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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Duplexxx: 8:18am On Apr 09, 2021
It really looks embarrassed chai
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by olamide0147: 8:38am On Apr 09, 2021
WoundedLamb:
You're asking NL people who never see anything wrong in whatever a man does? Lol... save yourself the time.

Your moniker says it all, I wonder what guys has done to u..... Lmao

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Liposure: 9:09am On Apr 09, 2021
I don't see anything wrong in what he did becos it was just an harmless action. Its you that is taking things serious.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by gregyboy(m): 9:49am On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:
Some weeks ago I was writing exams, the exams venue was one of the school's laboratory, and the stools were quite uncomfortable, if you've ever been to a school's laboratory you would know what I'm talking about and sometimes the stools are too high for the lab bench and it causes great discomfort. The most comfortable position for me after sitting erect on the stool for over an hour was to lower my back and arch it.

So as I was writing the exams, I can remember I was trying to draw a pathway, when the lecturer invigilating us tried to pass behind me and he touched my butt and said "shift this your small bumbum from the road" and laughed. I found it very offensive. I was so focused on writing that exam that I didn't want to answer him, it's not the kind of course students would like to write twice.

I wasn't the only one on that row who was blocking his path but he told the others merely to shift.

So today I was telling a friend about it and he laughed and said it was nothing. Nothing? Was it your butt that was touched? Right it wasn't and so it's so easy for him to say it is NOTHING. A stranger's hand on your butt is SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

What sort of world am I living in?

It was obvious you for give am slap, i hate men who cant control themselves

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Nobody: 9:52am On Apr 09, 2021
Offpoint1:
It wasn't sexual harassment, but 'small bum bum' adjustment, for a momentary free flow of movement.

To me if someone touches my azz, I see it as the same thing as touching my hands... They're all PART OF THE BODY.
so if a male lecturer touches your d*ck in class and says moves your small thing, how would you react?

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Haywiz1122: 10:27am On Apr 09, 2021
Guys let’s be reasonable here


The man has no excuse to touch her butt, that’s nonsense


For example if she was your high school lover and you saw the scene, now think about how it’ll damage you seeing an invigilator touch your babe butt.

Total disrespect no matter how old you guys think the OP is.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Reex12(m): 11:11am On Apr 09, 2021
na girls with small nyash dey always complain
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Offpoint1: 11:18am On Apr 09, 2021
LuciferO:
so if a male lecturer touches your d*ck in class and says moves your small thing, how would you react?
My tiny dxck can't obstruct free flow movement of a passing lecturer, no! Not possible. So, your assumptions can't stand.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Rocktation(f): 11:20am On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:


He had been behaving funny with me for quite sometime before the incident. Like calling me sweet names and being overly interested in my school work.

Ohooo...I knew what I was saying when I said to be careful, as they would be doing testing testing.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Nobody: 11:20am On Apr 09, 2021
Mahn..... This Nigeria crazy people up and down.
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Offpoint1: 11:22am On Apr 09, 2021
Teacher1776:

You are simply trivializing the issue here.
The writer ought to have sternly told the teacher she doesn't like being touch there.
The issue is worth trivialising. She let it glide with exam excuses, what happens after exams?

The issue is useless here to me and to the lecturer since she failed to let him know she's in intolerable to such manners.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Nobody: 11:26am On Apr 09, 2021
This one dey find who she go accuse of Rape and sexual harassment....Guys,Be Very Careful.
Normally,One strike might be a mistake until it's done repeatedly but you chose to ignore all that.
You for warn am na rather than coming here to form victim.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by lkillbrokehoes: 11:48am On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:


He had been behaving funny with me for quite sometime before the incident. Like calling me sweet names and being overly interested in my school work.
He actually wants to Fvck you, will you allow him
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by lkillbrokehoes: 11:52am On Apr 09, 2021
Offpoint1:

My tiny dxck can't obstruct free flow movement of a passing lecturer, no! Not possible. So, your assumptions can't stand.
cheesy
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by The5DME(m): 11:59am On Apr 09, 2021
[[s]quote author=Rocktation post=100620071]Eyaaa..ndo. It is a sexual misconduct and the perpetrator should be told off. But since you let it slide this time with the excuse of an exam, endeavour to avoid all scenarios that might see a repeat of such or worse still, an upgrade to a gross moral turpitude....

Because that is how they start. Testing Testing and fiamm, they launch a rapid surprise attack.[/quote][/s]

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Owain: 12:00pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:


Tueh! Not me.

I don't touch boys nyash only my fellow girls.
I don't understand..how can you proudly say you harass girls sexually but you want us to crucify someone else for doing the same thing you do without remorse??

Isn't that hypocrisy??

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Bestdesign05: 12:33pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:


Glycolytic.

I see you wink
Hope you killed the exam

Did that in my 100 level days in fsc111
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by stormborn28(m): 1:14pm On Apr 09, 2021
XXXXTENTACION:
Fvck it and move on.
I don't fvck 'it' . it is not Toto now
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by zagorakis(m): 1:59pm On Apr 09, 2021
my friend go and read your books.

