damton:


Don't think so,

Dantata was actually his father in-law who gave him his seed capital loan

damton:


What of Dangote. He seems to be an exemption. isn't it.

chumakk:
You donated 900k to USA university but you were not able to say how much you have donated to so called Nigerian universities?

clefstone:
How can a Dr, a supposed consultant for that matter allow herself be used by a man like T billz, abi na tuberculous bacilli sef be he name.

Meanwhile, if u watched d Tiwa interview, you would notice that she never denied sleeping with don jazzy and co. When asked about the allegation, she said I never cheated on my husband. Her response could imply that she slept with those guys but not after hooking up with teebillz.


I expect a lot more to unfold from this saga

IamLEGEND1:
50k+ cash prize and a contract with a modelling agency.

That last statement may or may not be true..

FulaniGurl? daman ina Neman Wanda zai koya mun yare.....

MRNipples:
NO DP?

IamLEGEND1:
50k+ cash prize and a contract with a modelling agency.

That last statement may or may not be true..

FulaniGurl? daman ina Neman Wanda zai koya mun yare.....

Alani86:
The simple truth is; whatever God had destined to happen will happen; Even if you are apart for ten years. Seeing each other daily for 8 years doesn't mean you'll end up getting married to each other. And a union that has focus/vision will look beyond whatever barrier(distance/misunderstanding/bad reports from haters, etc). Must you be canal to uphold a relationship; "talk dirty"? I've seen some senseless girls who had turned themselves into sex machine while trying to "satisfy" their men, with the view to keeping the relationship alive. And eventually they were dumped like a sac of dirts. Let me share my story at this junction;

By the grace of God, I met my jewel while she was about entering 100L(LAUTECH, Physiology). I finished from the same school(Accounting). It took me 6months to gain her love; I didn't give up because she got my attention with her virtues/inner beauty! We were used to each other because a day hardly went without seeing each other. I was ahead of her but took some semesters out from school, plus some flaws, so we eventually finished the same year. I'm sure you would ask; 100L ke? How did she cope with her studies? And even me? Well, that's where focus/vision comes in. By the mercy of God, she finished with a strong 2:1(one of the best in her dept) and I also finished with 2:1(but not as strong as hers)

We finished early last year and in May she had to travel. We didn't see each other till around October when she came for her clearance(2/3days). Then, she traveled to Kebbi for NYSC(October 23rd, stream 1). I was posted to Rivers stream 2. Honestly, I'll encourage you to develop yourself and get as many virtues as possible. Facial beauty can get you into a man's heart, but character/attitude/virtue will retain you therein. Let me come out straight to you here; it takes a man/woman who had decided to honor God with his/her life/body/time/future/heart(through the Help of His Spirit), to stay focused and keep the bed "undefiled". A good and precious lady don't have to maneuver/work herself into the man's heart. Even bad boys advised me never to let her go. She ad done several things for me and it becomes practically impossible for me to stop thinking about her. She's always fresh in my heart. A girl that fasted and prayed for me(on several occasions)to get closer to my creator? A girl that stood with me when it looked as if I can never become anything in life? A girl who turned working class down, because she had decided to give her heart to a guy who has no bearing? A girl who fed me for several semesters and gave me money on uncountable occasions? A girl who took breathtaking risks for me?

The question is; what will your man remember you for? Just your big breast/sexy boot? Do you know how many girls flaunt them around him? Is it the artificial face(bombarded with pancakes)? Is it different styles in bed that only 500H can give him where he is? Is it sexy voice that even an illiterate can give? Or has your physical beauty/stature or intelligence and family background getting into your head and making you pompous/heady? No sensible man(who are kings in the making) ever give their loyalty and life in to such "chicks". Rather, they give it to ladies who are fashioned after the manner of a palace. Ladies with womb(to take and conceive issues, without spreading it around), ladies with respect and dignity, ladies with inner beauty(that talks with wisdom). The little times we kissed each other, I forced her to do it. Since we started,even while I slept in her room(before I could get another place to stay) we never had sex. I was a bad guy and she knew, yet, she stood with me and insisted I was going to become a vessel in God's hand. To God be the Glory, I have decided completely for JESUS!

Fulaman198:
@fulanigirl, sey munyal! It's always important to have patience as it is a virtue. As someone mentioned earlier, try to hit him up on video calls, smile demonstrate your charm and happiness. Talk in a positive manner. If he starts getting angry for no apparent reason, simply ask him why has his tone of voice changed towards you? No need for 2 people to get upset at one another, be the bigger person. Show that you are a mature lady and ready for marriage. Remember, you are no longer the "fulanigirl", you are now the "fulanilady".

mikolo80:
what do you fight about?

ilawanson44:


Is fulanimafia your boyfriend?

If he is, call him on phone and shout "Sai Buhari" and he'll reply "Sai Baba" till next july!

