Ashawoman82:
common keep shut, how can u hate men too much that u generalise any negativity u find in few men...

Zero sense as always.

Flangelo12:



Evening Newspapers.

Glad you recognise your pseudonym.

Stale...✌️

helinues:
NO

I hardly go out from my house, so that over stressing making the body to be oozing bad odour is not my thing moreover showering in the morning sometimes na war because of the cold not to talk of at night

Lol. I like you for being truthful.

Flangelo12:


Trust me.

We make the rules and there's absolutely nothing you can do about it.

Sadly you don't.
Ruĺemakers are not on NL obsessing over evening newspapers. There is a reason majority of the world's wealth is controlled by the so-called simps. No you don't. 🫂

Gerrard59:

The thing con dey sound like cognitive dissonance to me.

It is actually.
But they call it logic. It is what happens when you are hellbent on not being a fair human.

Flangelo12:


I was on the previous thread.

I said evening Newspapers such as yourself should be dumped.

Flangelo12:
Guy, when you go abroad, leave your Naija wife and marry another.
The problem wey she be wan give you before, you don dodge am.

This was what you said. So stop sounding like a broken record already. In the real world, men like you do not make the rules. So whatever you say, just like your UK uncle - is irrelevant.

Flangelo12:


Yeah, he'll be fired.

Or maybe simply cautioned.

Victory for evening Newspaper.

Nah, he won't be fired or cautioned.
Remember UK Police sent him? You were on the previous thread na. Where went all that energy?

Flangelo12:


Triggered.

Whatever helps your UK police uncle in this probe. 🤝

Flangelo12:


Now I see why they've been calling you evening Newspaper.

The real surprise would have been if you are capable of seeing anything sensible. 🤝

RealTrump:


This is just wrong n misguided anger towards the man.

He should go explain to the UK Police. 🤝

Laple0541:


If anyone kills, it’s obvious the killers are your brothers not mine. My brothers don’t kill, they only try to avoid toxic women who like to transfer aggression on every little issues.

Okay, when men kill, it is because women transfer aggression. But when they report una to police, una dey innocent? Penìs logic.

ivolt:

What if I find funny is that some of the readers who consider the cop a hero in the first thread
have now made a u-turn to claim he never discouraged women from reporting domestic issues.

If he really didn't say anything contrary to the UK's value, then why was he considered a hero
in the first place?

Given that about 99% of Nigerians, if I am not exaggerating, share similar view with him,
the man could become a YouTube sensation if he starts a marital advice channel.
So, your advice is spot on.

That is how they behave when cornered. Their comments on threads on rape, ritual killings and marital issues shows they know what they are cooking. Marriage is not compulsory. Marriage to Nigerian women is not compulsory. They can do without these things. But if you decide to marry, you must keep your hands to yourself. If you are tired, leave peacefully!

The supposed "good wife", if they get tired of her, majority would not willingly give her up to 30% of his asset. At that point all they will see is a WOMAN. All her record doesn't matter. We have seen how they react to elites giving some fortune to their wives even when it is these men that messed the marriage up. We see how they react to men who dump the wives of their youth. Very brutal set!

Laple0541:


So to you, anyone that doesn’t marry a Nigerian lady marries a white lady? You are absolutely wrong.

Btw, my submission was based on toxic happenings and occurrences Nigerian men face after such sponsorship. Though not all Nigerian women taken abroad by their husbands turn to a monster but I can categorically tell you a vast majority of them do. You may not understand though!

Oga, have you not seen how many women your brothers have killed this week alone? When will you comment on the vast majority of Nigerian men? Abi no be same una dey travel abroad?

Encourage your brothers to marry foreigners. I want to see more of such marriages. I want to see more Nigerian men with their foreign wives celebrating 40yrs anniversary. There has to be a reason I hardly see this. The marriage must be so sweet that these women do not remain with you guys until retirement. It is only to hail una for buying Henessey in SA and Kenyan clubs.

ivolt:

Unemployment is not a crime in the UK, so no husband can be reported for being jobless.
There are 2 categories of valid domestic issue reports, actual violence or threats of violence.
So, if a man is reported for sneezing as you insinuate, then there is no case!

What usually happens is that there is an argument over an issue, the one who loses
in the oral/insults contest(usually men) devolve into subtle or non-subtle threats. Some women believe
the threats(may or may not be credible, nobody knows) and go on to lodge complain. Others don't.

I would have been very sympathetic for the man's view if
1. He wasn't on uniform
2. He provided statistical evidence that shows that Nigerian women
make more frivolous reports than other groups in the UK.

My position is that it is wrong for a cop to discourage reporting for whatever reason.

They know fully well no woman would go report her husband for sneezing. Neither would any man be asked to stay away from his wife for sneezing. Agenda must agend and we can see how hard they sneeze with the reports of unalived women in Nigeria this week alone.

The man knows his country people and how they can misconstrue a statement, but he went ahead to say such fully clad in a police uniform. He should open a church or Youtube page for his teachings. That said, if any woman chooses to divorce her husband to fit into whatever culture, she would definitely find out the importance of teamwork in a hard way.

Laple0541:



You must be a prophet/ess! I did that already and we are blessed with children. I sleep with both eyes closed and I have no reason to think one omo ajóberi (opportunist) will call the police on me over trivial issue just to take over all I laboured for years before bringing her over.

