Haaaaa! Can't believe this!

May his soul rest in peace to peace.
May God give those left behind the fortitude to bear this great loss!

Emeka, I don't know why you're asking this question, but I think I'm qualified to answer this very question, even very well, having spent over 14 years in marriage and still counting.


Well, when you sight that person, I mean that special one whom you share special chemistry with, who your instinct tells you he's the one, nothing, I mean nothing, except yourself can stop the inflow of inner communication that will be connecting within your inner minds into being physically connected with each other, regardless of the financial background of either of you, especially, when after you both have been physically connected and everything about you two seems to be on the same page.


When we got married, the issue of bride price wasn't actually a problem because I'm from a family who believes that collecting bride price on your daughter is tantamount to selling her off. But other things like engagement items were not really a problem but somehow a problem. So, we both cut our clothes according to our sizes and dodged so many other things because we couldn't afford it then and the wedding ceremony went itch-free and nobody, including me and my husband owed a penny, we both managed the very little resources at our disposal with my utmost cooperation and we're happy for that. With almost 14 years in marriage, it's like we are still dating, we've being very wonderful friends, confidants and companions to each other. To the glory of God, we're no longer what we used to be, those things we didn't have then, we now have in abundance.

I saw the potential in him, he saw in me as well, and our instincts were right about each other.


My advice to the singles: DO NOT DESPISE HUMBLE BEGINNING. NO ONE KNOWS TOMORROW.

Memories! I can't stop laughing! You people are reminding me of memorable days! Kids are adorable, very inquisitive. very curious and always active, except when they're sleeping. Don't worry, y'all wondering when they'd outgrow these traits, just relax, it's just a phase, they'd soon outgrow the phase. For me now, it's just lovely memories and I pray that every parents will have lovely memories about their kids in Jesus name.

jeff1607:
thank God the law but still it would be difficult for the lady to secure employment

Let's applaud her courage, so many in her shoes have died in silence!

I like this! This will serve as deterrent to other randy lecturers!

Yes! Though, not as much as it was before but some families still find time to give quality home training to their children!

Ignorance everywhere! It's just a tradition please!

The groom was simply trying to remove the wedding garter worn by the bride, it must be removed in the presence of everyone present and with his teeth too.

Congratulations my brother. May the arrival of this cute baby mark a new beginning of beautiful things in your life and family! I rejoice with you!



Regards to your wife and baby!

Your wife to be is from a poor family! Poor, as in poor, and there's no other word/s to qualify the family!


Your father in law is very very stubborn! Again, another derogatory word! Isn't there another word to use to describe this man who's probably old enough to be your father.

The church your fiancée and her parent attends is too local, poor and below standard for a rich and posh man like you! Wow!


Anyway, I wish you and your wife the very best of everything you need to make this marriage successful, including tolerance and patience.

I love his mature response! Now the amebos can rest and mind their own businesses if they have any!

Preca:
Pst. adeboye should just free the guy ...he says annoying things everytime

Please sis, did you read the original post at all? Please do, because it's obvious you didn't. For clarity sake, this is not the pastor Adeboye you thought about.

I knew the previous resignation news was a rumor! Except if she's not a Nigerian! She can't resign, she has Nigeria blood running through her veins.

Too much crime in Nigeria these days!........ so scary!

Woman: I've missed my period.



Man: Feeling tired and stressed from inside, in fact, sweating profusely inside an AC!

Dinalove, i will advise that you think about your decision very thoroughly. if you believe in prayers, pray for wisdom and guidance.



I wish you well!

ifyalways:

You dey fall my hand ma.

Pray tell how the OP knows that she's pregnant and 2 weeks gone? Which pregnancy test detects a 2bweeks old pregnancy in 9ja.

No be every rubbish deserve replies. Some you read, smile or shake head then jump and pass

my sister, I was just wondering and thinking aloud ni o!

"If you want me to stop work you'd provide a place for me to stay till I deliver and if you don't want to stop work I can claim to be a surrogate to questioning people. All you have to do is take care of me for the period till I deliver and three months after and I'll have absolutely no claim to the baby. I can handle that better than abortion the baby.'



You need to shed more light to this!

