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Politics / Re: APC Zones Vice Presidency To South-West, Shops For Nominee by k2039: 2:35pm On Oct 14, 2013
victorv12: I don't understand these our politicians. They said they don't want a Muslim muslim ticket! Our political leaders are very selfish...They love using the tactics of divide and rule to carry out their political ambition. Why must they segregate us by creating more tribal and religious tension all the time! All we need are honest people that are willing to serve... Nigerians don't care if they're Igbos or from one unknown tribe, or the person is worshiping an unknown god. As long the elected candidates can deliver us from our political plunderers and the Nigeria corrupt oligarchs, they're welcomed. I wonder why they're using religion as a yardstick to be elected into the political office. What the party should be doing is to create a platform for Nigerians at home and the ones living outside the country with good leadership qualities that have the fear of Nigerians... not using religion, tribe and regional aspects to select leaders. Majority of our leaders are sensless!! I wonder why the non-incumbent always want to challenge the incumbent by creating segregation all the time...Nigeria won't grow with these kind of useless political parties. The real civilized level minded Nigeria technocrats are sleeping...It's high time for them to wakeup! All these neo-colonial bastard rulers will finish us if we don't fight back!
The honest truth is that most Nigerians are clueless and they will vote based on Ethnicity and Religion.

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NYSC / Re: What Did You Do With Your NYSC kit After POP? by k2039: 1:55pm On Oct 14, 2013
Sicozone:

Na one ASUU strike hopeless nd destabilized final year student i give for my area,just to restore his hopes.
LMAO
Sports / Re: Your Thoughts On The Future Of Goal Line Technology by k2039: 8:28pm On Oct 13, 2013
taiocol: e go spoil the game of soccer. The arguement is wat keep the sport goin
Apparently, this is just a typical example of the 'tragedy of tradition'.

How do you know it will spoil the game of soccer. Have you tried it to come to this conclusion.
Sports / Re: Your Thoughts On The Future Of Goal Line Technology by k2039: 8:27pm On Oct 13, 2013
antifat: Introduce d technology and we will all have a clear mind,assumin' Nigeria was in Ethopia's shoe u all will call for goal line technology
You dey mind the hypocrites and funny enough life is fair, what goes around comes around, it will also happen against Nigeria and ours may be disastrous because the game could be a very important one.

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Sports / Re: Your Thoughts On The Future Of Goal Line Technology by k2039: 8:24pm On Oct 13, 2013
sкчscrαρεr™:
there is ηo poiηt introduciηq qoal liηe techηoloqy, afterall, football decisioηs had been presided over by referees since football was invented. in my opiηioη, qoal errors either from the part of the ref' or the linesman all contribute to the fun of the qame. imaqine havinq to wait for secon∂s or ρerhaps minutes before the referee can decide if a qoal truly crossed the qoal-line. ηow that`s moηotoηoυs¡

-o∂υηaγo™
Point of correction, the goal line technology will be based on sensors, processors, transmitter etc (from my knowledge of physics) and all this will happen within micro seconds.

Just like using your computer/calculator to do some complex mathematics, you receive your answer immediately.

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Sports / Re: Ethiopia Vs Nigeria - WCQ (1 - 2) On 13th October 2013 by k2039: 3:28pm On Oct 13, 2013
Make I go book my flight ticked and also get my visa for Brazil 2014, na so Nigeria qualify.

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Sports / Re: Ethiopia Vs Nigeria - WCQ (1 - 2) On 13th October 2013 by k2039: 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2013
grayh@t:
Enyeama miscalculated grin
Actually you know that akward moment when you intend to cross only for the ball to go into the net.

Everyone thinks the goal scorer was smart but in reality he was just lucky. No be wetin im one do be dat jare.
Sports / Re: Ethiopia Vs Nigeria - WCQ (1 - 2) On 13th October 2013 by k2039: 3:19pm On Oct 13, 2013
kolamilan: in leg don enter now,this eyeama no get experience at all.
His feet can be behind the line, but the ball shouldn't.
Sports / Re: Ethiopia Vs Nigeria - WCQ (1 - 2) On 13th October 2013 by k2039: 2:47pm On Oct 13, 2013
Nigeria is not playing like the champions of the African continent
Sports / Re: Ethiopia Vs Nigeria - WCQ (1 - 2) On 13th October 2013 by k2039: 2:31pm On Oct 13, 2013
CAF is supporting Nigeria o

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Religion / Re: Christians Which Society Do You Belong To In Church? by k2039: 12:54pm On Oct 13, 2013
The Jesuits (Society of Jesus).
Romance / Re: Is Kissing And Romancing Before Marriage 'Fornication' ? by k2039: 10:41am On Oct 13, 2013
Tinkybabe:


Just want to clarify the bolded.A thought occurring isn't a sin, dwelling on the thought is the sin.
Mind you when Jesus Christ was tempted by the devil,he didn't come to him physically.He came in form of a thought but Christ was quick to resist the thought(Satan)
You are absolutely correct.
Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 10:20am On Oct 13, 2013
BlessedFellow: I do not believe on zodaic traits. However, I do believe every individual will find one or more traits to describe him/her in any of the zodaic signs.

