DenreleDave:


You want a maid at a clearance price too

very funny…. No now but mention it

If you are relocating and have a maid that is good also state o… someone might be in need of one

Hello everyone, please I want to evaluate both my BSc and MSc. Do I need different reference or do I fill both?

Also would I be required to pay twice?

TenaciousOrphan:


Mistake 1: Applying to schools that are higher than my profile
Mistake 2: not doing Wes evaluation
Mistake 3: using the wrong sop format
Mistake 4: Using UK English in writing instead of USA English.

Hello can I send a mail

Mzflexydeeva:
Hello house, please I just stumbled on this thread and I have a few questions.

1. Is there a thread for potential graduate students? If yes can someone share the link.

2. I will like to do WES evaluation and need some insight from those who have evaluated their credentials.

Thanks in advance

Help anyone

Hello house, please I just stumbled on this thread and I have a few questions.

1. Is there a thread for potential graduate students? If yes can someone share the link.

2. I will like to do WES evaluation and need some insight from those who have evaluated their credentials.

Thanks in advance

Ireportlive:
I still don't get why people don't prefer living in Ibadan and working or doing business in Lagos

There is absolutely no Facility and infrastructure that Lagos has that Ibadan lack

To live at Ibadan and work in Lagos is stressful. Imagine those living in Lagos complaining. You now want to add coming from lbadan

Twitter users lament various degrees of their experience in Lagos traffic.

If you have ever lived and worked in Lagos, you would agree that Lagos and traffic are 5 & 6.

Why does it seem like Lagos traffic can never end?

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.

I think you should open up to her parents and yours.

One thing to understand is when you married her both parents sat and became a part of the story.

Call her, sit her down and tell her if she wants to dissolve the marriage you want to inform your parents and her pastor. If she agrees know the marriage may have no redemption if she refuses, then go straight to the parents and spill it all. Emotional abuse is a real thing. Do not loose yourself trying to portray a perfect home.

ravensckar:
Mr. OP, first of all, I sympathize with you on what you're going through in your marriage. May the Almighty God take absolute control.

Secondly, what you mentioned that your wife is doing to you is typical of most Nigerian women. Withholding sex, not cooking or showing you attention. It's their oldest control mechanism to keep their man in check. It's just that your wife took hers too far. Funny enough, there's not a single man in Nigeria whose wife didn't use these tactics on him, the smart ones always turn the tables and the weak ones always succumb. Kindly spend more time with your dad (if he's still around) or some of your guys who are married let them give you the OT.

My advice for you is simple; find your wife's thumbscrew and use it to counter attack (turn the table). I'll tell you a short story, hopefully, you can learn a thing or two from it. My wife for example, when she started her own 'kolomental' back then. She won't cook, she won't clean the house, she won't give her best during sex. It's always one complain or another. The most painful part of it was the food, every other thing I can bear. I sat her down and spoke to her, nothing changed. I sometimes don't eat at home just to express my displeasure. She didn't bulge, rather, she mocked me and told me that I'll die of hunger.
I reported to her parents, nothing changed.

Then, I spoke to my dad about it and he gave me the OT. I started chatting and receiving calls from one particular number. I began to spend quality time outside my house, she still didn't bulge. I took it to another level by subtly making her friends and family members become aware of my new lifestyle. Fear catch Hanty and she quickly surrendered. It was that moment I found her thumbscrew; my wife is very particular about other people's perception of her marriage. She hates to give others the impression that her marriage is going through something. She's that type of lady who doesn't want her friends, family or even the neighbours to ever think that her husband doesn't love her dearly. That was it, I found her thumbscrew and the dick measuring contest was won by me!

Since then, I now know what drives her, what motivates her and what unsettles her. For example, if I want her to knack very well. I'll stop over at her shop on my way back from work, buy her chop chop and we'll both be eating it outside. Gist with her outside, help her sell her stuff and be doing touch & do. You can be sure that night ehn, she will finish me on the bed. And in the same way, if she offends me and I want to treat her Bleep up, I'll just stop over at her shop with a frown on my face or attitude. Instantly, Hanty will start to dey beg.

In summary, every woman has a thumbscrew. Your job as a man is to figure out your wife's thumbscrew and use it to the fullest. If you do that, you'll change the dynamics. And in seduction, he who has the initiative has the power. You need to take that initiative!

PS- marriage, business, sports, & politics are ARTS. To succeed at it, one must learn the intricacies.

This is the best advice…. Look for her mumu button.

Happy independence people. Relatively new here. Do not even know where to start so please I pointers in the right direction.

Interested in MSc or PhD cellular and molecular biology, nutrition or biochemistry.

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acedsportsng:
Please, has the exam date been announced yet?

Please I need help. I keep getting this error.





To protect the security of your account your request can't be processed at this time.


Please what can I do?

egojeny1:
Pls is the sale of form still on?

Yes

Timekeeper452:
means Speedaf now has a reliable outlet in your location, no more NIPOST wahala. Unregistered items don’t necessarily go to NIPOST, Speedaf only does NIPOST, if they don’t have an office close to your location. Your package ending with E, is a self pickup package though, you’ll go pick it yourself from their office.

I do not think so. I think they have a way of deciding cuz the last time I asked a Speedaf rep I was told the seller determines how you get it. I have got items bought the same day some Speedaf others nipost

Timekeeper452:
nipost. AliExpress standard shipping and Cainiao Super Economy Global, are both Speedaf. Any other thing outside these two is nipost.

Chai! So there’s a high probability I won’t get these items be that…

Good morning, please I need help understanding this AliExpress shipping. How do I ensure my items come only through Speedaf? Lately I have not received any item sent via local post office but never missed a Speedaf delivery.
Also, please for items sent via sunyou special economic how do I know where to pick up

Tracking no like this where does it go? SYAET16411460

egojeny1:
Is JAMB required for school of nursing?

Yes it is now. You have to prove you wrote jamb

Applications are invited from suitably qualified candidates for admission into the Lagos University Teaching Hospital, for the Basic Nursing/Midwifery programme for the 2022/2023 academic session.

Do you know anyone who is a science student, has 5 credit including maths and English, didn’t get up to 200 in jamb and is interested in becoming a certified nurse?

Kindly note that the application is currently online, the school will never ask you to pay into any individual account. Always make sure you see you you are transacting with face to face before any exchange of money.

Can’t believe I just came across this. Please I am a complete novice o. Need help getting jobs that offer COS. Healthcare jobs

Née here, don’t know where to even start from. Interested in studying in the US. Helpful pointers please

fatee2000:

You can do it yourself, no need for agents. Read through this thread, it has every information you need.

Thank you. For this thread, don’t even know where to start as it seems a lot of thread have closed on this same topic

fatee2000:

Search through this thread, a list of schools have been provided.

Okay. Thank you. Can anyone help with application process

Please any recommendations regarding fixing my redmi note 7 pro

Good afternoon, please I am new here. Is it possible to do a masters on the UK with HND and who knows univerties that accept HND?

Hello house please I would like to take the GRE and don’t know where to start

Please I use a redmi note 7 pro. Although I know it’s practically out of the market I need to fix it. Front and back screen broken. Only works when connected

Please I need like 10 movie recommendation I can watch oooo. I have no idea.



If you are like me looking to see good movies watch:
Jexi
Knives out
The tomorrow war
Late night
Red notice
Enternals
Magnificent
House of Gucci
Edge of tomorrow

lekbel09:
Sold

Ok

In other news, did you guys hear the reverend father has been reinstated?

lekbel09:
I have one here , that's just 2days used , hmu if you are interested

How much