Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,155,796 members, 7,827,941 topics. Date: Tuesday, 14 May 2024 at 07:42 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Cigaricon's Profile / Cigaricon's Posts
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 37 pages)
Politics / Re: Amid Hardship, Seyi Tinubu Asks Nigerians To Have Faith In His Father by cigaricon(m): 11:13am On Feb 20 |
jattopeter:If I'm not, I wouldn't mention such here. I got the info from a very valid source. As I'm speaking to you currently, the least apartment in Belanova Suites is about 250k per night. |
Politics / Re: Amid Hardship, Seyi Tinubu Asks Nigerians To Have Faith In His Father by cigaricon(m): 6:55am On Feb 20 |
Queengee: Swears man. I heard He once lodged four Tanzanian girls in Belanova from a staff working there. Nigerians never see anything. APC supporters should keep living in delulu 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Hardship: I Honestly Don’t Know Why The Southeast Is Quiet - Usman Yusuf by cigaricon(m): 9:51pm On Feb 18 |
Topman7:But your Bobo Chicago who is supposedly a first class holder in accounting and economics, and presumed by ronu miscreants to be better than Obi still did "what obi would have done". Why didn't he do better? Take it or leave it, your agbado slave master is a total failure, even you yourself know it within you. Also remember your emilokan was the loudest critic of GEJ when he tried to remove this same subsidy in 2015, so how far? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing's Lover Gifts Her N6M Bracelet On Her Birthday by cigaricon(m): 2:25pm On Feb 17 |
AllenSpencer: |
Family / Re: 'I Regret Pushing My Husband To Move Us From Okota To Lekki Phase 1' - Woman by cigaricon(m): 2:36pm On Feb 02 |
TA4TA4: Glad to know that not everyone is dumb on Nairaland. I follow her TikTok account, she always addresses issues like this. I think the op is to blame here for posting a misleading topic in order to get engagements. Nigerians are the most emotionally unintelligent creatures on earth watch how they're bad mouthing the said lady just because she made a mistake, a mistake from wanting to live in a more serene environment which they can afford. If you check well, those people insulting her are struggling to pay their rent of one room apartment, their own lives isn't any better but they're here insulting her. One comment even said she's ugly, if e sure for you make you post your own picture make we compare who fine pass. Rubbish 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Onanuga: S/Africa Has Worsening Insecurity Than Nigeria, Temper The Headlines by cigaricon(m): 7:37pm On Jan 31 |
So this is supposed to make us feel better? 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Would You Marry Someone Who Has Broken Ties With Their Parents? by cigaricon(m): 1:14pm On Jan 18 |
You see, issues in family are very delicate and complicated that if you don't experience it firsthand or you're not a first hand witness, you will never understand no mater how the people involved explain it to you. First of all, when it comes to marriage, I believe it to be between two people, therefore should be independent of any other people whether they're family or not, after all the bible said a man would LEAVE HIS MOTHER AND FATHER AND CLING TO HIS WIFE. However the African culture insinuates that marriage is between families but I do not agree and that's my own opinion. Now back to the issues in family I was talking about, If you had spectacular parents as a child, you can never believe that there are parents somewhere who are evil such that they could even kill their child. Many parents have ruined their children's lives, yes I've met some people who their parent(s) do not want the best for them so that they won't outdo what they the parent have done. We've all heard stories where Fathers molest their daughters, maltreat their sons and what not, now would you blame these set of people if they choose to disown their parents? Many would do so to save their future, would you blame them? I see some comments saying one shouldn't disown their family NO MATTER WHAT and I just scoff cos these people haven't been in some ugly situation. I bet that You wouldn't even think twice before making the decision if it were you so stop saying what you don't know about yet and just deal with your own life and let others deal with theirs. At the end of the day, whether family or not, we are all individuals with different perspectives to life, so one having toxic or evil parents doesn't automatically mean that they would be evil themselves as some comments are saying. Sometimes we experience evil so that we can be better humans. Sometimes people make these decisions to save their partner and children from toxicity. I'm not saying it's a good thing to disown one's parents, all I'm saying is that some situations need to be properly studied before jumping into conclusion. It is no where carved in stone that whoever doesn't have a relationship with their parents will be bad partners in marriage, never 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Meets Service Chiefs Over Rising Insecurity by cigaricon(m): 5:42pm On Jan 16 |
Na meeting we go chop? |
Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Is A Dirty Industry, If They Can’t Use You, They'll Block You – Kunle by cigaricon(m): 7:52am On Dec 23, 2023 |
But you have to be useful for someone to think of using you. Ever thought about that? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Many Nigerians Are Not Actually Employable Like It Or Not! by cigaricon(m): 12:34pm On Dec 18, 2023 |