For example, a fellow who is Aquarius (Jan 21-Feb 19) exhibits traits of Libra, Leo, Scorpio and the rest.

IMHO, I exhibit traits found in all twelve signs!
Thumbs up. You made maximum sense.
Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 10:06am On Oct 13, 2013
UNLEASHED: As much as I don't believe in Zodiac signs, there's actually some of the traits of my "zodiac sign" that we'll describe my character and personality.
The honest truth is that if you look at every other month, you will realise it still described you.

Check other months and let me know your thoughts.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 9:34am On Oct 13, 2013
Tinkybabe:


Oh really?And this intense research is based on what?
People born in particular months exhibit peculiar traits?
When are these traits formed in a person;calculation from conception through birth or just birthdate?
For instance if a person is delivered later or earlier than their EDD which puts them in a different zodiac month,do they show zodaic attributes of their expected delivery date or their birthdate?

Until you can give a satisfactory explanation,it remains a scientific fiction to me.
Their fiction would have made more sense if you see twins with identical traits, unfortuantely I'm yet to see a set of twins with identical traits.
Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 9:32am On Oct 13, 2013
galantjoe: Signs of zodiac is 90% correct while remaining 10% is influence by other factor. Sometime wrong birthday date contribute to wrong interpretation of the sign. Believe it or not star and cosmo have influence in our live-astrology
I bet all twins should have similar trait, but that's not true of all the twins I know.

So Zodiac is full of crap.
Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 9:30am On Oct 13, 2013
OneOpinion: All these zodiac tin is pure deceit and psyche blackmail.

If it could "guess" ur traits perfectly whu not your name and your mother's.

For each set of people,there are at least 20 traits,how on earth will one not tally with you

Even the ones you dont have b4 u begin to have them or discover them in you after reading

Why so many traits,why cant it be precise enough to sum everything up in one word for each set of people and lets see how correct it will be.....

All listed traits of each set of people are virtually the same thing with little subtraction & addition to each set.....Anyone with good knowledge of synonyms will do this clean job cos left to me they are just playing with words.

Is as simple as someone telling me that as a human being he guess i do eat & breath.......Before nko wat was i meant to be doing as a human being.

They will just pack traits that are inevitable to human race and existence and start calling them different names..

I am even beginning to get annoyed gan sef...
e ko oshi ati iranu lo jorh.



Your head is too correct.

You dey mind all the gullible people who fell for this crap (too much crap at that).
Nairaland / General / Re: Zodiac Traits do they really reflect in your character by k2039: 9:27am On Oct 13, 2013
Fynestboi: Capricorn
dec 23-jan 20

Practical and prudent
Ambitious and disciplined
Patient and careful
Humorous and reserved
Pessimistic and fatalistic
Miserly and grudging
Crap
Religion / Re: Are Churches Really Helping The Poor And Unemployed In Our Society Today? by k2039: 6:50pm On Oct 10, 2013
Matthew 26:11 The poor you will always have with you , but you will not always have me.

If you give the poor people a load of money they' ll still be poor.

Giving money isn't even a way to help the poor if it was then the various charities should have solved the proverty problem ages ago.

Wisdom is the principal thing, but you can't teach wisdom.

I think the church should focus more on educating her members on wealth creation. But at that they can't teach them wisdom.
Politics / Re: Senators Call For Resignation Of Stella Oduah by k2039: 11:10am On Oct 10, 2013
awodman: The woman is not resigning..period...
We have seen someone who has done well in one aspect instead of us to encourage her we look for ways to deride what Sнε has achieved

Just look at the emergency response and how well coordinated it was leading to saving of some lifes because the fire service amidst other response agencies where well equipped..its on record that just due to lack of fire fighting equipment led to the roasting of Loyola jesuit students aboard sosoliso aircraft right inside PH airport premises

MEDIOCRITY
Romance / Re: Is Kissing And Romancing Before Marriage 'Fornication' ? by k2039: 8:15pm On Oct 09, 2013
Anonymous Heart:

It's not whether He said fornication or adultery that is the issue. It is what He said was sin. He said "looking upon a woman to desire her". What that means is simply covetousness - wanting a woman that is not yours for your own pleasure. That is not the same as kissing and "romancing" a woman you are engaged to, for instance.