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Nobody: 2:22pm On Apr 09, 2021
Offpoint1:

My tiny dxck can't obstruct free flow movement of a passing lecturer, no! Not possible. So, your assumptions can't stand.
didn't say you have a tiny dick, I said what if he said it that way just wanting to touch your dick

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by gregyboy(m): 2:31pm On Apr 09, 2021
lkillbrokehoes:
He actually wants to Fvck you, will you allow him


I want to Bleep your sister
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Offpoint1: 2:43pm On Apr 09, 2021
LuciferO:
didn't say you have a tiny dick, I said what if he said it that way just wanting to touch your dick
If he wanna, he should politely ask me and I'll let him...
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by rowland545(m): 2:58pm On Apr 09, 2021
U were writing exams on pathways and u were still blocking the man's way with ur small bumbum
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Apr 09, 2021
Offpoint1:

If he wanna, he should politely ask me and I'll let him...
nigga what?

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by KidDarkness(m): 5:17pm On Apr 09, 2021
zagorakis:
my friend go and read your books.
After euro 2004, nobody see your brake light again
Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by SavageResponse(m): 7:30pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:
Some weeks ago I was writing exams, the exams venue was one of the school's laboratory, and the stools were quite uncomfortable, if you've ever been to a school's laboratory you would know what I'm talking about and sometimes the stools are too high for the lab bench and it causes great discomfort. The most comfortable position for me after sitting erect on the stool for over an hour was to lower my back and arch it.

So as I was writing the exams, I can remember I was trying to draw a pathway, when the lecturer invigilating us tried to pass behind me and he touched my butt and said "shift this your small bumbum from the road" and laughed. I found it very offensive. I was so focused on writing that exam that I didn't want to answer him, it's not the kind of course students would like to write twice.

I wasn't the only one on that row who was blocking his path but he told the others merely to shift.

So today I was telling a friend about it and he laughed and said it was nothing. Nothing? Was it your butt that was touched? Right it wasn't and so it's so easy for him to say it is NOTHING. A stranger's hand on your butt is SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

What sort of world am I living in?

People here think nothing of it but in more advanced countries it is a serious offense

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by odysey: 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:


I've moved on it's just that I'm upset that my friend told me it's NOTHING.

Sad about your friend
I believe you should have said something in the hall

Do educate your friend about sexual harassment and how you feel about it mentioning to him that it could/may have happened to his sister or gf

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Lucrativress(f): 10:10pm On Apr 09, 2021
Hintona:
Some weeks ago I was writing exams, the exams venue was one of the school's laboratory, and the stools were quite uncomfortable, if you've ever been to a school's laboratory you would know what I'm talking about and sometimes the stools are too high for the lab bench and it causes great discomfort. The most comfortable position for me after sitting erect on the stool for over an hour was to lower my back and arch it.

So as I was writing the exams, I can remember I was trying to draw a pathway, when the lecturer invigilating us tried to pass behind me and he touched my butt and said "shift this your small bumbum from the road" and laughed. I found it very offensive. I was so focused on writing that exam that I didn't want to answer him, it's not the kind of course students would like to write twice.

I wasn't the only one on that row who was blocking his path but he told the others merely to shift.

So today I was telling a friend about it and he laughed and said it was nothing. Nothing? Was it your butt that was touched? Right it wasn't and so it's so easy for him to say it is NOTHING. A stranger's hand on your butt is SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

What sort of world am I living in?
So sorry
It was all shades of wrong, please next time,snap immediately, shout a "are you crazy" with full surprise, then turn and say oh sorry Sir,you have to react immediately.
On Monday while on my way to the Hospital in Ikeja,one dude touched my hand,I hate that stuff with passion,me that I use to do "God's child,immediately I turned and shouted " Are you crazy"! then I allowed my mind to later say ahn ahn..,not to now talk of my butt ah,even if it is small soo??
Are you freaking crazy??
Lecturer like are you crazy?
He has to be crazy,always make the reaction sudden,then I won't lie o,it won't leave my mind till I later go to the man and tell him "Sir,I was totally offended by what you did".
It is an offensive act,do not allow anybody here make it otherwise,please go to that Lecturer and tell him just how you feel about it..
Why the hell are you scared to do just that?

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by Lucrativress(f): 10:14pm On Apr 09, 2021
Please if you intend quoting me,don't bother
I have every right to react and tell you the enzymes in the brain that is disconnected.
I dress properly and prefer covering up,some people are just immorally nut,no matter how flat or ugly you are,they still touch you, this is totally bad,very wrong..

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Re: Isn't This Sexual Harassment? by zagorakis(m): 10:52pm On Apr 09, 2021
KidDarkness:

After euro 2004, nobody see your brake light again



lol..Retired but not tired cheesy

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