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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Candidlady: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2021
simp


TGR Is coming for you


MENace

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by kokkubabboni421(m): 8:45am On Aug 08, 2021
Brother run for your life
She knows what she’s doing and want to use you as bait. Women know what they want, she’s not just being decisive yet.. if I were you, I’ll stick to NwaAmaikpe’s advice.. women love to use simps but would like to marry an Alpha male who know what he wants

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by devigblegble: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2021
Do people still date ? Omo carry olosho go bang and focus on making money joor no time to waste all in the name of girlfriend boyfriend

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Nobody: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vagainarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.
This advise might be the only thing that might make u not make heavengrin

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Skepticus: 8:45am On Aug 08, 2021
Ammishaddai:
Bros ,she has a mental disorder that only money can cure . Get rich and you will see how her symptoms will change. Peace

Money can't keep a fickle biitch.

The wives of the richest men in the world like Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk divorced their husbands despite their wealth and even popular sexually-attractive male celebrities like Cristiano Ronaldo got cheated on.

Only ignorant men think money keeps a slût.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by MufasaLion: 8:47am On Aug 08, 2021
LMAO
See the trick she wanna pull on you. I hope you have money to change her fickle mind or shock absorber to hold yourself emotionally she ahe start her fickle behavior

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:47am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007
Call her if you love her. If you have sense of humour and you call her everyday she will be angry with you if decide not to call her in one day. Don't give up on her. She needs help and you can help her

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by DaddyRochie1642: 8:49am On Aug 08, 2021
She wants you to fight for her Love grin,

She wants to experience in real life what she has been watching on Zeeworld.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Blacknote: 8:50am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007 what's a username.
Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Nobody: 8:51am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:


It's difficult not to think of her!
Is her name Anita? grin

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by RZArecta(m): 8:51am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007
or maybe she just suffers from low self esteem. Be her friend, show her you'll always be there for her. Don't bring up the topic of relationship again

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by nokspos: 8:51am On Aug 08, 2021
she doesn't like you, its just an excuse
Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by PericomaNwankwo: 8:53am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007


Run o
Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Theoutsider: 8:53am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007

You heard what she said, but you didn't interpret it.

The is female talk for...

You are a nice guy.
You do nice things.
I should like you.
I am forcing my self to like you, but you are too nice.

There is a guy, he is not so nice.
He doesn't do nice things.
But he sexually makes me aroused.

There for I am conflicted and friend zone you.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by HundredWays(m): 8:54am On Aug 08, 2021
angry

Fuckery..
OP, listen!

I ever met such earlier this year, she's my spec too and she's super lovely and jovial.. Beautiful and coded.. But her weakness was her mood swing..

1. We were having a good time at a lounge then suddenly she said she's going home..

Me: baby you wanna go home now?
She: yes .. I'm going now
Me: damn.. What you gon do home now?
She: I need to go do some washing 'tomorrow Sunday..

2. I ever called her and left over 5missed calls babe never call back..
Chatted her that night and i was like:

Me: hi babe how went ya day?
I called you earlier you didnt respond to em..
She: yea, I wasn't in the mood to pick calls at that time.

3. Was in school and I called her

Me: hi babe where you at?
She: I'm in Lecture Theater 1E (LT 1E)
Me: aiit I'll be there in 7mins
She: OK babe..

10 mins later:
Me: Babe I'm in LT1E where you at?
She: I'm on my way home.. I waited for you but didnt see you..
Me: DROPS CALL!!

At that moment, I realized I was dating a FICKLE MINDED Person and it ain't helping my sanity..

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by pansophist(m): 8:56am On Aug 08, 2021
Telling you that she is fickle is like someone telling you that he is stupid. Humans don't do that. Normally it will be you that should find out if she is fickle or not. Telling you that she is fickle is a strategy to prevent you from personalizing her, also, and allow her to get away with potential bad behaviors. For example, she can choose not to pick your call for a week due to an away runs, and she will feel no sense of guilt or duty towards you. And what's worse? you dare not complain. Suck it up.

If you complain, she will remind you that she is fickle-minded, and has told you that from the beginning, which pushes the blame back on you for accepting her in the first place. If you continue the relationship, you will be squeezed into a position where you can only give her the carrot, but not the stick (meaning you can only shower with gifts and all goodies, but can't hold her accountable for anything). But look at the bigger picture. If she gives you that excuse, then you are not her first choice. Any woman that gives you a problem is most likely settling for you, and you as a man should accept nothing but the 'first and only choice.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Fiscus105(m): 8:56am On Aug 08, 2021
Explaining the word fickle just because you just come across it, believing others too never came across it, attaching relationship stuff with it in other to hit front page.
Now, mission accomplished. HURRAY!!!

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by omoadeleye(m): 8:57am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:


It's difficult not to think of her!



It's a matter of time,

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Ammishaddai: 8:57am On Aug 08, 2021
[s]
Skepticus:


Money can't keep a fickle biitch.

The wives of the richest men in the world like Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk divorced their husbands despite their wealth and even popular sexually-attractive male celebrities like Cristiano Ronaldo got cheated on.

