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Family / Re: Pls Help My Husband Is Addicted by obowunmi(m): 12:45pm On Sep 18
What I've learned is that most men DO NOT marry women that they like.

You can cope with your husband is why he married you.

Let him enjoy himself. Be like Hilary Clinton. STFU.
Romance / Re: Prophesy, Prophesy, Prophesy, Drop A Comment And I Will Give You A Prophesy. by obowunmi(m): 12:20pm On Sep 18
I am getting married this year.
Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 4:52am On Sep 18
VajanahDischaj:
truly! you are from the west!! LOL!!!

West of where ??
Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 5:12pm On Sep 17
Empiree:
"Sheik" Oluwa Seun. You be Alfa now?. Ohh you now believe in soul?. Thought you dont believe in all that undecided

And you advised him to REPENT?. That's strange of you though. Repent to who?.

Anyways, you wrote sensibly though

I don't know. Repent to who?

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Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 5:10pm On Sep 17
Seun:

Dreams are not real. When you wake up, you should just forget about them. To call someone a witch on the basis of a dream is very silly.


They keep asking for money because they know that a 'fool' and his money are easily parted: the fear of dreams is a sign of 'foolishness'.


Dreams are not real. What happened in your dream is a result of your hatred for the poor woman. Search your soul and repent of your hatred.


The following women never married or bore children: Oprah Winfrey, Paris Hilton, Bimbo Akintola, Rita Dominic. Are they witches too? It is very wicked of you to try to compound the problems of a woman dealing with the stigma of singlehood by calling her a witch. Shame on you, sir.

Seun sounds very American. undecided undecided undecided

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Family / Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by obowunmi(m): 9:50am On Sep 13
The thing about abuse is that it doesn't stop until the abuser gets psychiatric help.

Will you wait until your wife stabs you before you get it?


These things will only escalate.
Family / Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by obowunmi(m): 9:15am On Sep 13
nameerfhtennek:
It's more than 20minutes, I'm still unable to put words together to begin this story. I will try keep it simple and necessarily detailed so everyone will understand the true picture of what happened, why against my belief that writing personal experiences on social media is immature, I had to still write mine. Let's just say I'm not thinking right now, maybe I'm so upset but truth is, I need your advice.

I'm writing this thread seated at the back of a Hilux truck just outside our apartment. Yaa, that me in the picture. You see, today is EID and believe me I should be resting in the house since I'm not working today. Days like this only come by 6times in a whole year and more than anything, I would have loved resting than being out here.

It was yesterday evening, she called and said she her driver were headed to my office. She wanted to pick some stuffs around my office. Yaa, I forgot to say this is Saudi Arabia. If you know Saudi quite well, you will agree with me that a husband will definitely get exhausted running errands for his wife or the family. I was not in the mood for shopping but she wanted to shop. She got upset that I didn't want to accompany her shopping.

She did her shopping alone and returned few minutes before I closed from work. We headed home. Unknown to me, I forgot my internet router in my office because I was rushing to get home and continue with my FIFA 16.
Her internet service expired some days back so we were using mine.

While playing game, she walked into the seating room and demanded for my router. Mine, not hers. With her tone and facial expression demanding the router, I didn't respond because there was an indication that she was warming up for a quarrel. I wasn't just in the mood. The thing is, she is very skilled in extending her anger phases. That is one thing I can't understand till today. Believe me, it was not like this while we were dating. Sorry, I forgot to tell you I married my university girlfriend, she years my junior and the same department. Ya, I'm one of those guys that dated and planned for the future with their girls at the same time. God blessed that plan but at this point I don't understand everything that has been happening for the past one year plus since we got married. She repeatedly demanded that I handed over my router to her but I was quiet. Meanwhile, it occurred to me that I forgot the router in my office the minute she first asked about it. Truth is, I actually needed to use the internet that night for my online FIFA.

