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mi2009 (f)
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Most of my friends say that nigerian men are possessive. Is this true and
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FL Gators!
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Are Nigerian Women more possessive?
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mi2009 (f)
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I don't know because I am american woman.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Are you just knowing?  . . .Majority of them are. . .without even knowing they are. . .then they would say they do not like a woman who controls them or who is to posssessive. . . |
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mi2009 (f)
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I know nothing about the culture and if they are, why?
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OgidiBoy (m)
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Yeah right, like Nigerian men are more possessive than men form the middle east  |
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mi2009 (f)
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America is not the middle East. I am more concern about the men in America. I told my friends that I was talking to a man from Nigeria. They started telling me that they are possessive and right now I am just trying to learn the culture. I have asked him questions about his culture and he just replied the Nigerian men follow the bible. Men were allowed to do a lot of things in the bible, so right now I am just asking questions.
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OgidiBoy (m)
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America is not the middle East. I am more concern about the men in America. I told my friends that I was talking to a man from Nigeria. They started telling me that they are possessive and right now I am just trying to learn the culture. I have asked him questions about his culture and he just replied the Nigerian men follow the bible. Men were allowed to do a lot of things in the bible, so right now I am just asking questions.
Good luck |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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yea right. . .I second that good luck!
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mi2009 (f)
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I don't need luck. I need answers.  |
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OgidiBoy (m)
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yea right. . .I second that good luck!
Is that in a good or bad way ? because I sure you know there are some very nice, good looking Nigerian dudes out there. *me*  |
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Is that in a good or bad way ? because I sure you know there are some very nice, good looking Nigerian dudes out there. *me* lol. . .of course its in a bad way. . the dude told her "nigerian men follow the bible" now wat sort of response would that be. . . Now are you also trying to do some sort of self promotion? |
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~Sissy~ (f)
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possessiveness doesn't settle with a particular kind of group. just like some nigerian men are possessive like other men from other countries are, some aren't. it is an individual thing.
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OgidiBoy (m)
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lol. . .of course its in a bad way. . the dude told her "nigerian men follow the bible" now wat sort of response would that be. . . Now are you also trying to do some sort of self promotion? Is following the bible a bad thing my princess  I can't help it. I'll stalk you all over this forum. You in for a surprise my princess  |
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mi2009 (f)
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In a bad way. The guy I am seeing is nice looking. I am going to get to know him regardless of my friends, but it would be nice to know about the culture from someone who is Negerian and not have to read about the culture. I am very open minded regarding this relationship. It's very new. He has been in America for some years and I believe he knows our culture, but since I have never dated a man from Africa. I do not know his culture.
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FL Gators!
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Stick to the topic. . . .Mr. am-so-cool-b'cuz-I-got-so-many-princesses |
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mi2009 (f)
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In ever culture, you can find men that are possessive. But in some culture, you might find a common traits. Example: Asian women are more submissive the most women, not saying that they all are. Just a large number of them. Due to their culture.
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mi2009 (f)
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Last comment was addressed to Sissy.
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Lax75 (m)
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@ poster
I dated this AA chick once who threw it in my face all the time about how African men (not just nigerians cos they count us all the same) are very possessive and all. Well it turns out that when we dated, she found out that I was far from that and ended up complaining that I could "take her or leave her" because I wasn't a possessive drama king like her thugged out AA ex-boyfriend. She on the other hand happened to be the possessive one always threatening to beat up any chick that talked to me.
Well that's why she's an ex because I don't do drama.
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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Is following the bible a bad thing my princess I can't help it. I'll stalk you all over this forum. You in for a surprise my princess Concentrate Mr , you must have so many eyes. . .haba. . .how many you one chase at a time!!! |
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SeanT21 (f)
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There are millions of Nigerian men out there. They cant all be!!
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sista-jay (f)
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My man takes top prize for possessiveness oh, no man dey allowed to sniff near me. Fone calls o, internet/emails, my whereabout im go monitor!!
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bluespice (f)
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some r, some arent
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untainted
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some r, some arent
yeah, just like all citizens of the world |
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dae (f)
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They are if you give them the chance to. You be a hardass and they not gonna try no $hiet with you! simple as ABC
Not just naija men, Men in general, and hey! some women could be posessive too.
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popegirl (f)
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Very possessive , and when you do the same to them it will turn to “you are not giving me breathing space”
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sistawoman
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They simply dont want anyone to eat thier meat. But arnt most men like that?
When getting into a r/s with a Nigerian man one should be fully committed and not half ass it.
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ibkaye
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@topic
Downright.
Most Some anyway.
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SisterKeri
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I think men in general, irrespective of their nationality, CAN BE possessive.
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