marienl: To add to this, many employees have this mindset of defrauding the company or it's clients/customers, or cutting corners to get extra pennies in their pockets. They don't care about the company. I've seen this a lot. |
Family / Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by cigaricon(m): 9:12am On Nov 26, 2023 |
We4all: I've tried to several times but it's hard. I only know their first names, I don't even know their surname, I don't know the state they are or if they're in Nigeria at all. When I reunited with my biological sister, she told me she only met them once and at the time, they were in Enugu. My aunt from my mother's side who is the only family member that I know from my mother's side (we also reunited after so many years), I asked her about them and she said that the female one now has a child, but is no longer with the man whom she has the child with. Even she doesn't care about them. I was heart broken cos I didn't even know that I have a nephew. Many times I've shed tears due to the dysfunctional way my family is. My family has never been united. My father hates every single memory of my mother, and my mother's family hates him as well, even up till today. At some point, they accused him of being responsible for my mother's death which is absolutely not true. Sometimes I feel my father doesn't care much about I and my biological sister cos we came from my mother. I have a tattoo of my mother's name and a heart shape on my left wrist. The day my father saw it, he was filled with resentment and kinda withdrawn from me. He didn't make it obvious but I knew cos I have a very strong discerning spirit and I know him very well. I know he doesn't hate us, I just think we bring back memories of her. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Una Don Start With Dis Una Camera, Na U Dey Cast Me - Wizkid Says As He Step Out by cigaricon(m): 6:43am On Nov 26, 2023 |
AfroBeatDiary: Stop saying what you don't know. Davido took a break, came back with an album that has landed him Grammy nomination. Taylor Swift, Justin Bieber, Selena Gomez, Adele ...they all once took a hiatus in their career and came back stronger |
Family / Re: How's Your Relationship With Your Siblings? Toxic Or Healthy? by cigaricon(m): 2:53pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
I can't really say it's healthy, neither can I say it's toxic. We just don't have a strong bond with each other. To begin with, I have two elder half siblings I've never meet before, these are my late mother's children she had from a previous marriage before she married my dad. I haven't even seen their pictures so I don't even know how they look like, I only know their names. And any time I ask a family member who've had contact with them, they just waive it off. In my family, it's not the younger ones (siblings, cousin) that are toxic, it's the elder ones (parents, uncle's, aunties) although not all Sha, and it's rubbing off on some of the younger ones. To say the least, my family is very dysfunctional. We are just two who share the same parents, I and my younger sister, the rest are my half siblings. My biological sister and I didn't grow up together due to my mom and dad's separation. We reunited after 15yrs and still had some misunderstandings due to individual differences. Then I decided to be away from family and find my way through life. The last time we saw was about 2-3 yrs ago, we only communicate via call and WhatsApp and it's been cool. My other half siblings, the children my dad has with his present wife we barely communicate, not because we hate each other but they are still young and are still under parent's custody so they follow whatever their mother tells them. I think they'll come around when they're much older. I eager look forward to spending some with them in the coming hollidays though. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Career / Re: An Employer Sent The Above Message To His Employees by cigaricon(m): 11:25am On Nov 24, 2023 |
Nothing wrong here. Normal due process 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: Angry Youths Stone, Boo Governor Alia In Makurdi by cigaricon(m): 7:56am On Nov 16, 2023 |
Nackzy: Lol. Have you been to Niger state? 16 Likes |
Family / Re: Have You Ever Felt Like You Are Not Doing Enough ? by cigaricon(m): 3:02pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
Never in my life have I thought of myself as an underachiever, and never will I. In fact, I see myself as an overachiever with the circumstances sorrounding my life. I'm currently 28yo, there was a time I thought I wouldn't make it pass 23 or 25. With what I have been able to achieve for myself given the fact that I have been given absolutely nothing in this life, even love and family which are the basic things most people enjoy in life because it doesn't cost a thing, even that I haven't been given in this life. I came from a broken home, I've never experienced what family feels like, I never had my both parents together, I was separated from my mother and sister for 15yrs. 9yrs into those 15yrs I lost my mom. My dad hated my mom so much that he didn't even allow me see her grave. It's so bad that even till today, I have no visual memory of my mother. I spent most of my childhood wishing I was like other kids in my neighborhood. I left home to be on my own at age 15, I didn't have the opportunity to further my education after my mom died, I've gone days without food, I almost died on the street from hunger, I've slept under banex bridge, Omo... The story long but here I am today, I have my own brand I'm building, I do not have to worry about food to eat or roof over my head. Sometimes I look at some people of the same age group as me and I say, with all the support system you have, if you still need extra motivation to keep you moving, then your mater dey Yaba left. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Phones / Re: How Do I Stop Unknown International Numbers From Calling Me by cigaricon(m): 11:14pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Happens to me too. Mine is Zimbabwe and Mozambique, and mostly at night. Some times I wake up in the morning only to check my phone and see like three missed calls from either of the countries I mentioned above. Just ignore. |
