i believe it is trust and the ability to tolerate each others excesses

invite her to a quiet place for dinner then put the ring inside ur wine and drink it wtout her seeing it.pretend to take the wine.when the cup is already in ur mouth then scream as if sumthing blocked ur throat and start coughing she wld be so afaid.then do as if u want to throw up and vomit the ring into ur hands and say quietly "will u marry me"u bet she wl answer yes even before u finish asking.NB-dnt go and swallow the ring o

serves u the hell right.learn to use a chastity belt

The lady in question is damn too materialistic.love shldnt be all about money or gifts.she knows u are not working so how does she expect u to foot her outrageous bills.except u want to deceive urself,u can see the handwriting written clearly on the wall dt its not as if she realy loves u bt after gifts and money which is not a good criteria of defining love.that is jst my opinion.

Realy,its somehow hard cos u must be very careful so he wnt take it personal or think u are probably tired of him.so jst try n use scope like on a good day when he is in a good mood o.jst tel him how mch u love him n dt u dnt like slim guys,dt u like everything about him bt u feel it wld be better if he trims down a little bit but dt nothwtstanding u lyk him whichever way.i am so sure he wl get the message and he wld find something to do about it.it all depends on how u say it sha.

Both of them should call each other.since relationship is a mutual thing,it shouldnt be a one-sided thing so that the parties involved wldnt take each other for granted.cos if d guy calls the girl more,the girl wld becum used ti it and vice-versa.though it actually depends on the people in the relationship.

@Adam sweetie.pls try and respect ladies a little.swthrt if nt 4 anything,4 d fact dt u came to ds world tru a woman.
Now i realy have sumthing to tel u.adam,ve u ever thought 4 a moment dt ds girl dt broke ur heart wsnt destined to be urs afterall?.ve u ever thought dt ds girl 2 ve broken up wt u mite actually be a blessing in disguise?ve u ever thought dt it wsnt written dt u and ds girl will be together?wt if u get married to her and she turned out to be ur worst nightmare?
Atimes circumstances of life make us to make certain decisions dt could lead to regrets later in the future.but if only humanbeings can jst accept their fate and move on wt life,it would be a lot better.Adam i know dt no matter how rigid and heart broken u have become,u still ve a conscience in as much as ure still human and still have blood flowing in ur veins,i know dt u know in ur heart of hearts dt wt ure doing is not right.swtheart,i am talking to u as a sister and a friend i know u might be older than me bt dear,age is only a number.
Iwant u to try and forget everything dt has happened and look on to a bright future.dont let this incidence spoil the relationship between u and ur God.the girl in question is nt worth it afteral.anygirl dt hurt a man ds much doesnt deserve him.u know dt all the girls u ve broken their hearts would also be very bitter as u are bitter 2wrds ds girl.why do u want to take up revenge on innocent people.revenge is the lords.i know u can change cos deep down in dt ur heart lies a man who is willing to forgive and forget.
so dear,4get about ur past and move on and show people the NEW MAN in u.I wish u all the best in life.Happy new year in advance.take care.

ahahhh 190 isnt dt 2 mch.take am easy now.
@poster,seriously i think u should jst 4get abt the girl.shes jst taking u 4 a ride n pls dnt fall for it.maybe she jst wanted time 2 do some runs wtout wanting 2 feel guilty as someone said and now that she is 2ru,she wants u back.any girl that can lie that a pastor told her to leave u alone jst to satisfy her own selfish needs is not worth it so just ignore her and if she keeps on disturbing u,tel her u are no longer interested.dont mind 190 oh he is jst a funny person.

@poster.who is abani?or do u mean agbani darego?

@poster.men ur situation is so sad.but never mind u wl find ur match.best of luck

@blackmann.hey are u getin angry already?oya ma binu.its jst dt i go out wt real men nt people who cant perform wtout some local stuffs.sory abt dt.hpe ure fine.merry xmas n happy new year in advance o.blackmann my friend.

@opuro Its not all about money,true love counts.as i cant stay wtout my baby 4 a day,he cant even stay wtout me 4 a second.he is my everything.i can bend till i break jst 2 ve him by my side.

I wl always be by his side every second,every minute,every hour.,every day,every year i wl lay down my life my body my soul i wl hold on to him all nite and never let go.every second i live dts d promise i make 2 him.

