to marry a woman over there one has to shine his eyes o, even our naija babes wey go there, once they know that the law is on their side, they just start behaving like person wey just commot for jail. If any woman do these kain thing 4 me, i go just go village 4 am. Pls David & Dayo, what do u think a man living in d US can do to prevent this kind wahala? b'cos this is not what u wish 4 ur enemy.
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