Health / Re: Some Nigerian Doctors Forget Tools Inside Stomach After Surgery!!!! by cigaricon(m): 6:08pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
stuffs2002: Use the same energy to tell your government the truth also. They've killed more Nigerians than doctors with their evil anti-people policies. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Naira: Tinubu Will Shock Currency Speculators – Tope Fasua by cigaricon(m): 6:03pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Please oh let him shock us 6 Likes |
Health / Re: Some Nigerian Doctors Forget Tools Inside Stomach After Surgery!!!! by cigaricon(m): 1:08pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
stuffs2002: You are the wisest person on earth. Please whenever you or any of your family members have medical complications, please don't go to the doctor. You can treat or operate on yourself cos like you said, Doctors are killing Nigerians. Mtcheew 4 Likes |
Health / Re: Some Nigerian Doctors Forget Tools Inside Stomach After Surgery!!!! by cigaricon(m): 1:00pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Kai! If I say Nigerians are the most ungrateful, most bitter and sadist people on earth now some people will come for my placenta. What about the countless successful surgery despite lack of resources, what about when they go to the extreme length just to save a life, what about the number of years they spend in school in order to acquire the knowledge to enable them treat your illnesses? How many of these have you appreciated? Doctors are humans too just like you and a prone to mistakes. See the way you are saying it like they do it intentionally, haba! cut them some Slack abeg. Don't you make mistakes in your work too? Or is it only Nigerian doctors that mistakenly leave tools in their patients? What's even the statistical rate of this mistake self? It's very minimal. The Op even said he's lost COUNTLESS relatives. Make una dey fear God abeg. Maybe next time you have medical issues that requires surgery, you might as well do it yourself and avoid going to the doctors cos they will likely forget an instrument in your belly. Rubbish 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Foreign Debt To Top $51bn As Tinubu Seeks Fresh $7.8bn, €100m Loans by cigaricon(m): 7:32am On Nov 02, 2023 |
Benki003: You will never see them in threads like this. But let the topic be "FG plans to disburse 15m to 200m households" then you see them crawling out from their holes like crickets, drooling with praise and worship to their god BAT. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Music/Radio / Re: Burna Boy - City Boys (Official Music Video) by cigaricon(m): 7:52am On Sep 25, 2023 |
Spotted Quavo. |
Romance / Re: Truth You Learnt As An Adult by cigaricon(m): 10:50am On Sep 24, 2023 |
Never mix emotion with business 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Religion / Re: How Did We End Up With So Many Churches? by cigaricon(m): 11:25am On Sep 17, 2023 |
Kalatium: Lol. Thought you guys worship the same God. If you do, why different beliefs/doctrines? Seems the God you worship has different standards |
Family / Re: A Lady Has Cried Out That She Can't Get A Man Because Of Her Nose by cigaricon(m): 2:05pm On Sep 16, 2023 |
Nosediver |
Travel / Re: NLC Warning Strike: Airport Unions Direct Workers To Stay At Home by cigaricon(m): 7:06pm On Sep 04, 2023 |
I smell manipulation |
Romance / Re: What Are The Pros And Cons Of Dating Or Marrying Younger Women by cigaricon(m): 4:24pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
You're even talking marriage. I'm 27 and I can't even date any lady younger than 25. Last time I dated one 22yr old girl like that, I nearly lost my mind. Those ones don't know what life is all about. They're only interested in the latest gadget or wears and trends. Think well oh. Marriage is not for children 4 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Petroleum: Aradel Holdings Modular Refinery Ready For Operation Soon by cigaricon(m): 10:18am On Aug 07, 2023 |
donproject2: Hi. That's my job. I'm a graphic designer. Can you drop your WhatsApp contact so we continue there |
Politics / Re: My Father Will Not Fail, Seyi Tinubu Assures Nigerians by cigaricon(m): 8:07am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Mtcheeew.. should we expect you to say otherwise? 10 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Niger Soldiers Announce President Bazoum's Removal From Office (Photo) by cigaricon(m): 8:04am On Jul 27, 2023 |
Buhari's cousin 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Pick One Defect You Can Accept In A Partner by cigaricon(m): 5:32pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
I won't care if she's not beautiful as long as she ticks my other boxes 1 Like |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (of 37 pages)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 65 |