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Abuseay (m)
Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« on: July 31, 2008, 11:32 AM »

hehe! all me friends have refused to marry the Nigerian girl abroad,they say they are going home to marry , whats happening with the Nigerian girl abroad? whats wrong with her oooo, What a Pity, !!!
Duduknight (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #1 on: July 31, 2008, 11:37 AM »

what are you talking about?
Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #2 on: July 31, 2008, 11:41 AM »

what am talking about , is , 'most of the guys i have met here says they will never marry a nigerian girl that has stayed here for a long time, they are going home to marry' i dnt seem to undersstand why all of them have the same notion, hope u get me now, if not , it is well oooo, lol!!
jkpretty (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #3 on: July 31, 2008, 11:42 AM »

Better hold your head tight, they are all coming here soon to pounce on u!
Gamine (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #4 on: July 31, 2008, 11:50 AM »

Who is a Nigeruan girl??

abeg which species be this Undecided Undecided
Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #5 on: July 31, 2008, 11:52 AM »

Abeg my head i held tight , the thing no fit break make them come tell us wetyn wrong wwith them why the guys need to go all the way to muriitala to go find a babe when they all planty for here, am really serious.
lidbb2 (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #6 on: July 31, 2008, 01:22 PM »

@ poster

there is this generalization that nigerian girls abroad are loose,have lost morals,etc;and that is why most men prefer the home-based girls.
from my observation,i think that notion is not entirely true.
sure there are several immoral girls out there,but there are also some very good girls;even better than the homebased ladies.
i think because these man have been with several loose naija girls here,they think all foreign based naija girls must be like that.
there are cases of men marrying foreign-based naija girls and having very happy lives,and there are cases of men going to marry home-based girls and they regret it bitterly.
just as there are loose foreign-based girls,there are rotten home-based girls.
personally i would not mind a foreign-based naija lady as long as she is a good girl and has morals,even if she has been abroad all her life.
i strongly beleive that there are really good naija girls abroad.
they are just not easy to find;-probably cos they are quiet and not as loose as the immoral ones.

Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #7 on: July 31, 2008, 01:28 PM »

Bless u man for the comment, 9/10, cheers,
izeek (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #8 on: July 31, 2008, 02:59 PM »

@post
the naija girlzabroad don tear eye as we will say in local parlance,
but the truth is that these guys abroad see what our girlz over there have reduced themselves to just to make money.

more so them don worse pass white women in the sense that they believe in thier independence soo much that any little mistake wey a normal naija woman will condone they will place a divorce tag on it.
Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #9 on: July 31, 2008, 03:07 PM »

hahha izeek .i think u said it right, 'independence' divorce, well maybe its true or not , lets wait for the rest to express themselves, thanx for your time.
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #10 on: July 31, 2008, 03:11 PM »

@ topic

not marryin a nigerian gurl?!!!!

. . . . . thier choice innit? Undecided
Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #11 on: July 31, 2008, 03:48 PM »

Moyola what is Innit in this matter???lol clarify,
$$Rhino
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #12 on: July 31, 2008, 03:55 PM »

cos we only have nigerian babes and not "nigeruan" babes
Abuseay (m)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #13 on: July 31, 2008, 04:04 PM »

hahahah rhino na u sabi, lol
Moyola (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #14 on: July 31, 2008, 04:18 PM »

Quote from: Abuseay on July 31, 2008, 03:48 PM
Moyola what is Innit in this matter???lol clarify,

drz noin dr 2 clarify!

juzz sayin iz thier choice dey can marry a whoeva they so please!!!

nigerian or not!!  Tongue
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #15 on: July 31, 2008, 04:35 PM »

Who cares? Grin
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #16 on: July 31, 2008, 04:49 PM »


HUMAN BEINGS SHOULD BE FREE TO MARRY WHOEVER THEY WANT.

WHITE
BLACK
INDIAN
SOUTH AFRICAN
CANADIAN, 
blah, blah, blah.
rokiatu (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #17 on: July 31, 2008, 04:49 PM »

Quote from: stillwater on July 31, 2008, 04:35 PM
Who cares? Grin
lol Cheesy
$$Rhino
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #18 on: July 31, 2008, 04:51 PM »

And with all the toning creams, hard to know nija babes from white sef
with all the dead man hair, and extension, now we dont know african hard heair anymore, so where are "nigeruan" ladies now?
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #19 on: July 31, 2008, 04:55 PM »

@ lidbb2  Make you tell them jare, like some girls in Naija don't engage in illicit behaviors like pornography.