After several times of asking for the router and no response from me, she took the TV remote and switched off the TV. She walked straight to the kitchen and hid the remote. I approached her in the kitchen and told her I was not ready for any kinda quarrel. We have had enough for the past one year of getting married. I then told her I forgot the router in my office, I didn't have it. I guess she didn't believe me, she never did. She told me to leave her alone. I returned back to the seating room with my heart beating fast. I knew she wanted a serious quarrel that night. After some minutes, I returned to the kitchen and requested for the remote. Then I figured out she hid it in her pant. Pretending I was passing by, I swiftly went for the remote from under her short gown and grabbed it. She didn't expect I knew where she hid it. She followed me behind and ceased the game console, second indication she wanted me to react. I do have a problem with my temper just like every human, male or female. I have also learnt to deal with it by walking away at times I feel I was going to lose it. The same reason I'm outside at this time, 9:55 pm Saudi time. She knows I have fought hard to tame my temper issues but most times, she makes deliberate efforts to have me overreact to her nags and rants.

I watched her hide the console in her pant yet again. I shuddered in obvious fear because I knew what the woman wanted, a fight. Unable to deal with it,the intimidation and the shame, I went for the console and squeezed it out from her hand while she was trying to hold it tight. That was when the trouble then started. She wanted a buffer to help her spill everything she had nursed in her mind. "You are a violent person!! You can kill, idiot!! You were not shown love by your parents, that is why you will squeeze your wife's hand to collect the console. They allowed you to grow up in the street without parental guidance and love." Then it came....pwaaaaaaah!!! She spat on my face!!!!! God knows, I have never been spat at before, not by my parents, not by my siblings, not by anybody. " I agree I was not shown love by my parents but your Dad is a coward for running away from your mother without being there for you guys when he needed to play his roles as a father. That explains the reason you are like this", I said and walked back to the seating room.

I managed to play a few games which I lost mostly and then slept off around past 5am this morning. Around 3pm, I woke up and went to the office. Not like I had work but I needed to clear my head away from the house. If only there was alcohol in Saudi, I would have been somewhere in a hotel drinking away the shame. When I returned home by past 7pm, hungry and tired. I needed to continue my game but I could no longer find the game console and the TV remote. I asked for it and she ignored me. I managed to eat and then left the house to this truck.

You see, I love my wife more than anything, more than anyone. She is one person in the whole world I could go any length for. I love her, that was why I forgave her when she broke up with me after I left Nigeria for Saudi Arabia. She broke up with me few months after I came to Saudi and started dating another guy twice her age. She says she never expected I would come back to her after she left me but I did. I did because I saw a future with her, a future I imagined, believed in and worked towards its reality. Today we have gotten to a level where most people out there would want to be, our colleagues envy is because they believe we are privileged and blessed but what they don't know is that in the truth, I have no peace. This marriage has become my legacy and my curse.

I want to send her back to Nigeria in few days time and I hope I'm not making a mistake!!! Spitting on my face, nah nah....am so fed up!!!!


OP.

You belittled yourself as a human being and as a man when you opted to settle down for a woman who once left you for a man twice her age.

Truth of the matter is that you are sitting here assuming it is love but this woman does not respect or love you one kobo.

Spitting on someone is the utmost sign of disdain and disrespect. Your so-called wife does not love or respect to you.

Go and find someone else who does and stop being disillusioned.
Family / Re: My Wife Spat On My Face This Morning, What Should I Do? by obowunmi(m): 9:14am On Sep 13
OP.

You belittled yourself as a human being and as a man when you opted to settle down for a woman who once left you for a man twice her age.

Truth of the matter is that you are sitting here assuming it is love but this woman does not respect you one kobo.

Spitting on someone is the utmost sign of disdain and disrespect. Your so-called wife does not love or respect to you.
Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 8:47pm On Sep 11
CoolUsername:
There's a good chance that his aunt handled him as a baby a few times. But nah, she waited till you were old enough to tell others about your dreams before trying to kill you.