Afterall buhari na una brother...can you now leave us alone?

Lexusgs430:


Since he moved away a year ago, how often do you see physically?
How often do you communicate on the phone and other communication platforms?
What do you usually fight about?

BackOff:
Fulanigirl

I quite understand your current state.
However, I want to let you know that it is something that can be controlled.

One major reason why you both fight when apart is that one or both of you have trust issues. Believe me it can destroy any relationship (both long distance and close relationships).
If one keeps bringing in comments that tend to question the other's commitment, either the other is guilty or not, they'll find a way of exonerating themselves. It may be by just getting angry or doing some silly stuffs or even putting in some kind of provoking reply, and fight begins.

So what should you do?

1. Do you have defined purpose or goal concerning the relationship? Yes, I know you said you're both planning to get married. But is the purpose for your intended marriage clearly defined?

2. Is he trustworthy? Marriage is a long-term relationship. So you must at least be sure of certain traits in your would-be spouse; one of them is trust.

3. Are you trustworthy too? You can lie to everyone but you cannot lie to yourself.

4. Are you sure you are not the annoying one in the relationship? Check yourself very well to be sure. If you are, quickly make amends; that way, he'll see the changes in you and your relationship would have been saved.
If he's the annoying one, and you're sure the things you did at those times you've fought each other shouldn't have provoked him, then he needs special counseling.

If your purpose is clearly defined, both of you can find a way of trusting one another and fix the issue of asking needless annoying questions, it'll most probably work out for you two.

In long distance relationships, you must completely trust one another irrespective of what outsiders say.
So, stay if you can both trust each other and leave if one or both can't.

Add the things Layla said in the earlier post and you're good to go.


All the best dear.

PS: I'm also in a long distance relationship and this thing works irrespective of what majority might say; but it only works when both parties are committed to it.

All the best dear.

EggovinMma:
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My dear, it's like that.We fight like everyday, on phone, on air and in the sea.But man wey one marry you go marry you, just keep calling, send lovely message and once in a while intentionally make him angry, that shakes him up a little.



Like me, I can just wake up in the morning, and start like this,"so baby last you didn't bother to call me because you went to club, that ya penis wey no reach wetin dem fit add for 50 naira indomie as protein. ....."Fight don start be that.

MrHackmed1:
hmmmm, not always easy but seriously, first thing is trust yourself, then money is needed to sustain it because only best way is constant communication. And meaningful talks not boring talks oh!

Let me share my experience; back in 2013 September



She graduated last year, now serving and We got married last week Saturday and settled in Abuja

MuhdG:

Allah ba da sa'a..

but really upto 2years apart while dating?
tchap! this is serious.. well i suggest he should come visiting to your city and 2-3months in touch, so u two can see if it will work out.. marriage is not something u just do coz u've been dating someone for a long time

layla129:
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going.
1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels.

2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him.

3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider.

4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that.

5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things.
We know each other's schedule for the whole day

6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do
Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions.

These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis

RadicallyBlunt:
Shebi u knw as una dey do am. U go gossipally find one gossip informant as friend mounted around where he stays to dey give u info as he dey flex. Abi no be so?

esejessy:
seriously I wonder y they use DAT ooooo. I can't even allow DAT kindaa rubbish to come out in public. Some girls should try and cover their shame oooo.shuuuuuuu!

hottathanfire:
Hmmmm, this dollar sef na crazy fellow, why e dey make grown ups cry like babies

Well, let me blame Jonathan for conceeding defeat, shebi we for dey live our reckless life dey go, so far say money dey flow, even if na our children and our children children go suffer am.

Then, this cashless economy is a scam if people can still cry cos of dollar scarcity. Seriously people have to start thinking of spending digital money, paypal is available at first bank, use naira to fund your paypal, transfer to your children paypal in the US which can be withdrawn through paypal debit card or from the agent. And there are so many other digital money that can be used. They are just crying silly.

2sex:
ma'am, I can tell you that Ymodulus is a trusted brother and you should give him a try to help you out.

He has given so much to this forum and hekp better people's life in so many ways.

To be candid, his magnanimity is what encourage me to keep helping people even though I was once so discouraged.

Go through his profile and you will see that Ymodulus has a lot to offer you.

PayPalKing:


I understand. Where's your location? You may be able to find someone here who can meet up with you for the transaction.

PayPalKing:
FulaniGirl From what I know, Ymodulus is trusted. But it's okay if you've made up your mind about not wanting anyone to help you.

Ymodulus:

@Mudhg ita, Yar Arewa ne. Dan ma we have to help kenan.


How much do you want to send?

Western union is still working sister. It's only difficult to get.


Please state the following:
- How much you want to send? ( Pounds, amount in pounds only ). £10000
- Where in UK you want to receive? London
- Are you OK if the money is sent through western union from China to United Kingdom? Yes
- Are you OK if someone helps you? Not really, I've had issues with people.