Only ignorant men think money keeps a slût.
[/s] Never compare the symptoms a black bitch suffers to the reasoning faculties of a white woman . Both are different cases of stupidity .

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by onlinestaff2020: 8:58am On Aug 08, 2021
She is not emotionally balanced for a stable relationship.

Fickle minded in the sense that she can stab you in the chest with a knife and still stab you 35 times all over your and conclusively feed your dikk to the dogs.

Please, don't unleash the beast in her as she is trying not to bring the werewolves outta of her.

My best suggestions is that you should diss her and stay alive.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by od501: 8:58am On Aug 08, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vagainarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.

Legend!

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Skepticus: 8:58am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:


It's difficult not to think of her!

The moment you worry about losing a biitch, you already lost her. With, this girl, if you think you are in love, you are just a fool. This is how young men set up their lives to be wasted by useless women.

You claim not to be a SIMP but your actions prove you to be one - a guy who puts a woman or vagina above his happiness, and purpose.

The problem is not the girl but you. As a matter of fact, she is being honest with you by telling you she is fickle (empty, impulsive and stupid) which is what a lot of girls are, to the purpose of men - time wasters. Most girls will never tell you this but continue to lead you, taking whatever they can from you till they drop your pathetic ass. Men like you think they are in love but not knowing that they are dating themselves.

Her use of the term FICKLE (or being Bi-Polar) is another tactic women use to escape responsibility or being held accountable for her bad behaviours. She could be cheating on you but when caught, will run back to "I already told you that I'm fickle" while you continue to suffer in silence. Also, she may truly be bipolar and trying to let you know indirectly that is impulsive, thinking less of her actions - true signs of an undateable woman.

By the way, you should have had sex with her and moved on because that is what she seems to be useful for. She either wasn't feeling your vibe or wanted to fûck but you were too dumb looking for "official relationship" like a lot of boys do, when they have no sex game and ignorant of the true nature of women. It's late now. Delete and move on to better prospects.

Omicron007, if you still have any dignity left as an human being, a functional brain and a sensible child to the family that raised you, take your losses and move on, cutting that slût from your life.

Putting all your financial and emotional investment on this lady will end in premium tears.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Myer(m): 8:58am On Aug 08, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vagainarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.
The ever sagacious one.
Nothing to add or delete. You've said it all.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by QueenVaji: 8:59am On Aug 08, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vagainarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.

everything here is true

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by TheKingIsHere: 8:59am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007

She has warned you about her situation and here you are behaving like a SIMP!

Either you leave her and move on or you bear the consequences and come later on to cry about it

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by The5DME(m): 8:59am On Aug 08, 2021
pansophist:
Telling you that she is fickle is like someone telling you that he is stupid. Humans don't do that. Normally it will be you that should find out if she is fickle or not. Telling you that she is fickle is a strategy to prevent you from personalizing her, also, and allow her to get away with potential bad behaviors. For example, she can choose not to pick your call for a week due to an away runs, and she will feel no sense of guilt or duty towards you. If you complain, she will remind you that she is fickle-minded, and has told you that from the beginning, which pushes the blame back on you for accepting her in the first place.

How are you so intelligent?

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Skepticus: 9:00am On Aug 08, 2021
Ammishaddai:
[s][/s] Never compare the symptoms of a black bitch suffers to the reasoning faculties of white woman . Both are different cases of stupidity .

Women are the same all over the world. Money attracts women. It doesn't keep them.

If you think money keeps women, I'm sorry for you in advance.

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by SenecaTheYonger: 9:00am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007

By the time you fvck that fickle girl and the next period when she don’t like you she accuse you of rape na then your eye go open

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Komu1048(m): 9:00am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:


It's difficult not to think of her!


And u say u no be simp, a girl u just met fa

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Re: The Girl I Am Trying To Date Is Fickle-Minded! Please Help by Lexusgs430: 9:01am On Aug 08, 2021
Omicron007:
Hello fellow Nairalanders,
There's this girl I really like. She's my spec and we just clicked and became good friends.
I actually met her at an event and we exchanged numbers.
I did all the necessary follow ups and we connected.
We have gone swimming, outings and I have invited her over to my place like three times.
We have great conversations, kisses and all that, but no sex.

She called me recently and told me I need to leave her alone because she is Fickle minded.

I went through the internet to research more about fickle minded people.

According to vocabulary.com, People who are fickle change their minds so much you can't rely on them. If your best friend suddenly decides that she doesn't like you one week, and then the next week she wants to hang out again, she's being fickle.
Fickle comes from the Old English word ficol, for deceitful. We usually use fickle to talk about people, but it can also be used for abstract things that alternately favor you and abuse you, like the weather. If you win the lottery and then lose everything else in the world that's important to you, fate is being fickle.



I am now confused. Should I persuade her because I want her to be my girlfriend.
I am not a Simp and I don't want to be all around her if she is truly fickle minded.

Help a bro.
Your comments are highly anticipated.

©Omicron007


Leave her alone ........... She is your spec, but you're not her spec .......... grin

If you persist on this journey, premium tears is loading......... wink

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