She almost killed me as a baby.
Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 5:25pm On Sep 11
mrZENographer:


It's true prayer houses have cause havoc among believers, but it should be expected it was prophesied that many false prophets will arise and deceive many. But don't give up because of your bad experience. Come to THE LORD'S CHOSEN CHARISMATIC REVIVAL MOVEMENT CHURCH@Ijesha Bustop Oshodi Expressway. It's definitely your last Bustop. You will be prayed for and no money will be required of you. But you will see results.

So come.

Are you a babalawo service?

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Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 11:22am On Sep 11
dblackninja:
cheesy cheesy
Bring the holy cain!!! This man needs to be delivered from delusion.
Witch ke...Winch ni grin

angry angry angry angry
Religion / Re: My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 8:27am On Sep 11
donnffd:


So because your aunty appeared to you in a dream, that automatically means she is a witch?...smh

Dreams are not evidence for witches, thats archaic and backward and i really hope you snap out of that mentality.

Of course..

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Religion / My Father's Sister Is A WITCH by obowunmi(m): 7:48am On Sep 11
She appeared to me in a dream and threatened to kill me.

It is not her first time.

I was close to several Pastors for prayers but they keep asking me for money. So I stopped calling them.

She won't stop threating my life.

This is a woman who never married or bore children. She has given her womb to the witches society.

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Religion / Re: What Are Truly The Signs Of A Genuine Christian? by obowunmi(m): 7:41am On Sep 11
Most Christians are bipolar.

Real Christians are consistent in their behavior. They are usually kind and patient people.

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Food / Re: See The Little Bushmeat A Friend And I Killed This Morning (Pics) by obowunmi(m): 11:45am On Aug 19
This is a rat and not bush meat.

When did Nigerians start eating rats? angry angry angry angry undecided undecided undecided undecided
Foreign Affairs / Re: Ugandan NTV Disowns Staff Having Sex In The Office "They Are Not Our Staff" by obowunmi(m): 1:21am On Aug 17
If she has Herpes or HPV, he is now infected.
Politics / Re: Hidden truth about Igbo by obowunmi(m): 12:22am On Aug 17
SONofYORUBA:
Yoruba


Founder of awpnetwork.com

Mary Olushoga is founder of awpnetwork.com, a platform powering small business success for African entrepreneurs. She is a 2015 Vital Voices Global Leadership Fellow, the first-ever GOOD Maker/Oxfam America International Women’s Day Challenge Winner, a Nigeria Leadership Initiative (NLI) Associate, and an Oxfam America Sisters on the Planet Ambassador.

Olushoga received a bachelor’s degree from Union College in Schenectady, New York and a Master of Science degree from Baruch College. She has served as a Public Policy Fellow at the University at Albany, Center for Women in Government and Civil Society and participated in the Sub-Saharan African Women In Public Service Fall Institute. Olushoga has featured on BBC World News, Black Enterprise, iwantherjob.com, AFK Insider, Applause Africa, BET Networks, and has presented her work on women entrepreneurs at the Columbia University Africa Economic Forum, the United States Department of Labor Strategy Meeting on Inclusion, Entrepreneurship, and Disability, W!se Institute, the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women, the United Nations ECOSOC Youth Employment Forum, and the Rockefeller.


na was ooo shocked shocked
Romance / Re: Ladies Will You Rather Date Or Marry This Guy? by obowunmi(m): 12:05am On Aug 17
jephito:
This man is single, searching and hoping to get married next year but he doesn't have an apartment yet.

He is 31 years old, presentable, a Christian, AS genotype, educated and owns landed property.

He hails from Delta state but working as a teacher of n Lagos. He has vision vision and full of untapped potentials.

Can ladies see beyond the present status and hook this man up?

Why not ?! Loads of good single women in Naija. Look well and go shopping.
Celebrities / Re: How A Couple In My Church Offered Me N3m 2 Have Party Sex:Nigerian Lady Narrates by obowunmi(m): 12:03am On Aug 17
Do it.