Chastity is simply refusing to have sex until the marriage covenant has been made. It is not refusing to desire your beloved (that's not even possible) or to express your desire with kisses. The important thing that Jesus was concerned with was being content with your own wife or betrothed, if you will.

We don't need to beat about the bush about this.

What Jesus meant is that as long as the thought already occured you have sin. In essence he is laying emphasis that our thoughts are really what matters on the long run.

Besides, has the girl become your wife that you are so sure you are not coveting another man's wife.

By the way, all pleasures are reserved for marriage and marriage alone, stop twisting scriptures to please yourself.
Car Talk / Re: Driving Rules In Nigeria by k2039: 7:29pm On Oct 09, 2013
Richy.:
lol. I'm just wondering how he's goner watch out for crashing plane from the sky.what is he driving ;wheelbarrow?
He should convert his car to open roof.

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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 6:50pm On Oct 09, 2013
@Op

If there is anything I have realised is that everyone is selfish (depending on the scenario it may be good or bad).

So the only reason why she can't let go is because she doesn't want to lose him out of her selfishness and the guy was selfish enough to do what pleases him without caring about the consequences of his action.

The best way your friend will kill herself is to remain indoors, worst still listen to slow songs (that just makes it faster).

I understand she feels reflecting on the past will make her feel better (the happy times) but that's just an illusion, she is only increasing the depth of her grave, she has to try as much as possible to let go of those though and she can't achieve that by isolating herself from people and remaining indoors.

I realise she is suffering from self love because if she loves herself she will know that her happiness is all that matters to her now and that's totally dependent on her.

The guy doesn't give a fvck, he has moved on and infact he is having fun. That leaves her with one option and that's also to move on.

Actually, the last time I got broken, a friend sent me a voice note. 'TD's jakes letting go'.
As I listened to it, my mind became lighter and I moved on under 48 hours (I'm partly a robot though).

The only reason she is depressed is because she is giving her emotions the right to control her. She is not her emotions, she is something more than her emotions. If she fails to take control of that emotion of hurt, anguish, jealousy (that someone has him now) etc, then that emotion will kill her.

It's perfectly normal that she feels hurt, but it's not normal that she has decided to stay indoors.

The honest truth is just that ten years from today she will look back and thank God this did happen.

Boyfriend has to leave for her husband to arrive and she can't meet her husband by being moody and sobber.

She should not forget she was born without him, there are hundreds of people like him and there are thousands who are better.

This relationship is deadm she shouldn't ressurect it with her thoughts.

Life is too beautiful to worry/cry over what we didn't get or have.

I wonder how she would have felt if it was a divorce, she has every cause to thank God.

Not every relationship will lead to marriage (she has to sink that into her skull) or else she will keep getting heart broken. So in her future relationship(s), she should not put so much of her mind into marriage until she walks with the guy on the aisle (the only reason she is this heartbroken is because her expectations about their relationship was too high-marriage.)

Finally, her happiness is dependent entirely on herself, no guy can make you happy, if you put your happiness on a guy, you have given him the opportunity to control your life.

Everyone is selfish, her ex has pleased himself, she should also please herself by coming out of this better and more prepared for the future.

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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 6:21pm On Oct 09, 2013
mz mariah: I don't no if she involved God.all I no is he shouldn't have led her on knowing he has a fiance. Who knows if he really has a fiance or if he used it to just push her away
There are only three possibilities why the guy broke up with her.

1. He impregnated someone, he didn't have a chance to deny and the girl's family member insisted he married her.

2. She was the side chick, he never loved her, he loved someone else (ex).
He probably met her (Op's friend) after a crisis ensued between his ex and he used her (op's friend) to heal up.
Now the ex is back and that's who he loves.

3. There is something the Op's friend is not telling us, she probably commited a serious offence.
Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 6:11pm On Oct 09, 2013
I'm sorry, like seriously I'm crying, this is the apex of all wickedness.

You have healed up and moved on, that's just the only consolation.

I'm sure the OP's friends own is not as bad as this.

@Op, I suggest your friend reads this post o, that way she will realise hers was better and she will go to church on sunday for thanksgiving.