Dinalove:


He's not picking my calls or replying my messages

He has a child already with an older woman that I was always disturbing him to send money to

You mean the decision to give out the baby is solely yours

What if he comes later to ask for his child, what will you say?

What is your boyfriends stand on this or is the decision jointly taken by both of you?

I need answer ASAP!

Thanks!

I remember your previous thread quite well and how you kept emphasising how sensitive your wife is, hence, your fear of discussing the sensitive matter with her.

Alright, I think personally, I won't blame or judge any of you because I think what you did was right, at least, for a healthy marriage, but I'm afraid of the illness you adopted in addressing the matter which might made her behave the way she did.


Let's start from here, do you want your wife back? If yes, believe me, it's possible. But. let's start from here first.

I honestly do not see any reason for expensive funeral. It's an unnecessary waste of resources!

Congratulations to them!

Using them as a point of contact to those praying for such!

This man is using all the known and understandable languages in the whole world to tell you to go out and look for job, yet, you pretend to be deaf and shamelessly begging your fellow woman endlessly. Aren't you ashamed of yourself and your writeup there.


I'm not sorry for my harsh tone, it's called tough love!

Ytea:
At least you wouldn't have a son, now that's a relieve.

How sure are you?

His dad had him, remember?

What if he already had kids before turning gay, just like his dad?

nelsonebby:


These are the kind of people I won’t mind killing

In what way/ways are they of any threat to you


The best you can do for them is to remember them in your prayers, not wishing to kill them.


Live and let live!

yeyerolling:
would he listen?

you could have tried, at least. So that when the repercussions of that bleaching comes, he'd remember that he's advised to desist from it.

yeyerolling:
a cousin of mine bleached. Very disgusting tin. Stayed in my house for 2 weeks before travelling out. See mixtures of cream. I was shocked

And you didn't advise him before he left?

Looking at it from another angle, putting sentiment apart, this casket is truly beautiful but as beautiful as it seems, it is meaningless to the user, as in, she can't see the beauty, neither can she feel its warmth or comfort. She can feel absolutely nothing about the beautiful casket. It's only we the living that is admiring the product, so, what's really the fuss about this life gan While living, let's all endeavor to make our life and living beautiful to ourselves and others, so that after we leave this life, our beautiful works will remain beautiful in the minds of those we've beautifully impacted forever!

While growing up, we were made to believe that, saying a casket is beautiful is a taboo. Reason being that, naturally, consciously or unconsciously, we humans are attracted to what we believe is beautiful. So, for this reason, I refuse to say that this casket is beautiful!
Lol.........





May her soul rest in peace!

This man's name always remind me of that award-winning movie of all time...... "Coming to America"
Eddie Murphy is undoubtedly a good actor!


10th child Chai!!! Anyway, na dem dey rush him! Dem no dey use eyes see superstar, dem go just dey rush am!

Stallion93:
What do these people actually do in Nigeria?? Wedding abroad, Child delivery Abroad, head ache and nyash aches Abroad, shopping abroad, Chilling Abroad Only Stealing And Making noise Nigeria, The forbidden land.

When they die, they'll be buried in Nigeria. Nigeria be their cemetery..... Yeye people!

milemimi93:


Thank u dear.

You're welcome dear!

We have so many families who don't joke with their families' dignity and good name

There are many FILs who won't collect anything from their SILs, and even if they will collect, they'll make sure they've given you gifts that is ×10 more than what you want to give them.

Some MILs will make sure their visits are never beyond 48 hours just to avoid becoming a burden to their SILs.

There are even some wive's father that won't allow you to pay for their daughter's school fees if it happens the girl got married before graduation, claiming no man should take up their responsibilities.


Some FILs will not even allow the younger sisters/brothers to spend more than three days in their elder sister's matrimonial homes and even as they'd be going, not with empty hands



All these measures because these families, though, not very rich but don't play with their families' dignity and good name.

It now depends on man who's looking for a wife to do his home works thoroughly as regards the type of family to pick a wife from!

If she's a woman you love, set your boundaries before tying the knot, if she disagree, it's left for you to continue or not!

So, again, not all husbands experience this!