Opportunity comes but once.
Romance / Re: Four Signs She Has Had S*x With Lots Of Men by obowunmi(m): 11:54pm On Aug 16
STD/STI nko?
Romance / Re: Should I Or Should I Not Fork Her? Honest Response Needed by obowunmi(m): 7:04pm On Aug 14
Dont.

STD and STI are real.

Condoms are not enough.

Abstinence is key. Refrain from sex.
Health / Re: I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 12:55pm On Aug 13
Pls stop fighting... angry angry angry angry angry angry angry

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Education / Re: UNIOSUN Lecturer Sex Scandal: "Nothing Is Going To Change My Love For You" -Wife by obowunmi(m): 7:51am On Aug 13
STI/STD sharing couple.

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Health / Re: I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 1:16pm On Aug 12
Why are you people fighting on my thread? angry angry angry angry

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Health / Re: Facts About The HPV VIRUS by obowunmi(m): 4:28am On Aug 12
The issue for doctors is that there are many strains of the HPV virus.

Over 14 strains and counting. Doctors are yet to find a cure.
Health / Re: I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 4:13am On Aug 12
It is clear that most people don't know much about HPV.

I really wish I remained a virgin but it has been tough finding a partner. I am specifically looking for a wife and most women are just into the cash.

HPV is spread with or without a condom. Indeed, abstinence is key.

Reason is that if the scrotum gets in contact with the genital area of the woman, she gets the virus. Condoms do not cover the scrotum.

There are two (2) types of HPV strains. The first is HPV-1 and HPV-2

Both strains are cancerous and only spread through vaginal, anal and MouthAction.

This is the same virus responsible for throat cancer for men who love MouthAction.

With HPV-1, you can be High risk or low risk. If you are diagnosed high-risk, you spread this disease and if a woman could get cervical cancer.

With HPV-2, its more severe where by you have breakouts or permanent warts in the genital area.

The HPV-2 strain is also responsible for whitlow. For Nigerians who have whitlow, there is a high probability you have an STI/STD.

I never thought this would happen to me but you live and learn.

If I got married earlier, I think I'd be fine. angry angry angry angry angry angry

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Health / Re: I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 1:05pm On Aug 11
Wow....

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Health / Re: I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 1:25am On Aug 11
SirAweezy:
It means... you have collected you own Olympic Gold medal in Sex.
However you now have to be training in these cities... cancer might give invitation, genital warts might be wishing to see you.

It's not your portion... dont worry it will go on its own. Relax and slowdown... because your next medal might be Gold in HIV

You're wicked. Very wicked. grin undecided undecided

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Health / I Was Recently Diagnosed With The HPV Virus by obowunmi(m): 10:54pm On Aug 10
HELLO,

Someone just infected me with the HPV virus.

Booty call is not really free after all.

Doctors in their house, what does this mean for me as a man?

cry cry cry cry cry cry

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Family / Re: How Do I Forgive, So I Can Get Married? by obowunmi(m): 8:02am On Aug 08
RoyalRoy:
Oh really? Obowunmi, you were so serious about looking for a wife back in the days? Interesting!!!

Didn't think u were serious about not getting a woman who can stay the long hull with you.

As your therapist has said, you will need to change your perception about your parents.
You need to let go all the hurt and bad memories.

Choose to start a new life for yourself devoid of their respective shortcomings.

I wish you well in your continuous search.

Thank you brother.
Politics / Re: Jibrin: Two Governors To Save Dogara by obowunmi(m): 8:01am On Aug 08
kaen1317:
Would Jibrin he didn't know the budget was padded all along? Or is he a saint in the house? I think the fighting is about something else

He's an idiot.
Politics / Re: Jibrin: Two Governors To Save Dogara by obowunmi(m): 8:00am On Aug 08
I hope Jibrin gets killed and silenced.

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