Such nonsense. BUT @ POSTER, I think that u're right to an extent, I remember I met this guy and we knew we both liked each other but then after a while thinking that something would work out, he says "oh, I'd rather be with a REAL Nigerian woman" I was like, what does that mean?  he was like someone raised and bred in naija. I'm like yea, I was RAISED and Bred in Naija, and then he's like, but you've been abroad a bit too long, you don't fit my criteria.

In essence, I think that men who think like this, are INITIMATED. Majority (note I didn't say all) of Nigerian women abroad are hardworking and educated. If you don't live up to your responsibilities as a MAN, they freedom they have expereince will make them kick you to the CURB immediately. No lele.
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #20 on: July 31, 2008, 04:56 PM »


@ $$Rhino I agree,  Naija babes (abroad and in naija)  wear too much WIGS AND WEAVES,  ITS JUST TOO MUCH ITS DISGUSTING.   
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #21 on: July 31, 2008, 04:57 PM »

Oka i have lived aboard my whole entire life and have yet to have worn a weave.
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #22 on: July 31, 2008, 04:57 PM »

I went to an Ayefele concert not too long ago, NO WOMAN had thier real hair on thier head. It was disgusting.

hahahahahahahaha.

I wear dreads so no troubles.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

I'm proud of my kinky, black, natural hair. It works will in bed.  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #23 on: July 31, 2008, 04:58 PM »

@ onyinye2

Trust me, you are an exception.
HCH3COO
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #24 on: July 31, 2008, 04:59 PM »

Quote from: onyinye2 on July 31, 2008, 04:57 PM
Oka i have lived aboard my whole entire life and have yet to have worn a weave.
sigh! you don't meet the criteria then.


madamkoko, what are you on about?  Are you implying that Nigerians men abroad are intimidated by y'all?
$$Rhino
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #25 on: July 31, 2008, 05:02 PM »

Sometimes, hard to even differentiate btw nija babes and jamo babes
rubi (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #26 on: July 31, 2008, 05:03 PM »

Most men are intimidated by Nigerian girls here in abroad and have this impression that they are spoil. They also believe that the ones in Nigeria are very very innocent and decent which are all lies
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #27 on: July 31, 2008, 05:04 PM »

Quote from: $$Rhino on July 31, 2008, 05:02 PM
Sometimes, hard to even differentiate between nija babes and jamo babes
Gini?? Jamo??

Quote from: madamkoko on July 31, 2008, 04:57 PM
I went to an Ayefele concert not too long ago, NO WOMAN had their real hair on their head. It was disgusting.

hahahahahahahaha.

I wear dreads so no troubles.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

I'm proud of my kinky, black, natural hair. It works will in bed.  Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Im proud of my hair to but, kinky. . . well that i can't have. Im sorry but i like my hair nice and permed.
onyinye2 (f)
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #28 on: July 31, 2008, 05:05 PM »

Quote from: rubi on July 31, 2008, 05:03 PM
Most men are intimidated by Nigerian girls here in abroad and have this impression that they are spoil. They also believe that the ones in Nigeria are very very innocent and decent which are all lies
Are you my long lost twin?? you took the words right out of my mouth.
$$Rhino
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #29 on: July 31, 2008, 05:06 PM »

jamo = jamaican babes

Cos lots of our babes wanna be like then, meanwhile most jamo boys would do anything to marry a nija babe.
Anyhow, nothing like a nigerian woman with nice onion ass
HCH3COO
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #30 on: July 31, 2008, 05:06 PM »

Quote from: rubi on July 31, 2008, 05:03 PM
Most men are intimidated by Nigerian girls here in abroad
Why  Huh  What have you observed  Undecided
madamkoko
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad?
« #31 on: July 31, 2008, 05:07 PM »

Quote
madamkoko, what are you on about?  Are you implying that Nigerians men abroad are intimidated by y'all?


No i'm saying that Men who think similar to those referred in the post are intimidated. Why would should a human being say, I'm not dating this person because they've been abroad for more than 5 years,  it is someone's fault that they came abroad for thier education. I don't know. (examining Nigeria's bad educational structure)

How come its ok for the Men to be abroad and not the women? such nonsense

Point being: as long as you keep your values and acknowledge the importance of your culture. Being abroad and or not being abroad doesn't make you more or less Nigerian.
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