my elder brother called me from Calabar and he said i should visit him for Xmas, he said it is under must, that i have to come and my mum also said yes, that i should go, after mum approved that, i call my girlfriend and told her about it, the next thing she told me was, if you go to calabar please forget about me, i want date you anymore, This is a girl i dont wanna lose and my brother said i have to visit, please advice me, dont know what to do.

poster.sorry u are not being explicit.what is ur girlfriend"s reason 4 not wanting u 2 travel.at least she must have a reason before asking u not to travel.Afterall its not like u wont be going back to wherever u stay after the visit.

oby u no wetin u go do make carry the babe go the place. but i believe that she has a point there u can be tempted to carry all this ikaite them wey them they fine lagos bobo


make you think am twice like nice and face

Take her along with you.

i asked her if she could go with me but she said no that her parent wouldnt let her travel that far, i no no wetin i wan do about this girl matter oo, i have been begging to allo me go and i will be back before new year and all she could say is NO, nd e bi like say d girl mean d tin wey she dey talk, i no no wetin i go fit do oo

U had better go and see your people ojare. For starters, why is she hell bent on dumpin you if you go? is she on good terms with yr family? Do they know her? If yes, do they like her? if yes, so wtf is her problem? U wan marry the babe? If yes, then make her go with you. If no, tell her to talk to the hand and catch the first flight/bus/canoe to calabar and have a 1daful christmas celeb!
On the other side; you sure say there aint a conspiracy by ur family members to catch a wife for you and your lady has an idea?

olanajim:

Take her along with you.

exactly