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Religion / Re: Please Advise by obowunmi(m): 1:41am
Looool - you are the guardian angel. grin grin
Family / Re: What You Wanted To Become As A Kid by obowunmi(m): 11:11am On Apr 22
When the time comes, pls go and vote for me. cheesy smiley

I will become President of Nigeria.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 12:19am On Apr 22
Nothing truthful about your childish comments but you are entitled to it. angry angry
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 11:07pm On Apr 21
you'd be surprised how many of "us" have problems choosing.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 10:00pm On Apr 21
Don't be childish. I was expecting quality feedback.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 9:34pm On Apr 21
rebella: haba Obowunmi, you again?! honestly like Ewuro said I think you should look evaluate yourself and find out why you can't keep a relationship.

why are you haba-ing joor? angry angry
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 9:33pm On Apr 21
coogar:

stop fooling yourself.......
you just want to travel to hong kong without knowing what your friend does for a living. you should see episodes of banged up abroad - how longthroats like yourself were threatened to carry drugs in their tummies for drug cartels.

Don't be silly. angry angry
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 9:08pm On Apr 21
theLORDreigns:

Its alright.

Thought I read somewhere where you mentioned marriage intentions & possible disappointment if you were to find out she had another, so... 'love' came to my mind.

Check yourself, re-examine what your intentions are towards her. No, this isn't JUST about a visit. You said so yourself, you want more out of this. So, why? (Rhetorical)

I only want more because I'm single and nothing else. I will ask her if she is available. It appears this will save me my time.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 9:07pm On Apr 21
coogar:

it means shyte!
if you haven't seen anyone in 20-30 months, never ever trust them. you better forget the hong kong dreams & settle for one nigerian chic.

tpia is single & searching. you can start from her end. grin

pls this is not a comedic thread... I guess it's normal for Nigerians to be very skeptical.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:51pm On Apr 21
coogar:

caucasian in hong kong invited you? she's probably dealing in body organs. your liver, heart & duodenum must cost around $100,000 provided you aren't an alcoholic or a chain smoker.

give it a go. cheesy

hahahahaha - you're a clown bros! We went to the same college together.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:50pm On Apr 21
baby_123:

Hmm, why with her real name and details? Someone is not being honest. undecided

well I don't know - can't speak for her. Should I be worried?
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:26pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5:

Yes. = minus one sister off the market. cool

haha! you're loyal ooo ... glad to hear.
Romance / Re: I Want To by obowunmi(m): 8:23pm On Apr 21
Ok ooo
Family / Re: My New Girlfriend Is Taller Than Me by obowunmi(m): 8:21pm On Apr 21
hmm.... I have lots of issues with my girlfriends. How does that make me a female?
Family / Re: Its 2013 And I Am Still Single! by obowunmi(m): 8:17pm On Apr 21
itstpia: Is the op a scammer?


Have i stolen from you before? angry grin angry
Family / Re: My New Girlfriend Is Taller Than Me by obowunmi(m): 8:16pm On Apr 21
itstpia: Is the op actually male?

His topics seem more feminine than masculine.

A lot of blah blah, etc, sounds like the average female gossip.

Very masculine and NOT GAY. As my EXes.

How does the average female sound?
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:15pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5:

Doesn't matter , the point remains you're Nigerian and reside here. And all your effort to woo a good woman was futile which is somewhat weird.

In real life, my husband is even more arrogant and found his complementary match, that's no excuse. There's always someone for everybody.

Prayer bro and maybe see a shrink to assist you to put things in perspective for you. I'm serious. Take care & good luck.


Must I date Nigerian?
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:13pm On Apr 21
If we were still in college, I know I would have dated her, easily. But like I said before - she kept trying but I never paid attention to her. It's never too late.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:12pm On Apr 21
Chillisauce:

Go have some fun then. You are an adult. Who knows who you may meet and fall in love with. It can even be in the plane enroute to Hong Kong . Above all, have an open mind . You love might not be a Nigerian . Love surpasses tribe and race . All the best.

Thank you kindly. I appreciate this. I think I'm just a bit overwhelmed. embarassed embarassed
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:08pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5: Abi are you impotent?? lipsrsealed ... Eligible well to do Nigerian man stranded like this?? undecided


Not impotent - reproductive organs work very well.