The good guys cry of hurt from bad girls and the good girls cry of hurt from the bad boy, what a wonderful earth we live in.
Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2013
jadareese: she's lucky hers is jus for 14mnths.in my case it was for 10 wasted yrs.he. convinced me to take an internship outside town unknown to me he was plannin a weddn.accordin to him,he put d whole blame on his parents wantn him to marry his tribe so they arranged one for him.anyway I was in love, young and naive then so didn't read d tell tale signs innitially.bottom line was I crashed badly(fell sick,couldn't study,became reclus...u name it). bt had a reality check when after much attempt to get to me.I finally decided to hear wt he had to say after 3months and all d mugu could come up wt was an offer of marriage away frm home..??!!(as in..hw much of a fool did he take me for??!)..anyway..it was there n then I made up my mind to move on and away..Thank God for great friends who engaged me in fun stuffs I didn't hv time for before...turned to my creative side,did a lot of travellin at d slightest opportunity I got.and it was wyl in soujourn I met my a wonderful man who turned out to be my beloved husband for 3yrs nw... so bottomline...tell ur friend to stop livin her life for someone not deservin of her.she should dust herself up(cos I believed she must cried herself enuf already), put on her party face and start livin HER life for HERSELF!! Build a better relationship wt God and take time to notice d flowers around her and appreciate them
Good points.

What people fail to understand is that your boyfriend has to leave for your husband to come in.

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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2013
Tats:

Good point but resist rushing into another relationship immediately. Sometimes, people do so because they want to show that they can easily find someone else after being heartbroken and then they end up with another person who will break their heart again!
That's if the girl doesn't later realise that she wasn't so into him thereby breaking the guys heart. The cycle continues, you got heart broken, in the process of recuperating you also broke someone else's heart. We keep blaming nature for not being fair, when in fact we are the ones that are not fair.

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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 5:56pm On Oct 09, 2013
Toks2008: You can only heal if you find another person to fill the space and i mean someone worth it else you are bound to continue sulking.
I hope she finds someone like you.
Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 4:53pm On Oct 09, 2013
Ms_Steph: @190 gals who want to date for money don't go after boys they go after men. Anyways I always advice a gal not to date only 1 guy cos men are so unpredictable. Me I have learnt my lessons and love is no longer in my dictionary if am dating a guy nd u start misbehaving I will leave ur sorry a.zz time waits for no1

I assume women are so predictable.

This is another reason why a guy should multi date (girls like you are the reason why men find it hard to love completely) and if they do, we are labelled as the bad one.
Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 4:46pm On Oct 09, 2013
Eyinojuoluwa1: hmmm, hers was very simple, me and my ex dated for close to 2 yrs, we met wen i was abt to finish my youth service, he was still in search of job den, as grace will ve it i got job 8 months after my service. i was responsible for his well being, from January till August, wen he got his job. he started behaving funny, wen i couldnt take it, i asked him wat d issue was, hmmmmm! at first he said he did not noticed any change in his behaviours. just 2 weeks ago, he called me and said "he went to pray abt us and they said we cant be man and wife". i asked him how long he has known, he said its has bin long, but he just couldnt say it.

thank God for my job, i would ve bin totally out of place, but i must be strong.
some guys are very terrible. but i believe good guys still exist and my own will locate me in Gods time.

I'm happy for you.

But if there is one fundamental thing I have reealised in every break up/failed relationship. The party at the receiving end always sees fault/red flags etc with his/her partner but they chose to ignore (for you a change of attitude).

My advice to people in relationship is that as soon as they start to see cracks/faults etc, it's best to start preparing for the worse case scenario (they shouldn't try to patch it), I have realised if you are prepared for a break up, you don't get heartbroken as when you are unprepared.

I'm sure the OP's friend saw the symptoms, but she chose to ignore them and now she got hit by an atomic bomb when the guy broke up with her (if she had prepared for the bomb, she wouldn't be this devastated and pathetic).

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Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 4:37pm On Oct 09, 2013
mz mariah: seriously the guy was very unfair. Relationship is not all about money.when I was with my ex I was doing the spending. Relationship is above money. Understanding matters. I still feel what the guy did is very bad.money or no money and God will jurdge him.she should just try move on although its not easy
That's the point, 'God will judge him', don't bring God into this at all, before the Op's friend dated the guy, did she involve God (I'm sure if she did, God would have told her he wasn't her husband). Now that everything fell apart, God must come in. If God was never involved from the onset, then it's better He isn't involved now.
Romance / Re: How Did You Heal From Your Heartbreak?? by k2039: 4:26pm On Oct 09, 2013
obelisk: Rebounded mercilessly with multiple partners both concurrently and consecutively until the pain left and I got my heart and conscience back. cool
It never occured to you that in the process of rebounding you will be hurting the other person (the person you using to heal up).

How will you feel if a girl use you as her rebound, it's same guys like you that will complain that girls are wicked and heartless.

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