I bet you are also very submissive and well-behaved. We see your videos on TikTok "My white wife tries egusi", "join me to make jollof for my white wife"

Keep it up and you will be fine. Also give same advice to your brothers to marry white women like you did. Don't tell them to create broken homes. Go abroad and marry there. 🤝

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.

You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

Don't marry a Nigerian woman at all. Go abroad and marry. Have your mixed kids with a white woman. They are the best. 🫂🫂

Hassanmaye:

Please and please Why can't women learn, the reason why I'm blaming you guys is because of your materialistic nature, you guys should please calm down, all that glitters is not gold

What materialistic nature?
Did the guy tell you he offered her money? Take a second to advise yourselves. You won't die if you do!!!!

He should come to Nigeria and open NL account to promote his gospel of ENDURANCE.

Anything you can't do to the white fossils y'all marry, don't try it with your Nigerian wife. Even SA wey una enter, una done dey beat those ones too. With una head like chandelier.

cococandy:
Stop abusing your wives and you won’t be reported.

Ask the women whose husbands don’t threaten them, hit them and don’t abuse them how many times they’ve called police on their men. Zero.

It’s not hard at all. Why would any woman want her loving sugar husband to be taken by the police? If it doesn’t follow common sense deductive reasoning, then you need to question it.

That’s all I’m saying.

He knows how women abuse report buttons. But he is on 15th moniker for insulting women. Do women report the responsible civil men on Nairaland? Ill-behaved mugus!

1Sharon:


Omg yes. This is all part of their agenda. They want to import the culture of keeping women silent here in the West. How malicious of this man.

It cannot work. They should marry white women. In fact, I want to see them marry more white women.

1Sharon:


Sis, any man that has to announce he's a good man is the direct opposite. Good men are truly humble about it and don't toot their own horn.

It is always how they act like they are desirable. Then go ahead to defend all manner of injustice against women. Any woman that falls into their trap would find out the hard way that they are the problem. Not UK, not feminism, not anything but them!

Ashawoman82:
poco, you bitterness for men intensifies year after year, you are getting old o.... Wether I like it or not, you must still submit to a man, what kind of comment is this?

How does this relate to the comment? Yenyenyen. Bitterness. What have you done for the sweet women in Nigeria? I keep asking.

As long as the man is not you and your kind here - it is perfect. Woe be unto the woman that submits to you demons. Focus on her.

Olatara:
Do you watch Yourview.

No sis. What is it?

Hassanmaye:
Oh my God, oh my God, What's this please? How many women killed by students this week alone? Why are women so stupid and easily deceived?

Of course, blame the woman. If his kind was reported in the UK, you will still blame women and tell men not to take women abroad like you have done in the other thread.

1Sharon:


Here we go.

I bet him and his kind littering NL with nauseating comments are the good guys we should go for. Same good guys they call simps.

Maybe the Nigerian police should also come address Nigerian men like the police addressed Naija women in the UK. After all, these are the same men japa'ing and acting innocent.

The solution is quite simple. Nigerian men in the UK should marry the white women there.

Nawa. Are we sure her head is okay? Who leaves a newborn alone for hours. Was she really hoping to come meet the child alive? 3 yrs in prison is small for this. Abroad is not designed for 1 person with kids. Very hard. Even harder for a struggling immigrant. She should have joined a Nigerian community. A church or something. I heard they have such and help each other babysit for a token.

Thankfully she is 19. Old enough to stay in prison for murder. How does a girl this tiny have mind to break bottle and stab someone?

EmekaBlue:
Please forgive my grammatical errors.

I would like to hear/read your take on this topic.Recently I noticed some of my married male friends are the ones who go to buy things in the market for the kitchen.

It isn't right or wrong. It depends on what model and arrangement works best for the family. It has been happening in some homes, but since you said it is recent, I guess it is deliberate to have these men see firsthand how expensive things are.

Sometimes men think you are exaggerating or stealing money. That could have worked Pre-Buhari, but not in 2024. Tell them to follow you and they will refuse. They rather stay home and scold you for not using 5k to cook in a week. Wives have advised themselves to allow men go to the market small. So they can understand women are not lying. Please let your friends do the market run.

bukatyne:


@ bold:

Nice to read.

Reminds me of a thread I opened talking about women keeping their nectar and some peeps twisted their knickers insisting I was talking about virginity.

Maybe the body of your post gave the impression of that . But if you explained and they chose to hold on to one narrative, you can't be blamed.

Please can I have the link to the thread?
Maybe I commented sef.

Modified: I have seen it. Let me read.

She died married.
Which is better than being a divorcee.

RIP to her...

tishbite42:

Old hag stop deceiving yourself
Single girls get killed too

Thanks for confirming we have a problem of men killing women. Both single and married. So you will agree with me being an old hag is safe in these perilous times.

tishbite42:

Lol
You're a divorcee
Men kill, women kill
Death can come any how and at any time
We pray for God's protection
Sorry for the uncomplimentary tag

If at all you are right, I am alive and that is what matters. Next time learn to focus on the topic. This is on a married woman who was killed. Not on singles or men. I bet you won't go on this emotional tantrum if I made same comment on a married man killed by his wife.

Your apology, just like your initial post means nothing to me. 🤝