@blackmann.so ure telin me dt wtout u being the only one in ur house,u no fit bring babe cum sleep.u no even gt liver.anywy i dont ve ur time.me cum 2 ur house 4 wt now.God forbid.i(olorun majeooooo)

First of all i would like 2 ask the poster why he hasnt been giving the girl attention,why u dont show her u love her and why u dont cal her.basically,these things are what forms a solid relationship.when u dont pay attention 2 her,how else do u want her 2 know u luv her and that u are serious wt her?though that doesnt give her the liberty 2 sleep with her ex but some ladies cant just bear being ignored by their boyfriends.
That nothwithstanding, i seriously think its better u leave the girl since its obvious she doesnt need u no more.u dont need 2 force her,its not worth the stress.move on with ur life but always remember that ladies need love and attention.best of luck.

poster.sorry u are not being explicit.what is ur girlfriend"s reason 4 not wanting u 2 travel.at least she must have a reason before asking u not to travel.Afterall its not like u wont be going back to wherever u stay after the visit.

@blims nicely said.may God continue to increase ur wisdom.u get sense.

what kind of stupid lecturer is that.my candid advice 2 u is that d next time he calls u,jst try and record the conversation and tender it 2 ur h.o.d or better still ur v.c.i am sure there is something u can do about it except of course if u are interested in the stuff.

@poster so sorry 4 wt uv been through.but be rest assured dt ur own specially crafted lady who wl luv u unconditionally wl cum ur way soon.be expectant.let that be ur new year resolution.wish u best of luck.

Left to me,engagement rings dont rily man serious commitment.dts d trick guys use now to get ladies in bed.i mean ladies that are desperate 2 get married.if they know dt al u want is marriage and commiment and no sex.u wl jst hear something like "baby wl u marry me" and the next thing is an engagement ring. if the girl is mumu enof,she wl tink d guy is sincere and allow him 2 sleep wt her.i give d guy jst one wk after i for don delete d babe 4rm him memory.so babes e wise dnt let any guy deceive u wt an engagemnt ring.enof angagemnt rings wey dem don tro wey 4 river.

@poster.i cant believe u can be this dumb at ur age?stop chasing wt is not yours and get urself ur own wife.someone u can call ur own.u dont even know what u are getting urself into.what if the lady in question doesnt feel a thing 4 u after u tell her?dont u know this can spoil the relationship between u and ur brother?and distabilise ur family.u better behave like a matrured person.ure a very selfish and inconsiderate person.kai.what somebody wl not hear in nairaland.
Im very sure we wl jst see a post one day wt d title,PLEASE HELP I AM IN LOVE WITH MY MOTHER

Stop
dont dare
dont play with fire
dont do what u wl live 2 regret
dont lust after ur brothers wife
dont betray ur brothers love
dont be betrayed by ur emotions
do pray 4 4giveness 4 wt u ve done so far
The consequences wl be grave
TO BE FORE WARNED IS TO BE FORE ARMED

@poster.Be anxious for nothing.i dont see why ure getin scared cos some peoples marriages are breaking.it doesnt mean yours too would end up like theirs.ure a lady,u need to marry.its not all about having kids only.if u tink ur boyfriend is serious and if he says "marry me"then why on earth wont u.as we are seeing marriages that fail so also are we seeing marriages that last forever.It all depends on the people in it.so babe pls marry.i dey take God beg u.the decision is yours though.

@poster.Did u mean.CAN SOMEONE TELL ME THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP.i was a little bit surprised when i saw"defferent".
wel dont think the girl wants u 4 a relationship maybe she just likes u on a friendship basis.u dont need to force urself on her by trying 2 change ur attitude since she said she cant cope with it.though i think u should still try and change ur temperament 4 ur own good.so dear,i know u wld find someone who will truly love u and not play games with u.best of luck.

@topup.very well said.i feel u

@poster dt wld ve been the most unwisest thing u kld eva do.thank God ure now been reasonable.
@glorina ure such a clown

wow now thats so sexieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.wel i call my lover pie i mean sweeti pie

u guys are babies.pls concentrate on ur studies first and other wl 4lw in time.gud luck in d future

@blackmann kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa kpa kpaaaaaaaaaaaa.clap 4 urslf.u don try o.bt im sure it was in u dreams sha.berra wake up.wt are u filin like?like one sexsuperstar?abegi na only mouth u get.

seriously,i think u shd jst 4get abt dis whole stuff and move on with ur life.pls stop breaking girls hearts.i can understand dt u ve been very hurt.bt its not the end of the world

@Adambroda.hhaaaaaahaaaaaa.pls take it easy on him