Most of my EXes try to come back but once you leave me, there is no coming back.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:07pm On Apr 21
Chillisauce:

If she was simply your friend, of cos you can do that . But how well do you know this person to take such a risk. How are you sure you are the first she has invited for such trips. Not that I'm discouraging your long distance relationship but weigh your options before making a leap

you are right.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:07pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5:

Searching for a significant other in another mans land when you have millions beneath your nose , is what our society turned into.

In my days I had to recite mini mini mainimo to select from pool of luscious men.

There's no such thing as attract wrong people- check your inner self bro. I'm serious and worried bout you. undecided

Did you read the part where I said we went to college together? She'd come to see me during my time at school even when she had graduated.

In real life, I'm very arrogant. {hope that helps] grin
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 8:05pm On Apr 21
Chillisauce:

If she was simply your friend, of cos you can do that . But how well do you know this person to take such a risk. How are you sure you are the first she has invited for such trips. Not that I'm discouraging your long distance relationship but weigh your options before making a leap

Based on the chat that I posted previously, We've known each other since 2004.

I know this person well but we haven't connected since 2006.

I want to make it a friendship trip and just enjoy my time there. I'm staying at a hotel anyway so it's no big deal.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:54pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5:

And I'm not judging you neither against your choice. ( my bad if initially I did) Just beats me what our society has turned into. undecided

what has society turned into? I think I just attract the wrong people.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:52pm On Apr 21
It appears I just took everything so seriously for no reason. undecided undecided
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:51pm On Apr 21
Chillisauce: You want to fly to Hong Kong for a birthday invitation.? undecided

You have to know where your relationship is heading. You don't wanna get down there and find out she has a boyfriend . Get to know yourselves before taking any risk of flying to Hong Kong.

Thank you - if she was simply my friend? Can't I just go to see her and celebrate with her? Ok -I'll just forget it.

I was hoping we'd be able to talk in person though...
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:47pm On Apr 21
I'm sorry what don't you understand.

If you connect me to a good well-mannered eligible girl, I'll take her.

Have anyone?
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:41pm On Apr 21
baby_123:

Personally, i am a bit wary/suspicious of people that go on dating sites, it just reeks of some lack of interpersonal skills or being able to relate with people in the real world. Some desperation or other issues there. It is also a bit creepy to me. Just take it slow and get to know her, also talk about the dating site issue too. Whats up with that? That bad? Well maybe both of you are desperate grin grin grin. Sounds like a match made in heaven.

Apparently, she said she did it for her friend who was starting a dating website business and that I shouldn't take it so seriously.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:40pm On Apr 21
Brand_new: Did you say shopping abroad?
Yes. But not a big deal...
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 7:40pm On Apr 21
theLORDreigns:

Yup, you're definitely reading too much meaning into the 'single sentence' invite below.

Yes, you're sounding terribly desperate. I'm not sure why though...



Your chats reveal that 17/12/2013 22:59 was when your 'feelings' for her changed. That was when you said "What's the best number to reach you on? I'd like to talk or maybe Skype works better." LOL

Anyway, it sounds like you're more interested in what she does rather than in her as a person.
If this is the case, do not jeopardise your beautiful friendship by pretending to love her when you really don't. Relationships built on lies never ever last. Check yourself.

No, she's the one who said, "working on some really great stuff, I'd love to learn more."

Actually, I'm not interested in anything she does - I was just trying to keep the conversation going. cool cool

"love" never said anything about love....

I have her skype address but she's hardly on it.

Why should I check myself? I'm just asking about whether to go visit her or not.
Family / Re: Pls I Need Advice by obowunmi(m): 6:34pm On Apr 21
Ewuro5: This is serious, where are all Nigerian girls ??

Da fauk

God knows I've paid my price to our naija women. I've spent money, I've taken some people shopping abroad, (not bragging) but I've tried. I won't be stereotypical but it's time to move on.
Food / Re: Foods That Make You Smell by obowunmi(m): 5:30pm On Apr 21
Fish.

Onion.

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